Smacks, Drugs, and Lock in Hole
OK, ok….so it was a closet the child was locked in, but ‘hole’ just fit in better there. Anyway, the hairy hag up there is Heidi L. Duesing-Christensen, who has been arrested and charged with several felonies, including child abuse, neglect, enticement, and reckless endangerment.
It seems that Heidi has allegedly been tying up her five year old daughter, taping her mouth and other body parts (after administering adult doses of benadryl), and then locking the child in a closet. The poor child has also been starved. When she went to live with her father, she only weighed 30 lbs. (bottom 3% of the weight range for her age), and had scars, scabs, and bruises all over her body. Dad was good enough to report the slag who had abused his child, and a two-week investigation ensued, culminating with the arrest of this walking waste of flesh.
The egg donor claimed that she had to restrain the girl because she would throw ‘fits’ and was uncontrollable. She blamed the bruising and scabs on the girl as well, saying the injuries were caused when the child would throw herself against the floor and walls. I wonder how the child could throw herself against ANYTHING if she was tied up all the time. Oh, yeah….she didn’t. My bad. The birth-witch did it.
In addition to all of this, though, I would be remiss if I didn’t share the blame where it is warranted. Only after the girl was sent to live with her father did the child’s teacher mention that back in October she noticed discoloration over 50% of the child’s back, and extensive scabbing. Oh, and the little girl was also one of the few children who would consistently snarf down every morsel at lunch in school. That should have been a red flag right there. Any child who is willing to eat the mystery meat, AND all of the toxic trimmings served at your average public school, is either being starved, or has no taste buds. So lets hear it for the incompetence of the teacher as well. Isn’t there a law that says teachers are REQUIRED to report suspected abuse?
Most amazing of all is the fact that the child’s father says she has exhibited no behavior problems at all since moving in with him. Well, not really so amazing….I tend to think that the only behavior problems going on in the child’s former residence were most likely the ones exhibited by the incubator and her live-in boy-toy.
The hag faces up to 29 years if convicted on all charges, but has been released on $2,000.00 bail. She also has a charge of bail jumping against her, so I am guessing that they will now have to find the witch before they prosecute her. Way to go, judge and justice system.
Thanks go out to jake’s_daddy for this tip.
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November 30th, 2009 at 10:07 pm
Thank God the little girl is out of there. Does anyone know what became of the 12 year old and 3 year old and if they were abused as well?
November 30th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
this article says it all!!! I know the incubater and she has been a waste of flesh for a long time..there are also a list of some boy toys that are just as guilty.there will probably be more charges so keep watching
November 30th, 2009 at 10:08 pm
No kidding, exhibiting no behavior issues?
It’s rather difficult to exhibit behavior problems when you are tied up, taped up, and drugged with Benadryl.
What a slug, maggot, and waste breathe, this “mom”.
November 30th, 2009 at 10:10 pm
Teachers, etc., should be also held accountable to certain degree, ALL child-care or child-related people are mandated by law to report these things. That’s not a “teacher”.
November 30th, 2009 at 10:11 pm
oh I am the father of the 12 year old and she is doing fine.abused yes but not to the extent of the 5 year old,although I think its criminal.hope she gets beat up everyday in prison
November 30th, 2009 at 10:28 pm
Oh Bob, Not quite understanding your point about your daughter? who abused her? who allowed it?
November 30th, 2009 at 11:15 pm
Bob, do you have custody of your child now?
November 30th, 2009 at 11:54 pm
hmmmm, no answer from Bob.
December 1st, 2009 at 12:29 am
Bob, I hope you daughter is doing well. Happy to know that she is away from that filthy mcnasty. That woman is the lowest form of life. She is as foul and nauseating as they come and should be turned over to the fathers, (meaning yourself and the other, if there is more than one,) to be treated in the same manner as she treated her daughters. Too bad we are not living in an alternative era where the town’s people could string her up in city square and inflict the same pain on her that she inflicted on her children. Prison is too good for her. And what about her boy toy? He allowed this to take place? Must have, he was in the home. He needs to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law along with the repulsive, revolting, shameful excuse for a mother he called his girlfriend.
December 1st, 2009 at 12:41 am
Bob – Where is your daughter now? I hope that selfish cunt never sees her childrene again.
December 1st, 2009 at 9:18 am
i’m not quite sure how long the child (5 yr. old) has been living with her father. it’s not uncommon, in fact typical, that in the beginning the child shows know behavior problems when removed from an abusive situation. i’ve seen it time and again….the honeymoon period…the first few weeks or so, the child seems perfectly fine. loving, happy, well behaved. in time, either the original behavior problems or the post traumatic behavior problems will surface (i’m sure kathy, the other foster mom, not kt, will vouch for this). hopefully, dad can get her some counseling and with adequate care, bring her around to “normalcy”.
unless you were there, no one can say at this point, what caused the child’s tantrums and acting out. it could be that she was acting this way because of the mistreatment she was receiving in her mother’s home….it could be that she was hyper active or disturbed in some manner that required medication (good luck with that one as most drs. won’t medicate under the age of 6). it could very well be that she received some (certainly not to the extent that was reported, but some) of the bruises from violent tantrums. possibly, even the scratching on the chest. i’m in NO WAY condoning the mother’s actions…i’m just saying that i’ve had children in my home who would hurt themselves…pounding the forehead with his fists causing lumping and bruising…gauging the face and other body parts with their nails….throwing themselves to the floor and bashing the back of the head or forehead onto the floor….pounding with their fists onto the top of the thighs….the list goes on. it can cause some real physical damage to their bodies….in which case, you physically restrain (holding in a bear hug and placing your legs over theirs so they can’t hurt themselves or others….talking in a low voice directly in their ear until they can calm down…trying to find out what has made them so angry or hurt them so badly in their lives that would cause this type of behavior.
as far as a child that “scarfs down the whole school lunch”….of my many children, most would eat a small portion of it and dump the rest. however, i have one child (the one that eats enough to feed an army) who not only scarfs her entire lunch, but will ask other’s for their’s. she’s not underfed. of course, couple that with the fact that the teacher apparently saw extensive bruising…..yes, someone dropped the ball there.
all in all, this mother seemed like she was overwhelmed by the child’s behavior and should have sent her to live with her fatherlong before the abuse began. i’ve never seem a child respond to taping, whacking, and starvation…..
to bob….if you have custody of your 12 yr old now or know the people who do, i would suggest getting her some counseling as well. she may not have been on the receiving end of physical abuse but the mental and emotional truama of seeing her little sister abused will have lasting affects on her.
December 1st, 2009 at 11:41 am
Why do I never check my posts for typos? Remove head from ass, then hit “submit” button.
Hey TRENCH!!! We need an edit button in this bitch!!
December 1st, 2009 at 12:20 pm
wtf is wrong with people anymore? this is just sickening. how could you do that to your child? i have a 2 yr old and trust me when i say she is handful, but the thought of doing any of the above listed things to get her to “behave” is out of the question. i can not believe a teacher noted injuries and did nothing to help her… sounds to me like there should be some reprimanding done there as well.
December 1st, 2009 at 12:37 pm
I do agree with Karen. There’s often a honeymoon period when children are moved into a new place. But, soon, they revert back to old behaviors or escalate unacceptable behavior. Our current placement of a 7 y/o boy has been great. He’s been a very typical boy for the last several months. However, he has recently learned that his birth mother has decided she doesn’t want to keep him, so I expect to see some fluctuations in his behavior. He’s been in therapy, so I hope that helps. I have noticed that his grades are slipping and he’s often distracted. Obviously, he seems rather depressed. Hopefully, through a loving, structured home and counseling, he’ll be able to come through this.
I also have had placements where the kids were great for the first day and possessed the next. Kids have to endure so much at the hands of people who are supposed to love them. I pray they get some shot at a normal life.
December 1st, 2009 at 1:13 pm
hey kathy!!!! haven’t talked to you in a long time!!! glad to hear you ahve a new placement. any chance you’ll be able to adopt him? i still have the baby girl (3 months now) plus i have the two newbies my daughter is hoping to adopt (she works from 6am-6pm but hopes to quit the beginning of \the year to stay home with the babies…22 months and 3 months old..
april…i agree…we need an edit button…lmao…i noticed several typos in my own.
December 1st, 2009 at 4:48 pm
Same placement we’ve had since the beginning of the year. He’s a great kid. Very depressed right now because (as all children) he wants to be with his mother. His mother’s disposition hearing is coming up this month. Chances are good that he will become adoptable, and most likely by us. I’m waiting for his behavior to deteriorate because kids often start acting out thinking that the foster parents will send them home if they misbehave. I hope that counseling will help him.
I hope your daughter is successful in her adoption. Are you hoping to adopt too? You’ve adopted how many now??? You da woman! I have the help of my hubby. My hat’s off to you for being able to do it all on your own.
More people who are sane and decent should be foster parents! Is it hard??? OH YEAH! Is it rewarding? More than you can imagine. But, you might be the only seed of normalcy that a child has. You have the opportunity to plant a seed of self worth in a child who has been made to feel like garbage.
December 1st, 2009 at 1:16 pm
Thank you for explaining the “honeymoon period” to us. And yes, I’ve heard of it before. I’ve even experienced it when I had my day care center. Children so lovely and sweet for the first few weeks, then the bullies show their truecolors.
But is this any way to discipline or even educate a child on moral and society behaviors? Personal opinion, this woman needs to be treated the same. Perhaps she already has, and if that is the case, she should have learned that it sucks the big scissors. It can only make the child worse, yes?
December 1st, 2009 at 1:29 pm
Karen and Kathy, I wish I had your strength and ability to take in these children. I know I’m not a good person to be a foster parent. I would have serious issues with the law after I pounded a few crack whores for what they do to their children. The world needs more people like you two. *hugs*
TRENCH!!! EDIT EDIT EDIT!!! WAKE UP CALL!!!!!
December 1st, 2009 at 2:17 pm
I feel honored just to be on the same blog as Kathy and Karen. I always wanted to be a foster parent, but the husband at that time talked me out of it. Said I was not emotionally strong enough. Come to find out, he had other plans for his future.
Haay Trennch, eye mite agreigh two tha edat buton. cood yu hep us owt? Sav us sum thot prossess?
December 1st, 2009 at 3:26 pm
HEY!!! My typos aren’t that bad. SHEEEEIIITTT!!
December 1st, 2009 at 4:01 pm
No, but mine possibly could be, if I didn’t pay attention. Besides, that was my southern accent in true form.
Hey girlfriend. When are you coming to that new site I asked you to visit? Trench said it was okay to mention it. Captain needs some seriously fine commentators, and that could start with you:
http://www.sickcrimes.us/
Captain Obvious. Trench and Huff are his inspiration, so to speak.
December 1st, 2009 at 4:39 pm
I did – I logged on and tried to comment but it wouldn’t let me. What the??? I felt so unwelcome – so I headed back to DD.
December 1st, 2009 at 4:56 pm
No no no. It’s a brand new site. Just getting situated. He’s expecting you. Do try again, for me, okay? Every single site that rams this info into the media is worth pushing, and you’re damn good at it.
December 1st, 2009 at 2:19 pm
Karen, I assume you when you put “not KT”, you were just referring to adoptive parents, which, I am not. But I do have a bit of knowledge on that, because when I had my preschool, I had a Mom who (unknowingly) adopting a child with a syndrome that did not surface for about 3 months.
Yes, there is def a honeymoon period.
I still want to know who abused Bob’s child and who allowed it.
December 1st, 2009 at 4:11 pm
And besides, come on guys. Who gives a damn if we misspell the occasional word? As long as the message gets through, even former editors such as myself screw the course. I noticed one in my above post anyway. Who the fuck cares? (Oh no. Did I say that out loud? Must have had a bit too much wine this evening, to speak thus) And it seems spell check works here, so I can get along with that. Poor Trench has his work cut out for him anyway. So many criminals, so little time.
It’s the text shit that makes me crazy. Hey. I’m middle aged and growing way too close to the elderly years. Obsolete with newspeak. It seriously gives me migraines to try to read that crap. “Edit” would be a joke to them.
December 1st, 2009 at 4:59 pm
OK, So I owe Bob a big-time apology! Bob, even tho I read thru the 3 article that Angel provided, I did not realize that you were the father of THE child/children in this blog. Please accept my sincerest apology. I feel as you do, in wanting this deplorable woman to pay very dearly for what she has done. Plaster her cell with photos of all of her children. I am also happy to know that the 12 year old is adjusting well. (talk about bowing my head in shame!) I too, like Southern lady, had a bit too much wine last nite. Kudos to you!!!
December 1st, 2009 at 5:34 pm
I just went back to the site. I still can’t comment.
December 1st, 2009 at 9:48 pm
KT..”Karen, I assume you when you put “not KT”, you were just referring to adoptive parents, which, I am not.”….
just kidding ms. april…ya know i love ya!!!!
no, i put that in there because there are two kathy’s commenting and i was referring to the other kathy.
southern lady, thanks for the tip on the new site. i’ll drop by tonight and see if i can get in. maybe they’re fraid of april and won’t let her in
December 1st, 2009 at 9:53 pm
kathy….i would love to adopt the latest littel girl but she’ll probably go home eventually. this one’s going to hurt big time…she’s a beauty and easy to become attached to. i hope you’re able to adopt your little guy. for my daughter’s sake, i hope things work out for her…otherwise she may do a stint in the mental ward….she can’t fathom the idea of giving the infant up….the little girl, the 21 month old is pretty much a sure thing. i told her to try to take it one day at a time…A LOT of ups and downs with this….a real roller coaster ride…she’s new to it though….thing is, i watched them all day while she works and am getting awfully attached myself.
December 2nd, 2009 at 9:34 am
Ah, that’s tough. I hope your daughter is able to adopt. I remember how hard it was for me, wanting my own child so bad… I was able to pick up a 5 day old from the hospital. Mom and dad were both serious drug addicts and looking at jail time. Thought for sure I get to keep him. But, 11 weeks later, had to give him up to the paternal grandparents. I HATE to cry, but I sobbed over that one. It’s rarely ever easy to give up a child to go back to a situation that isn’t your idea of good. Ya’ll are in my prayers!
December 1st, 2009 at 9:53 pm
why do i ALWAYS type “littel” when i mean “little”??????
December 1st, 2009 at 10:08 pm
Karen, thanks for the clarification and no need to retype my comments, I can reread if necessary.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:26 pm
excuse me kt, but i’ll type my comments however i want.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:27 pm
Karen, get over it.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:28 pm
ahhhh….cina….repeating my comments to you?
December 1st, 2009 at 10:35 pm
drinking again, I see.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:46 pm
lmao…you could be cina’s mother. everyone knows you’re taking the comments i leave for you on the open thread and posting them in here. real piece of work aren’t you cina.,..i mean kt.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:50 pm
DRAMA!!
December 1st, 2009 at 10:52 pm
lmao…..april!!!!! ok, now that you’re online, i”ll come chat with you. no more comments for this one.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:54 pm
Ready when you are. Keep this thread on topic, ladies. Trench will swing his mighty ban hammer and we all know how that goes. As far as I know, I am the only bad girl here that likes a good spanking…..
December 1st, 2009 at 11:24 pm
Um… No you aren’t.
December 1st, 2009 at 11:28 pm
bowchicawowow – Your place or mine.
December 1st, 2009 at 10:55 pm
Thanks again April.
December 1st, 2009 at 11:29 pm
Ha, Southern lady, Um…you’re not “what”?
Just curious.
December 1st, 2009 at 11:31 pm
SL – I still can’t comment on sick crimes!! HELP!!!!
December 1st, 2009 at 11:34 pm
southern lady…i had the same problem on the other site…i registered…the comment just won’t post.
December 1st, 2009 at 11:55 pm
Um, April is not the only one who likes a good spanking. Come on down to my place, April. You might never leave.
Okay, I wrote to the Captain, so I’ll get back to you when he answers about his site. It’s tough being the only commentator, although Trench has made an appearance.
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:02 am
Okay, he said he’ll look into it. It’s a new blog, so it might be a problem with the script. I’ll get back with you when he says it’s fixed.
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:06 am
Thanks! None of the “buttons” worked for me. Dang it.
December 2nd, 2009 at 1:28 am
Okay, he tested it and it works in Firefox and Flock, but not in IE or the others. He says it’s a java script problem, and he’ll work on it. I’ll let you know when it’s fixed.
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Thanks! I guess I could al ways downoad FF again. I just got my stinking laptop back from the shop so I am leary about downloading anything.
December 2nd, 2009 at 12:30 pm
Not to worry. I work online and ONLY depend on Firefox. You’ll never catch me on IE again. I can’t tell you how many viruses I picked up there. Plus, FF has so many more benefits. But anyway, I hope to see you there soon.
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:01 am
How can you treat someone who came from you, who depends on you, who naturally trust and loves you with all their heart, like piece of I don’t even know what? The crap on the bottom of my shoe was treated with more care and respect than that little girl was.
December 2nd, 2009 at 3:57 pm
Okay, ladies. Here’s a message from the Captain:
http://www.sickcrimes.us/2009/12/comments-and-web-browsers.php
Please come join. Download Firefox or something. Hey, it’s free. I hate being the only commentator. Let’s face it. I’m a lurker, yes?