Good Samaritan:4, Bad Mother:0
Amber Lee Gandy, 25, of Grand Ronde, Oregon, likes to drink and then go joyriding with her babies in the car. Allegedly. Charges are expected to be filed concerning the accident in which she flipped her SUV upside down in Widow Creek with her children, 2-year old Kylie Gandy, 3-year old Austin Gandy, and six-month old Kameron Gandy in the vehicle.
Luckily, a neighbor happened upon the wreck and was able to extract Kylie and Austin, and the mother. It took a few more minutes before the incubator remembered that she had a third child, who was still in the vehicle, underwater. The hero waded back in to the creek, but by the time he got the baby out, Kameron had no pulse and was not breathing.
Medical personnel managed to revive the infant and he was life-flighted to another hospital in critical condition, and his prognosis has improved since then. No thanks to the idiot who thought that getting her drink on was more important than keeping her kids alive.
Where do these selfish hootchies come from? And why do they have babies that they have no intention of taking proper care of? How hard is it to stay sober, anyway? I do it all the time, so it can’t be that hard. Just say no. Just another public service announcement from your neighborhood crime prevention specialist, Captain Obvious.
I have yet to find an article that gives Amber’s BAC, but the wording in one of the articles makes me wonder if alcohol was the only thing she was under the influence of. According to the second article linked above, “an investigation by the Sheriff’s Office and Oregon State Police revealed that Amber Gandy was under the influence of intoxicants and that alcohol was a contributing factor of the traffic crash.” If alcohol was listed as a ‘factor’, and she was under the influence of ‘intoxicants’ (plural), that leads me to believe that there were other substances that she tested positive for, as well.
Oh, and did I mention that she was driving on a suspended license? Yeah. It has been suspended since 2007. I bet it wasn’t suspended for anything as minor as unpaid traffic tickets, either. Something tells me that this ain’t her first rodeo, if ya know what I mean…..
And just so I don’t get slammed by the ‘double standard’ police….where in the HELL was the father? Surely he knew her license were suspended, and that she had a drinking problem. So why were the kiddies in the car with her? So many questions….anybody have any answers?
I sincerely hope they throw the book at this lush, and keep her away from her kids for a good long time. Like, until they are old enough to drive themselves around.
I’d like to thank Calvena for this tip.
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December 12th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
Alright girls, since we have all made nice with Keven, and he knows and understands that we don’t like his wifey, is now a good time to let him know that I am the queen? Just asking. Where’s the lie detector? I missed that action. Someone who wants to call Keven out but can’t use their real name…. There’s a credible person. I think I’ll be over here on Keven’s side since he isn’t hiding behind a screne name for the soul purpose of talking shit.
JJ, Karen…. It’s about 50 degrees here right now. A little rainy, but warm(ish). I have thoughts of draggin out my surfbord becuase this sort of weather make for nice swells. But it also stirs muck and trash up in the bay. What a pickle…. Fuck it. A little Christmas shopping and some afternoon surfing should mak April happy. Keven, the offer stands for some hot beach babe ass. I know some good divorce lawyers. Whatever you need, hon. Queen April is here for you.
December 12th, 2009 at 2:21 pm
Kevin,
I am just wondering what took you so long to say that this “AMBER” was not your wife? come on dude, I for one would have made that comment after her first blog, not 90 blogs later. Do you really think that we have STUPID written accross our face? You are a little to late to try and say that this is not your wife, some of us no. so instead of trying to “COVER” why don’t you just make sure that she understands that she was not to smart with her chioce of words.I can only speak for myself, but i really do hope that the baby is well, and that you can all get through this, but cover ups are to late.
December 12th, 2009 at 3:58 pm
well chief it’s like this. i have other things in my life going on such as my family so i’m sorry if i do not open my laptop daily and see the intelligent comments made by all here. so to all do not be alarmed if i do not comment on something for days at a time it could be that i am consumed by…. whats that word? oh yeah Life. I have a list of priorities and sorry folks this blog IS at the bottom of it. i do thank you for your concern for my son. please say a prayer for his full recovery it will be a long road. And i will be by his side holding his hand every step of the way.
December 12th, 2009 at 7:24 pm
Keven, ignore the trolls. Even if it is Amber, don’t let it be a reflection of YOU! You just keep commenting…. We all have out opinion of Amber and some worthless troll isn’t going to make it any worse… It can’t get much worse. But I, for one, kinda like you. Hang around for a bit.
December 12th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
Troll? Hmmm , I wonder if maybe Amber and April are actually one in the same? by the way they talk, its sounds like it.I think most people on this blog have been to busy coming up with filth, that they forgot that there is a small child that is needing help, and if more people would put that energy into maybe lets say “prayer” for the baby and the parents, then maybe people would not be lashing out in this manner.
December 12th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
thank you for your positive remarks curious there is no such thing as too many prayers. and my family will continue to need them for many months. i have an excellent support system through family and friends. in fact i never knew i had so many friends. it’s remarkable actually. and i thank god for my friends and family daily. trust me when i say we all can learn something from all this. there is so much that we take for granted everyday. I ask everyone out there give a loved one maybe your child an extra sqeeze tonight. they deserve it. let this serve as a reminder that it can all change in the blink of an eye. it did for me. Till next time enjoy your friends and your family live everyday like it could be your last. goodnight
December 13th, 2009 at 1:05 am
Yep, Amber and I are the same person. So insightful. I guess I’ll tuck my tail between my legs and hide now. Pathetic loser. Work on your grammar. My 8 year old can form more correct “written” thoughts. He also knows when to us “no” and “know”, as well as when to use “to” and “too”. You might want to work on that if you want people to take you serious.
December 13th, 2009 at 10:02 am
You are to, too, two, smart. I failed to realize that you could not make any grammer error’s on this blog. oh gosh this is really something that needs great thought.Please people turn your prayers towards me, pray that i can remember what to, two, too use. LOL
December 13th, 2009 at 11:02 am
I really don’t care about your grammar. I care that you are a moron. Link my name to my myspace page and you will see that I am NOT Amber. Just because I don’t have a problem with Keven, does not make me that twat. I ust think if you want to talk shit to someone, it would make you mor credible (and less chicked shit) to NOT do it behind a screen name. Look – I’m using my REAL NAME. I’ve linked my REAL myspace page. Several members on this site email me or even CAL me!!! I am who I say I am – and yet, I am not afraid to post what’s on my mind – no matter who gets butt hurt over it. So, you want to talk shit to Keven or about him, or be an asshole to me, bring it or shut the fuck up. Your boring me.
ANGEL!! I need a new plaything. This one is broken!!!
December 13th, 2009 at 11:40 am
what a catch youd make,perfect grammer,perfect punctuation,and quite the”lady”and ill bet you never got your mouth washed out with soap. shame on your mama.
December 13th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
I’m a fantastic catch, actually. My husband is super hot – can have his choice of womene and He choses me. Perfect in every way. NO one else’s opinions matter. Just hubby’s.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:29 am
darin: ‘Grammar’ is spelled with an ‘a’(two, actually) not an ‘e’.
December 13th, 2009 at 1:55 pm
No I did not use my real name simply because I am a concerned family member and starting a family feud is not something that I am interested in, especially not with these circumstances. You can all think what you want, you will anyway.
There are several of you who have seemed to take Keven under your wing….It’s amazing how someone can make themselves out to be something they are not….don’t you think?
I’m absolutely nauseated at the person he has portrayed himself as. You all think that Amber is this horrible person and rather I agree or not is besides the point…
Maybe Keven should man up and explain to everyone how he has beat his wife, the gun incident, the making his two year old daughter piss in a cup so he could pass a UA…… Hmmm…stand up guy. Oh wait, lets not forget about the drinking and drug abuse….oh wait he said he doesn’t do drugs or drink. Keven don’t forget that it isn’t only strangers that read or comment on these blogs.
Maybe rather than trying to make yourself look good to everyone else, you should strictly focus on Kameron and nothing else. That little boy will need a lot of love and care. Hopefully he can get that from the parents he has.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:00 am
We haven’t taken Keven under our wing. We just tend to lean toward the family member (or defender) that doesn’t come on her posting rmbling non-sense and makeing themselves look like an ass. See – you are almost there. once you start defending Amber, I will lose resect for you. As for the allegations against Keven, can you link the booking info or another source as to his illegal activity? It adds to your credebility.
December 13th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
Concerned family member:
My hats off to you. You were willing to speak your mind, and yet still keep it clean.”as it should be” I really wish that if people are going to feed into this blog, that they also could keep it focused on the situation at hand, “THE BABY”
December 13th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
concerned family member: i’m a little confused…is the baby still in the hospital or has he been released? if he’s been released,soes his father have him at home? what is his condition at this point and do they think he’ll make a full recovery or was the accident (being submerged for too long)going to leave him with permanent disabilities? my prayers are with him and his siblings also….they’re all so young and the baby will need so much care…it’ll be alot to handle.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:51 am
Let me get this straight, maybe somebody on here can clarify this for me. So someone here believes that April is actually Amber in some form of a clever disguise???? Well April claims to have an “8yr. old that can provide better written thoughts” Does Amber have an 8 year old? I am no investigator in fact I often feel that I don’t pay enough attention to detail, but I do suppose that I could be on to something. That would make sense to me actually, my reason being that this would make Keven and April/ the alleged Amber the two most frequent people blogging on this site. HMMMMM just something to ponder.
December 14th, 2009 at 9:55 am
Oooo, April. You’re cheating with Keven? I’m telling.
December 14th, 2009 at 11:59 am
Wow – That is awesome. Head on over to the Randy Piercy thread. I was accused of being Dan Boswell on that one. Oh, and Rhanda Sue someone or other that Nancy hated. Who can I be tomorrw??? Angel, a hand here!! What are some of the names on the Deomontrell thread??? QUIICK!!!!
For the record – I have one child (not 5) and 8 year old boy who will be 9 in January. My husband’s name starts with a K (but is not Keven) and we have been married for 12 years. I live in California (not Oregon). I have NEVER been to jail (more that I can say for Amber). The last car i wrecked was a Mustang (not an SUV) when I was 20. I’m in my 30’s, not 20’s. I’m 5′5, 130 pounds, blonde hair, blue eyes, my shoe size is 8 1/2, I like surfing and long walks on the beach, I hate baby rapers and child abusers. I think that pretty much covers it. Do you stil think I’m the demolition derby twat, Amber?
Oh, an I don’t like pb&j….. Not really. I am more of an almond butter kinda girl.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:04 pm
See, Angel – no f-word!! I CAN do it!
December 14th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Somebody, give that girl a cookie!
December 14th, 2009 at 1:01 am
amber like pbj, april doesn’t.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:38 am
Ummmmmmm…..WHAT!?!? I think you got that backwards, hon.
December 14th, 2009 at 2:26 am
whew see what happens when i don’t log in for a day? well lets start from the top shall we. i used to do my share of drinking and pot smoking. there is a key word in there used to and i alone without the help of any child would be more than happyto give a UA or perhaps a blood sample would be a bit more effective. never once have i had my daughter kylie pee in a cup. ummm…. gun charge… Guilty. it would seem 3 years ago before i quit drinking like a fish i had a few too many and got into a fight with the wifey and told her i was going to shoot myself. i then grabbed a 30-30 winchester and proceeded to the back yard. where i shot into a large tree. amber paniced and called 911 thinking i had shot myself. (stupid). can i say it again STUPID. i have never tried to make myself out perfect because i am a far cry from that.the night was a blur. that is what opened my eyes to who i become when i drank. 3 years and court ordered treatment does a wonder for some ohawe shucks you forgot to mention that i actually enrolled in college to become a drug and alcohol counselor must have slipped your mind. also i need to be more focused on Kameron? you just tell me how. you think because i get online and blog i am not…fuck you. i bet you would really shit if you knew i got on ebay and craigslist too huh. i am totally focused on him if i wasn’t i’d probably be at a titty bar having a stiff drink picking a fight with some dude. don’t know where you have been for the past 3 years…. oh wait yeah i do. but i have grown and learned from the mistakes i have made. still sleeping with men down the street?…oops cats out of the bag. but you know honestly i am having a hard time focusing on all my kids. we are 66 miles away from each other. but hey guess what i’m doing in the morning. going home sending them to school picking up milk and diapers doing the best i can under these circumstances. then what after that you may ask? i’m coming back to the hospital to learn how to do physical therapy at home. SO YOU SAY TO FOCUS ON KAMERON AND NOTHING ELSE? i understand the severity of the situation with him more than anyone but at the same time i’m not going cast aside my other children they need me now more than ever as well. so if your so fucking knowledgable and focused and concerned where the fuck are you? oh oh oh i know. enough of that shit i’m done with you. Karen you actually seem more concerned than this so called family member. so here is the scoop he is here at the hospital until the end of the coming week we were supossed to be going home friday of last week but they changed some of his meds and wanted to monitor him for a bit… as far as a full recovery…hard to say that is what i’m aiming for with all the PT OT and ST and any other therapy we can be involved in. docs can’t say anything other than it’s a miracle he is here today. and only time will tell. i hate that. i can tell you that from my point of view he is doing amazing. he is still in a neck brace from some torn ligaments (spellcheck) in his neck pretty minor when you see the damage the truck had. but the big thing is the brain. all of his eeg’s looked good mri looked good so did the first ct scan. one week later it showed the brain slightly shrank. so there is going to be some cell lose. the brain docs i’ve spoke with say there is no large areas of the brain damaged. that it is most likely overall cell lose. and also the brain is good about compensating these kinds of things. so overall nobody knows but Kameron when he gets there. and despite what the concerned so called family member is concerned i will be by his side every baby step of the way and thats a promise………………oh REALLY we don’t have an 8 yo we do have a 7 a 5 a 3 a 2 and a 7 mo. old and i am who i am if i wasn’t why would i say i am…
December 14th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Punctuation? Koolaid? Popcorn? Come on people, I thought this was about a child. I keep telling myself that i will not get caught up in this, but certain people make it so easy.
Oh gosh is everything spelled properly? LOL
Last i heard the baby is doing better. for those that were wondering.
December 14th, 2009 at 11:28 am
Kevin, I bet you could sell ice cream to an Eskimo.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:13 pm
Keven, please keep us posted on the kids. I hope they can move past this quickly. Make sure to spoil them for Christmas. They deserve it.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
you got it.
gonna have to take an hour or to too two and shoot down to toys r us. get some final goodies for them. and trust me they are very spoiled no thanks to my mom. everytime she takes them somewhere she has to get them something… wait thats just like my grandma and me. thank God for family traditions.
December 14th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
hey keven….thanks for the detailed update. i’m sure you must feel overwhelmed between staying with the baby and still trying to care for the other little ones. once you get home with the baby things will be a tad easier…still hectic and overwhelming at times, but at least you’ll all be in one place at the same time.
i wish you and your family the best of luck and pray for a positive outcome. at this point, i would normally tell you to sit down and take a load off…and offer you some popcorn and koolaid….but….well, you seem like an intelligent guy….i don’t need to feed into the comments any more
December 14th, 2009 at 12:54 pm
Um… Where is my koolaid and popcorn?
December 14th, 2009 at 1:00 pm
It’s not lunch time yet, April. It’s not even break time for you yet. Go back to your cubicle, and get to work! *cracks whip*
And be sure to read the two new articles I posted today.
December 14th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
To Keven: I never said it was Kylie. The gun incident, you pulled the gun on your wife. I know…minor details. You can say that you have changed and that you are a rehabilitated man (used loosely) but only those that don’t know you may believe that.
To Karen: Yes Kameron is still in the hospital. He does have brain damage. There are issues with his kidneys and his intestines. He also is having surgery this week to have a feeding tube put in. As far as I know the kids are still at home with their grandparents because no charges have been filed as of yet.
To April: I’m not worried about my credibility. If you would like to look up charges that have been filed against Keven or jail time that he has served, feel free. The sad thing is that you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with. I’m saddened at the information I know and don’t want to think about the stuff that I probably haven’t heard about.
As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer.
December 14th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
Concerned – Let’s face it, you and I are on the same team. I am here because I care about kids. Not just the Gandy’s kids – ALL KIDS!!! I couldn’t give two shits about Amber. I don’t know what Keven is guilty of… I just know he wasn’t driving the car. This story is about Amber, not Keven. So why is he on trial here??
December 14th, 2009 at 10:28 pm
oops i missed this one completely. concerned says. As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer… luckily they survived? Keven guilty as Amber? MY CHILDREN SUFFER?… thats it you fucking twat there are not enough four leter words to describe the passionate hate i have for you. fuck you all to hell running sideways with a pineapple in your ass sideways. your gonna tell me… your gonna accuse me? unfortunately i wasn’t caught? fuck you. that really pisses me off. I offer myself to the jury. May a hang a slow death if the accusations you speak are true. you are full of more shit than all tillamook county. i am now officially done responding to anything you might say you sawed off cunt… sorry to all that have to read that (however i do like the part about the pineapple) this ho is way off base and to accuse me of shit like that is uncalled for. i have f-ed up in my life and am not perfect. but in no way did i or would i endanger my children… wow blogs are great for stress aren’t they. i feel great now. i bet none of you full timers take prozac. lol
December 14th, 2009 at 10:34 pm
Actually, most of us do….or some other form of happy pill. LOL. This is a great stress reliever, though, isn’t it? Check out the other couple of posts I have done on this thread in the last half hour or so. I have called out several of our more illustrious trolls. Still LMAO at gwenidiot trying to make others think I was mistaken about her aliases. I have the key to the secret room, folks. I know EVERYTHING!
December 15th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
Oh yeah, when you have the key to the secret room, tracking something as basic as ip addresses is child’s play. (I am going to school for Information Systems Security, should finish a little after my birthday in September this year). People don’t seem to realize, that unless they are using a different computer in a different location for each alias, they will be found out (and it has to be a different location because when you use a router, the ip addresses each computer is given is very similar except for the last digit or two). I know I am giving away a trade secret, but the ones that think they are smarter than us all won’t believe, and it might make some others think twice before doing it, since they will be found out.
December 14th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Concerned Family Member: OK, but where is the proof of anything? Is there a shred of proof that he did anything to his children? Or to his wife? We’re just supposed to believe that everything you say is true? I’m not speaking for the other poster’s, but I believe most (not all) of what Keven has said. While you have made some sense, you just don’t come off as believable. Anytime you were asked for proof, you just said, “you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with”. So it’s a game of who’s more credible, and in my opinion, it’s him.
I do, however, enjoy being proved wrong (since it happens so rarely
), so bring it on.
December 14th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
Wow, I had frozen pipes, a sister who is…well just is let’s say, IS, and I miss all of the fun with Amber and Keven? Gosh, Keven and Amber sound like two fun-loving, good-time, alcohol swilling, potheads! Keven, your are right, you are such great parents! I think you and Amber’s photos are in Dictionary next to the word “Parents”! Golly, who wouldn’t want to make you two “Parents of the Year!” ???
A mother who can’t keep herself out of the pickle jar, and a husband who defends her driving under the influence of more than one substancewith 3 of your children in it?
are you planning on having a few more? what a couple of swell folks!
You both sound about as educated as Kevin Conger of the “Evan Coen” story……
Oh, you may want to get one of those Dictionaries, they have even more words than 4 letter ones, and they even have puncuation marks, and all sorts of things to help you
present yourself a tad-bit more than the second-grade-drunk stoners you are.
God help your children.
You see, there is a reason you were on this site, it’s called Parents Behaving Badly, and qualified yourselves!
I guess if we don’t hear from you, we can assume you are quietly in the Nathan’s Pickle jar…getting good and pickled, popping out a few times for a few hits off of the bong….
December 14th, 2009 at 4:17 pm
And Luke 17:2.
December 14th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
Oops, did it again, the above is on the wrong thread….
December 14th, 2009 at 4:43 pm
April you are correct. I do believe we are on the same page. You are also correct in saying keven wasn’t driving that day. Keven isn’t on trial but he isn’t as he makes himself out to be either. That was what I was trying to get across. And I did rather others feel it is credible or not.
JJ I was asked once to provide proof. Again, in case you need help with the big words…… I don’t need to. Sound them out big boy you’ll do just fine.
December 14th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
CFM: re: big boy – jj’s a female.
December 14th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
I was trying to be nice, you cunty little bitch, but fuck you. When you come to a site like this spouting the bullshit that you are, NOBODY is going to believe what you say, just because you say so. No, you don’t NEED to provide proof, but if you want a bunch of strangers to believe one word of what you’re saying, you sure as shit better back it up. It’s not that you won’t, it’s that you can’t.
December 14th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
See, Concerned – You post a comment like that and I am COMPELLED to respond like this. These are the types of comments that I refuse to argue with. You post a respectful comment to me and I will give the same respect in return. I don’t know of Keven’s past. I can only hope that he has changed (for the sake of the children). Substance abuse and domestic violence are horrible, horrible things. No child should EVER have to be subjected to either.
Now my reason for not jumping Keven’s ass is because he hasn’t disrespected me. I will continue to treat him with respect as long as he returns the favor. There is obviously some sort of family feud going on between the two of you and I want no part of it.
BTW – We welcome updates on all of the cases features here. If either of you will keep us posted, it would be much appreciated.
December 14th, 2009 at 4:47 pm
kids are so beautiful I wouldn’t know what to do without them.
December 14th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
How flattering that someone has cloned me.
December 14th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
Thanks April and I completely understand.
JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.
December 14th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
Much appreciated. Thank you.
More people should see how posting comments and respecting other people on this site will get you a LONG way. Even if you have different opinions. It really is simple. You respect me and I’ll respect you. Take care, and please take the time to update us when you can.
December 14th, 2009 at 6:01 pm
I have to wonder JJ, why is it so easy believing Keven, But yet hard believing someone whom claims that they are a family member? Are they both not strangers ? I really doubt that this person would claim that they are related in anyway if not true.Not something most would want to brag about.just something to think about, no dis-respect intended.
December 14th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
Shocked, I can see where JJ is coming from. She is reserving her judgement for Keven upon proof that he is a negligent parent. There are people who post here that WILL go looking for that proof… JJ’s not one of them. I suppose that if someone is going to throw out accusations, it would be kind to post the link to back up the allegations. Kind of like Angel and Trench post links to back up their stories. I know that some states post arrest history as public information (but not all). If that is the case where Keven is domiciled, please link the arrest info and you will see how fast opinions of him change.
Tata….
*April blinks back over to the OT for drinks and pigs in a blanket*
December 14th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
contrary to a negative opinion on here, i didn’t find that keven defended amber in anyway.he, in fact stated, that his children loved her and she them and that he was taking her in for an evaluation….a step on the right path toward “getting it together”. i also believe he commented that IN THE PAST he smoked and drank but has since given it up. i find him to come across as quite intelligent and compassionite. his spelling is on track and he knows more than four letter words. kind of feel like however many children he has is up to him….you know?
concerned: there does seem to be some family rift going on and it’s totally understandable that you feel the way you do….we do appreciate any updates you can provide.
as before, prayers are sent to all who know and love this baby.
December 14th, 2009 at 6:41 pm
Karen is the bomb! A good egg you are lady!
December 14th, 2009 at 6:56 pm
If you do not think that concerned family member is correct then why would keven respond with explanations? I thought this blog was about bad parenting? Instead were just putting each other down? It seems to me anyone wanting to comment about the parents at hand here are the ones being bashed on? Maybe this blog needs to come to a end.
OH yeah maybe Kevin can explain the ATM he stole? I am sure if you guys want Proof you could google that one!
December 14th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
OK – I give…. I googled Keven Gandy and came up empty handed. give me a hand on this one.
BTW – The chances of this blog coming to an end are slim to none.
December 14th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
oops cat out of the bag
December 14th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
For anyone who is interested….Wow and Come on?! are the same person….
December 14th, 2009 at 7:13 pm
Heeee-heeeeee. Angel, this is why I lvoe you!
December 14th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
FYI – lvoe is like love… Only better.
December 14th, 2009 at 7:30 pm
your right I tried to google it to too two maybe I am shocked now? I also came up empty, but polk county should have records or I am sure you can pay online I do not need proof since I know, but if you want it that would be the way to go! I love how you all stick up for him! Enjoy the rest of your blog!
December 14th, 2009 at 7:35 pm
Did I stick up for him? Did you read anything I posted? Wow…. Now you lost me. I will ju st ass you to the growing list of tards that have graced the pages of this site in the past few days.
December 14th, 2009 at 8:14 pm
Do you feel better now? I am just so so hurt. This is my last post as I have a life and better things to do. Thanks for the blog good luck to all!
~ Tard~
December 14th, 2009 at 8:24 pm
I fell better that you are leaving. No more wading through the mindless babble you are posting. Now we can get back to real comments.
December 14th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
December 14th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
it’s interesting that there is a growing list of tards, I agree April. I find it even more interesting that the number of non-tards isn’t growing.
why could that be?
December 14th, 2009 at 10:04 pm
Probably because at least five of the ‘tards’ are YOU, you moron! At last count, I have discovered that you are ‘karenisthebomb’, the clone of me on the OT, and both of the April clones on that thread, ‘gwenishavingahardtime’, ‘ohwell!’, and ‘babiesarefun’.
This tells me a lot about you actually. It tells me that besides being a pathetic loser, you are also a liar. You don’t like foul language or name calling? So……what?…..your Angelclone and Aprilclone comments were made by one of your many split personalities? You are an idiot, girl. If you are even a girl. You might just as well be an androgynous specimen of a humanoid like creature.
It tells me also that you are a troll (as if we hadn’t figured that one out already, now we just have proof), and that you are an attention-seeking nitwit. It also tells me that you have the IQ of a rock, and that probably the only reason you post under so many names on here is because that’s the only time you can ever get anyone to listen to you, much less agree with your idiotic rantings.
Have a nice night.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Aww, lighten up Angel! I thought you ladies liked to have a little sparring action on there anyway. Besides, you need someone to fight with and it seemed you didn’t have enough people challenging you. It keeps the blog exciting to have debate! muhahhahahahaha!
P.S. one of them you listed I am not, but that’s for you to figure out.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
All of them I listed are you, Sweetheart. Stop lying. If they are not all you, then you should probably keep your children away from your computer while you are cooking dinner – because it must have been one of them. You see…..they all came from the same IP address. Like I said…IDIOT!
December 14th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
That Angel is whip-smart I tell ya! Yer lucky to have her here. lighten up…aren’t we here to have fun? Every personality was made up, actually. I don’t have any kids at all. I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said. I’m actually just doing an acting experiment and this just seemed to be a good place to get response from people. And I was right! Thanks! You’ve all been great!
December 14th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
No, actually, we’re not here to have fun – that’s only on the OT. Every other thread is dedicated to the memory of a dead child, or to the rehabilitation of a child who has been abused. This site is about the children – and exposing the animals who abuse them – not your idiotic acting assignment. You are even more pathetic than I originally thought.
And what’s with the “I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said.” comment? Are you saying that you don’t even KNOW what you believe? I think you are a freak. Be a good little moron, and go to bed now. And stay there until you grow a brain.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
Wow, how did someone managed to piss off the angelic being of this site..its beyond me, but sure you are a fighting Angel dear lol.. I’ll make a mental note not to ever bother you.. just in case
December 14th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
You are in no danger from me, Monique. You’re not a selfish idiot. I’ve always been partial to the archangel Michael, though.
December 14th, 2009 at 11:26 pm
You have to admit the whole gwenishavingahardtime character was played very well. I mean, I’m pretty sure some of you actually believed me…and I sure did get quite a “tard” reaction out of the key players on the site. I feel like I know you all so well now. I feel so warm & fuzzy!
December 14th, 2009 at 11:40 pm
All you did was get Morrigan out of lurkitude. Otherwise you just gave us someone else to bash. Pretty lame.
December 14th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
holy crow! does anyone besides me think that concerned and come on are the same person? anyhow concerned seems to be misinformed. kidney damage intestinal damage? holy shit i want you for my new pediatrician. you are pretty bright. and if you would read my earlier post as far as ct scans it explains in detail the facts know so far. damage to internal organs is not so. the g-tube wow you are right on that one. he is not protecting his airway well and is aspirating some of the formula into his lungs. so the g-tube will keep him going until he is able to protect his airway 3 weeks till the next swallow study. we will know more then. hey i bet if you google skank concerned will pop up…lol. very cute. like i have said i am done with you. it’s best to keep your mouth shut when you have no idea what you are talking about….and now…Concerned Family Member Says:
December 14th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
Thanks April and I completely understand.
JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.
please feel free to give CORRECT INFO. please. i am getting tired of correcting you. google atm theft and pay for info to polk county? save your money when i was 18 before kids i might add. i hung with a guy (smoked pot with) who stole an atm machine from seaway market in grand ronde i drove him to see his dad in tacoma wa. he stayed when i came home i was met with polk county sheriffs. and i was found guilty. 10 years ago come on i did 50 days in jail 180 hrs community service and paid a shit load of money… i did my time done!… oh heres one you don’t know when i was 16 i cut some cookies in willamina middle school in my truck 8500.00 worth oh damage paid. also when i was 13 my dad found a dirty mag under my bed. i sure miss that playboy. I sure wish i was perfect like you. Goodnight, Keven
December 14th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Keven…as far as I can tell, ConcernedFM and ‘comeon’ are not the same person. Concerned is posting from several different IP addresses though, so it may take a while to track down his aliases, if he has any. As I said earlier, though, ‘comeon’ and ‘Wow’ ARE the same person. He may be using other screen names as well, but tracking them down will take time. The e-mail address listed for concerned is probably a fake though, since it is simply smith@yahoo.com. How original…right? I bet his first name is probably John, too…..
December 14th, 2009 at 10:29 pm
wow what an original email.
December 14th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
See, that’s why I’m reserving judgement on Keven.
Angel, no words, my dear. No words.
December 14th, 2009 at 11:12 pm
Bwahahahaaaaa….
Keven, did I hear that you also picked up a tranvestite hooker and she kicked your ass for some blow and a $20 bill?? Oh, wait….. There I go spreading rumors again. Sorry.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:32 am
i did’t know that she umm he umm she was a tranny damn it! and it was 50 and heroin. get it right. SHESH
December 14th, 2009 at 11:35 pm
Hello again from me and the pineapple that is sideways in my ass. That was a good one.
Angel you are correct, I have only used one screen name and my blogs are coming from only two locations.
Obviously I didn’t put much thought into the address I gave, I would hope that If I had put much thought into it I would have come up with something better than smith. Like Johsnon…lol.
I have already stated the reasons for not giving my name. There are other family members involved that would be horribly hurt by all of the comments made on this blog, not just mine. And as much as I despise the piece of shit who claims to be a good dad, I love my family.
Keven I’m so proud of you for fessing up…oh wait…it was only half assed. I am so impressed by your terms of endearment for me…ditto darling. Keep blowing smoke, I never realized how good you were at it. I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later.
Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date.
Angel I’m intrigued that you can find out which names are coming from the same pc’s. Computer technology is not a strong point. How do you do it?
December 14th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
Pineapple sideways??? Ouch. Remind me not to ask you for a pina colada. Ewwwwww.
December 14th, 2009 at 11:56 pm
Ancient Chinese secret…..and don’t squeeze the Charmin.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:01 am
I understand; I wouldn’t want you to give away all of your secrets
December 15th, 2009 at 12:13 am
Actually, I had to call the psychic hotline to get all of my info. Try it sometime.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:03 am
and April…it does give a whole new meaning to “how would you like it”? Doesn’t it??? lol.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:13 am
The visual is more than I can take. Pineapple. Owwwwwwwwwchhhhhhh. They are sort of…. Pointy.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:27 am
oh it’s you again hows the pineapple? you said…Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date. you were not supposed to smoke that pineapple, please inform me of the date and reasoning behind meeting the da. I myself am unaware of any such date…next you said… I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later… fuck yeah it was. DO I NEED TO RESPECT YOU? no you come on here and attack me with lies. i will give you credit for some good dirt on me however it would seem that quite some time has gone by since then and perhaps i have satisfied the courts and most importantly i have grown from these times in my life. i have paid my debt to society. but back to my explosion when someone attacks someone and they fight back thats typically defending their self. you say some bullshit that i have harmed my children and not been caught. i say fuck you and your pineapple. you lie. you also say you hate me but love your family? well where the fuck are you? oh thats right you are focusing on the problem at hand. sure you can say i’m an asshole damn straight some skank comes around talking shit about my family you get the asshole Keven… you and your pineapple have sweet dreams K
December 15th, 2009 at 12:43 am
Well concerned family member has nailed it if you ask me! So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it. Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances) but I suppose if we can make something positive from this other than making people aware of the dangers of drinking and driving why not. In my opinion the positve here is we get to call keven out on the terrible things he has done! I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it, I think that these children deserve positive role models! Keven you have made mistakes in the past I don’t believe your “I am a changed man” ACT! Enrolling in school does not make you intelligent or give you a free pass to be a controlling lying manipulative jerk. You are 100% a true class act! I would like to add that you asked for this keven you posted numerous blogs portraying yourself as the “good guy” come on you know the truth too and karma is a ????
December 15th, 2009 at 12:49 am
then don’t believe. that is your opinion and your right and to me it does not matter. not to worry it’s not just you i’ve got a whole list of people who’s opinion i can do without. do you care to hear my opinion of you? didn’t think so
December 15th, 2009 at 4:52 pm
I have some issues that i need to have resolved…My questions will be in caps (sorry)
re: REALLY???
So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it.
WHY NOT? IF YOU “KNEW” THINGS WERE HAPPENING WHY DIDNT YOU DO ANYTHING??
Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances)
ONLY AFTER A CHILD IS INJURED…IF YOU HAD SAID SOMETHING PRIOR TO THIS INCEDENT YOU COULD HAVE PREVENTED IT…CORRECT??
I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it
ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE? FROM YOUR EARLIER STATEMENT IM LED TO BELIEVE THAT. AGAIN, IF YOU KNEW SOMETHING WAS GOING ON, WHY DID YOU NOT COME FORWARD.
If these questions have already been addressed, I apologize. There is just something “off” about these statements and I would like them clarified.
December 15th, 2009 at 12:43 am
Ok yall gotta get some sleep we have a big day tomarrow. Kameron is resting well right now so i think i should do the same. I will post revelant news tomarrow. i’m done babbling at concerned…and the pineapple..lol
December 15th, 2009 at 10:51 am
OK, I really think that this has gotten way out of hand, so far off the situation, and in my opinion i think that certain people should just let it go. In the end the truth, rather it be that kevin is putting up a front, or he is a changed man,it will come out.I think that picking out punctuation errors and rather someone is using there real name, is just nit picking. This blog i thought was about Kameron? this is my last blog.
December 15th, 2009 at 1:34 pm
surgery today at 2:30 he had a really good nights sleep. say a prayer for my little men please. thanks
December 15th, 2009 at 2:02 pm
Of course. He seems to be a fighter. THat’s a good thing!!
December 15th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Praying for your entire family, even Amber.
December 15th, 2009 at 2:42 pm
I know i’ll probably catch hell over saying this but she needs prayers to and thanks JJ. We are getting her into treatment I do plan to work with her as well as you may know support is a big factor in ones recovery. and I will be by her side despite what ever shit I may get along the way. She is my family and i fight for my family. I am just now learning how many appointments there are going to be. all i can say is it’s gonna be tough but it will be done. so perhaps to the few that seem to only want to bash me about mistakes in the past and then lie on top of that. i think things are going to be tough enough without your comments. so i will no longer be responding to the bs and no more pineapple cracks. I am very thankful for my own support system Family, Friends and Coworkers. They help me go on. and to all of you i thank you for your continued support and i love you guys. a few friends have wondered if Amber and I will stay together. My answer is yes when we got married it was through sickness and in health till death do us part. she has stuck with me through tough times and i plan to support her and help her through her own troubles. We all make mistakes some are just bigger than others. And i can’t think oh anything else that would make someone want to change than what we have and are going through. I love my family and i’m not going to run out on anybody. Treatment works people i’ve been there I know. but it only works if you want it to and you have support from family and friends. so with that being said i’ll let you all know how the surgery went this afternoon.
December 15th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
good for you keven. good thoughts and prayers for you and the baby
December 15th, 2009 at 4:22 pm
Keven, how did the surgery go????
December 15th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
it’s only 1:23 here now he has got another hour before they come get him so i’ll let yall know
December 15th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
So everybody, just for the sake of clarification and minds that inquire, Keven Gandy is who he says he is. Changes have not been filed against Amber Lee yet, however she was 3 X the legal limit and as we already know, another illegal substance was in her blood test as well.
Charges are still expected to be filed.
Keven and Amber are still married, they, as Keven admitted, had their problems, she put out a restraining order on him in 2004, but who here hasn’t had “those moments”?
Keven, let me please express my sorrow about what has happened as well as alot of hasty judgement. I do think someone who was interfering with communication posting as April, and others didn’t help, but hurt.
But in anycase, Keven is the “real deal” and I think we all owe him an apology, if we look back at the original comments, most were very harsh and judgemental. Keven, may God Bless what you have and turn what was meant for evil into good.
God will honor you since you have honored those little ones. Your wife needs help, I hope she finds it.
This info was per Steve Card at the Newport News who wrote the article back on Nov. 20th. (in Article 1)
Keven, keep us posted!!!
December 15th, 2009 at 5:06 pm
Wow, Keven. I have a whole new respect for you and wish you all the best. I really am sorry that you are going through this nightmare. I hope that Amber appreciates you and is truly sorry for what she is putting you and your family through.
December 15th, 2009 at 5:28 pm
By the way, Keven and all and to Concerned family member, we have April to thank and ONLY April for this turnaround and allowing Keven the opportunity to tell his side. April, you are the best, and Keven, if you can even begin to forgive us, I will have an additional new level of respect for YOU! So sorry this happened,
hey folks, no joke here, could we set up a fund? just a little from each of us could mean alot for this family, especially since it’s Christmas, not a pity fund Keven, a we-care-and-we-need-to-show-it-fund.
Anyone in?
December 15th, 2009 at 5:54 pm
I can’t be the best…. There are too many better than me. Take Karen and Kathy who take in so many children that need love, Angel who does a great job writing these stories, You – keeping a positive outlook in spite of health worries and snow, Trench for creating this fantastic site for us all to be voices for so many chldren, Morrigan for just being Morrigan, JJ because she just friggin’ rocks…. I could go on and on.
December 15th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
we are minutes away from surgery i’m very nervous he’s sleeping comfortably. i’m snagging his meds the next time i see the nurse… just joking. FORGIVEN
December 15th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
My prayers are with you…..and try to ignore the doomsayers on this thread who seem to be hell-bent on derailing your efforts to preserve your family. I sincerely hope that Amber realizes what a wonderful husband she has. Many husbands would have already left. Bless you, and bless your family.