Update on Jayden Lenescar
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Today I am going to post stories about children whose mothers betrayed them. I already have three, so I will begin.
Jayden will be first, because this will be an update to an already existing story. I originally posted about him here. If you will recall, he was beaten to death by his mother and her live-in penis. The bio-dad has now come forward to say that he doesn’t believe she beat their son – I guess he thinks it was all the boyfriend. Assuming I believed that – which I don’t – that still means she stood there and allowed the BF to beat her son senseless (betrayal #1). Then she kept Jayden home from school for two days because of the bruising (betrayal #2). Then she kept the bio-dad from talking to or visiting his son during the two day period it took little Jayden to die (betrayal #3). Then she kept him from getting necessary medical treatment (betrayal #4). This sorry excuse for a mother had no less than FOUR opportunities to save her child’s life – and she did NOTHING!!!
Now, all of that aside,the really shocking new development in this case is that there has now been a reason given for the beating (one that doesn’t involve spirits or other imaginary friends telling her to do it, that is). She helped to beat her son to death, because………HE PLAYED WITH HIMSELF!!!!
Can I have a WTF moment here? WHAT. THE. FARK. I feel like somebody just punched ME in the stomach. They killed the boy for doing something that ALL little boys do. I have a son, and it only took me a couple of months to figure out that the ‘crotch grab’ you see males doing frequently – is GENETIC! It freaking has to be, because by 2 months old, every time I changed his diaper, one (or both) of his little hands would gravitate toward his exposed wee-wee. It was like his penis exerted a gravitational pull on his hands. Any other moms with boys out there want to back me up on this? How old were your sons before you noticed the first attempts at a pee-pee pull? Geez, people! Boys have one. They play with it. It’s a fact. It’s not bad, or evil, or something to ‘beat out’ of them. My son is 3 1/2 now, and doesn’t do that as much anymore, but I still catch him at it occasionally – bath time mostly. That seems to be his favorite ‘bath toy’. LOL. He likes it even more than his boats or bucket.
Oh, yeah….Jayden’s beating was administered in a bathtub. Apparently Myrna struck the first few blows, and then Steven took over, because he thought she wasn’t beating the boy hard enough. Maybe the two killers will learn all about ‘bathtime beatings’ when they get their permanent accommodations courtesy of the state. Stevie-boy will probably be shown how to play with his, too. Or have it played with by others. Or be made to play with others. Or something like that. I’m sure the female inmates will find a substitute ‘bath toy’ for mommy as well.
Disgusting – both of them.
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November 2nd, 2009 at 10:40 am
Yes that little wee wee does have a gravitational pull to a little boy’s hands, although my little guy doesn’t play with it in the tub, he likes his tub toys better I think. I just tell him (and yes, it is just tell him in a reasonable, calm tone of voice, I don’t mind him doing it, I just want to teach him that there is a proper time and place) he shouldn’t do it in front of other people, and should only do it in his room, so he doesn’t do it as much when I change him, and will hopefully remember it when he’s older (he’s almost three now). I guess they assumed he was being depraved or something, although it’s really just innocent curiosity on their part (for the most part they don’t see it unless they are being changed or going potty, or taking a bath, and little kids want to play with anything ‘new’ to them, that’s one way you keep interest up in their toys, cycle through them every couple of weeks, and they seem new again).
I wonder, does the BF never whack off? He should be beat to death the next time he does that, since that’s what they did to that sweet little boy. I really hate it when stupid idiots kill children for doing what kids do, which is try to learn about their world, these idiots assume the kid is doing it to be nasty, or disrespectful, or stupid, and really they are just trying to figure out how the world works. We aren’t born knowing all we need to know, or our heads would be so large we wouldn’t be born at all.
November 2nd, 2009 at 10:57 am
Mother of a boy AND a girl here & yes…it’s normal. In FACT – the pediatrician TOLD me what ages it would be common & she was right on. Little boy is now 5 & little boy has a special love for his wee-wee. He talks about it – he flaunts it – he touches it. He thinks everyone else should be as enthralled as he is.
I’m not making excuses. I never would. It’s just that these are very ignorant people who never even TRIED to learn. It was common “back in the day” to treat masturbation as a “naughty” thing – this was passed down to them – this ignorance.
November 3rd, 2009 at 8:51 am
I have a girl, nine months today, and even she every now and then during a diaper change just grabs a handful. I’ve never understood these freaks that have mental breakdowns over natural curiosity and when the child is older just plain natural biology. It’s like beating them to death for coughing. Ass-holes.
November 5th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
Should have seen the time my little boy’s girl cousin was visiting (she’s 5 months younger than him). They were both curious, since each one had something the other hadn’t seen before. thank goodness all the adults in our house are smart enough to understand it was just natural curiosity or else there would have been a major freakout on someone’s part.
November 2nd, 2009 at 1:51 pm
yep–count me in- I have little boys & “that’s what little dudes do”: (line from the movie Parenthood)They are both very small but I learned quickly that when little boys and girls for that matter it’s equivalent to a back rub…they do it b/c it feels good not b/c it’s a sexual thing-Never would I embarrass my boys much less lay a finger on them for something like this-
These people make me sick. They deserve everything they get and more.
November 2nd, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Agreed. I have two sons and they both considered their penises great play toys. They’re grown now, and I suspect they still grab them when they can. I’ve never known a man who didn’t.
November 2nd, 2009 at 2:57 pm
My son is 8 and STILL pokes and pulls at it. I happend to know, from having a 16 year old nephew, that the poking and pulling is only going to get more frequent.
I can only hope that these two get shown the error of their ways…. Soon.
November 2nd, 2009 at 4:12 pm
If every little boy who played with themselves was beaten for it there would no men. Parenting is learned. These people were probably beaten for minor infractions as children too. Or they’re twisted freaks. My boys make me want to pull my hair out, but I would never harm them. Cowards are people who harm defenseless people. They deserve to rot.
November 2nd, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Yes, 2-year old boy and another boy on the way! Lemme tell you, they find that wee-wee before they find mommy’s boob! My son’s been fascinated by his since he was 9 months old. It’s his favorite bath toy too, and I swear he talks to it! Heck, it’s my husband’s favorite toy too
This has got to be the single most disturbing thing I’ve ever read – well, not really I’ve read worse. I wish I haven’t though… *sigh* I find it hard to believe that there are so many sick, twisted unmotherly mothers out there.
November 2nd, 2009 at 6:57 pm
I also have a two year old and another little boy on the way, and I just can’t wrap my head around beating a little boy to death over it.
I told my husband about this case, and his reaction was WTF, and how there should be an automatic immediate death penalty for stupid stuff like that.
November 3rd, 2009 at 5:52 pm
I agree with your husband… it’s like this poor little guy was being punished for being a boy. And boys are such a joy… if only his mommy gave him a chance!
November 2nd, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Just read the article… so who beat the poor child then? They’re both saying they’re innocent… is anyone really buying this BS?! They make me sick…
Although, I disagree with the ‘he touched himself to tell his mother he was being molested’ part. That’s really difficult to proof and sending the wrong message. This can freak out a new mother of a little boy. We all know they do it, and some do it excessively for comfort… poor little Jayden might have gone overboard with the touching because he was feeling insecure and scared.
November 2nd, 2009 at 6:47 pm
I also agree! I am a mother of 5 boys and each and everyone did it and still do it. She was better off with no reason at all. There has to be a special place for these a$$holes when they leave this life!
November 2nd, 2009 at 8:31 pm
Geez, if it bothers them so much the thought of a male touching his penis, then the BF had better get his removed. Because he’ll be the only one touching his dick in prison – that is if he’s lucky.
My 5-year-old has been grabbing the joystick since he figured out how to make his hands go where he wanted them to at about 3 months old. In fact, it was the FIRST thing he learned to grab onto. Who wants to play with any other toy when you’ve got something so interesting right there at your disposal?
November 2nd, 2009 at 9:01 pm
I have two boys, but the second is only 5 months old and still more interested in his toes than in his penis. But I can definitely confirm that it’s innate. I don’t really think it ever stops, but they do eventually learn how to keep that behavior private. Hell, if I had one, I’d play with it. How fun to have a toy so nicely appended to your body. Too bad it doesn’t make noise, though.
There is nothing either of my sons could ever do that would make me feel OK about either beating them or watching someone else beat them. We don’t have an absolute ban on spankings or slaps on the wrist or that kind of thing, because sometimes that little sting is the only thing that gets them to pay attention, but beating is a whole different kettle of fish, and there’s nothing a 5-year-old could ever do to deserve it. These sorry pieces of shit deserve a beating, though, that’s for sure.
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:24 am
The more I read these articles the more I becoming convinced these eggshells and seedlings beat their children, leave them in the hot car “accidentally”, in efforts to rid themselves of the child. It not longer seems JUST like an anger issue. Child abuse has a new face now I think and it’s developing into “premeditated Murder One”.
Another great article from Angel!
November 3rd, 2009 at 9:58 am
Thanks, KT!
November 3rd, 2009 at 11:30 am
I’ve had 21 kids in my house. 15 have been boys. They can’t leave themselves alone. My son once reached down during his bath and stretched his (amazing elasticity in those things) and asked me why it did that (stretched so much. I have to be honest, I didn’t know what to say so I picked up a bath toy and changed the subject. I have often asked the boys if they need to pee, and if they say no, then I tell them to please let go of themselves in public.
I have grown co-workers who aren’t even aware of the fact that they are often “adjusting” themselves. Sometimes I want to say… Yes.. it’s still there. You don’t have to keep checking for it.
I have noticed in children that were victims of abuse, that they seem to be more “obsessed” with it than children who haven’t been. Maybe this child was frequently touching himself because there’s more than just a physical beating that was going on. But, unless someone confesses, we’ll never know.
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:39 pm
Your welcome, but you deserve it Mr. Green!
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Kathy, coming from a female point of view, that “thing” does seem like it would be awkward, need adjusting, always bobbling around like that. And apparently, the “testes” itch alot too…..ok, I’ve said enough….
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:54 pm
Gravitational pull, too funny, but true! And as everyone has said, PERFECTLY NORMAL.
November 5th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
Reading this article upset me so much. They beat that poor little boy until he urinated blood. My God what monsters! This little boy had a Father and Paternal Grandparents who cared so deeply about him. He was a beautiful boy. It just makes me weep.
November 7th, 2009 at 1:49 am
When a little boy does this, there is absolutely nothing wrong or sexual about it!! It’s just curiousity….and it’s perfectly natural. Yes, it may make us a little uncomfortable but, not enough to beat our children. I just explained to my son that since it’s a private part of his body, he should only touch it in private. This story is just completely unfathomable to me. I cried when I read this.
November 13th, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Yes, my son does it too. He turns 2 on December 5th. Can’t remember when he started.
What really gets me is that, when he’s got really runny poo, and I’m trying to get his bottom all cleaned up, he likes to wrap his hands on his butt, usually managing to touch some poo I haven’t gotten to yet, lol! Drives me bats. I then chase his hands with baby wipes, in fear those fingers are going back in his mouth.
Bleah.
He sometimes also goes for his wee-wee while on the changing table. But he seems to do it most often also when I’m trying to clean up poo… and if there’s any poo that migrated to the wee-wee area.
I think he’s reaching for his poo-covered-privates because he knows he can get a rise out of me! Harrumph. He’s pushing my buttons, lol!
Then again, maybe it’s just that it takes longer to change diapers when you have to clean up a butt first. Longer window of opportunity.
He kind of pokes his wee-wee at bath time, but otherwise leaves it alone. He likes splashing water out of the tub onto the floor (***SIGH***), and playing with his bath toys better. For now, anyway.
While we’re on such a weird subject, it amazes me how gentle we’ll be with our husband’s, ‘er, wee-wees, and yet how rough they will happily be with it! Sometimes my husband contorts his in odd ways in front of me, just to see me shudder!
Anyway, yeah, the baby-exploring-their-genitalia thing is totally a curiosity thing.
November 13th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
have you seen the penis puppeteers? Its 2 naked me in capes that do all sorts of stuff. Sounds gross but I think it’s hilarious- I almost peed my pants once i got over the inital shock. but hey, it may just be my kind of sick humor
November 18th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
Sarah, yeah, I saw them once. Can’t remember if it was on TV, or YouTube, or some other website.
The stuff they did was HYSTERICAL, lol.