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  • Angel

    Aaaaaaaaaapril……come out and play with me!

    Hi, Dodia! Miss me much? I missed all of you!

    Beaver-dam, but it sure is good to be back!

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      MAAAARCOOOOOOOOO

  • Deb

    Um April and Trench. Just wanted you to know that I poked a troll with a really big sharp and pointy stick. And I liked it so I kept poking.

    • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

      That reminds me of the joke I pulled my groin once. Felt so good I pulled it again.

      —– Original message —–

      • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

        ROFLMFAO! :::wiping tears of laughter:::

  • Anonymous

    OK guys, NOW I need your help….

    as a follow up to my “Fuck Joe Paterno” heard round the world (10k shares, woo hoo!) I am doing this on Thursday:

    http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/01/24/1057961/-I-have-an-idea,-and-I-need-your-help?via=siderec

    I know a lot of you are survivors, or know survivors, or victims who didn’t make it. That’s why you come here. If you want to submit something for the tribute please email me and I’ll include it.

    Also if there is a story on here you think would be appropriate, send that too.

    Love you guys!

    -Rebecca (the girl who climbs trees)

  • Risskia

    I wanted to commetn on each of the new stories, but they are all so horrific – so many dead babies…

    To you who researched and wrote these articles – You are wonderful and brave and I really hope you have an excelletn therapist.

    • Deena

      Thanks!
      Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile

  • Anonymous

    Hey guys….

    It’s been a long time since I posted here (I mostly lurk but used to post under Matteasmom107) but I wrote this on another blog, about the piece of shit Joe Paterno, and I have a feeling some of you all might appreciate it so I’m going to link it here (hope that’s ok!)

    http://www.dailykos.com/story/2012/01/22/1057341/-F**k-Joe-Paterno-%28Updated%29

    BTW, I’ve gotten death threats sent to me for this shit. It’s astounding and grotesque how much these people will defend the enabler of a child rapist.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Wow. I loved every word of it, but are you okay?

      • Anonymous

        Honestly….

        Haven’t slept in 36 hours. It fucking killed me to write that. And it dredged up a lot of shit, and I’m afraid of the nightmares…but I’ll be ok. It was actually very therapeutic in a way.

        I posted it last night at I think 8 PM….so far I’ve gotten over 100 emails from people, a lot of them survivors of sexual abuse, pouring their hearts out to me. And I’ve had 2 kids write to me to tell me that they are currently being sexually abused, and I’m trying to help them out. And I’m exhausted. But it’s worth it. Thank you for asking, for caring…

        BTW, if you are so inclined you have my permission (in fact I would be honored) to repost it here.

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          I have a new hero. In fact, you’re a Super Hero, IMO.

          • Anonymous

            You guys are my heroes. Everyone who writes here and stands up for these children that so many people just could not give a fuck about…this site inspired me to write that piece in a big way.

        • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

          I will let Trench make the call on that one, but I’m glad you shared it. I’m so glad, in fact. More, please.

          • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

            With all due respect while I agree with the fact that Joe Paterno forever tarnished his legacy by being an enabler to Jerry Sandusky it’s not a story for Bad Breeders.

            —– Original message —–

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            I didn’t think it was, but I didn’t know if you’d want to link it in the sidebar. You can spank me later.

          • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

            I think plenty more people will see it in the open thread.

            —– Original message —–

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            You may be right. Did you see…. She channelled her inner April. I think I’m in love.

          • Anonymous

            Totally understand Trench….like I said to April, no Breeders involved so I didn’t think it was necessarily appropriate.

          • Anonymous

            Should I email it to him as a tip? Not sure how this works…

            I would totally understand if he decided it’s not a good fit for here (no “breeder” involved after all) 

            I’m glad you appreciated it, you don’t know it but you are one of my fucking hero’s and I’ll be honest, I kind of channeled you when I wrote it…because I’m not normally that blunt, but felt like I needed to be on that particular topic.

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            I love you. To pieces.

          • Anonymous

            <3 April! Love ya too girl.

            I'm off to pick up my DD from school…I will delurk more from now on though. That's a promise.

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            You better!

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            TN, please tell me that you’re documenting all the threats received and reporting them to the FBI?  Very important, and you should *never* take a threat lightly.  *HUGS*  Please be careful, OK?

            Reading more of your article, and wow.  

          • Anonymous

            I’m not sure how to report them…they were sent to a gmail account I set up so that people who wanted to contact me who weren’t members of Daily Kos would be able to, esp. children who needed someone to talk to. I believe they came from one person, using 2 different (fake) email addresses….one of them was “IamScottR****” (actual name of the asshole who raped me, which I had originally posted in full. I was not as careful as I should have been because I seriously had no idea that people would take it to that level. )

            If you know how to report them to the FBI could you let me know? Thanks :)

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            http://www.ic3.gov/default.aspx

            Emails do constitute an internet crime. It states on the second page that you should also report threats to local law enforcement (don’t take the threats lightly… you just never know.) So definitely call either the state police or the Sheriff’s department where you live (depending on which has more jurisdiction in your area). If it turns out to be nothing, they’ll get a slap on the wrist for making the threat (mild, IMO, but at least they might think before hitting “send” next time), and you will probably be given the opportunity to put a restraining order against them. If it was more, you could be preventing a crime against you or your family.

            *HUGS* Let me know if you need more help with it and I’ll see what I can do.

        • http://www.savingmila.com/ Sarahtyrrell82

          Do you object to me posting it on WACA-War Against Child Abuse? I found it pretty powerful and really want others to hear what you have to say. xx

          • Anonymous

            Not at all, I would be honored….post it far and wide, anyone who wants to use it has my permission.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      Going to read it now, but holy fuck… you just posted it yesterday and already got over 1200 comments? Jeebus, Woman!

      I was getting pretty pissed off last night, hearing all the crying over “this great man”, and people making a point not to bring up his douchebaggery (yes, letting a child-raping pedophile enjoy freedom to continue his abuse for years is most definitely douchebaggery, and he should have died in prison, IMO) out of some woefully misplaced “respect”. WTBFH!

      I’m sorry you’ve been threatened. Sadly, I can say that when you start speaking out against child abuse, that you will receive threats is almost a certainty.

      Off to read your piece now. I’m glad you’ve shared it here. It does my heart good to know that there are a lot more people pissed off by this shit than I thought.

  • Dawn Henderson

    At Trench’s recommendation I am posting the email I sent him here:

    Hey Trench –

    I have been a reader of your “Bad Breeders” blog from all the way back

    in the day that it was called “Parents Behaving Badly”.  I have

    corresponded with you directly as well, providing tips re: abuse cases.

    If you recall I am a mother/grandmother, from here in NC.  I live only

    blocks away from where Shaniya Davis’s body was found, and have posted

    quite vocally about that case.  I have been involved in child advocacy

    for most of my life, as a survivor of emotional, physical and sexual

    abuse.

    Over the past few months I have been DEEPLY involved in something I

    could never even possibly imagine happening let alone anyone supporting:

     The exploitation of a child by her own mother on the web.  I first came

    across this story when it was posted on the Facebook site War Against

    Child Abuse (an advocacy site deeply involved in Dominick’s Law).  The

    post there was made by Lori Handrahan, the mother in question, who was

    claiming her child was being ‘sexually abused’ by her father, and a link

    was posted to a video in which a child around 2 years of age is

    speaking, quite happily as though she is retelling a story she has

    heard, about her Poppa’s penis and her gina.  I was FURIOUS, fully ready

    to lend my support to Lori.  UNTIL…

    I went out to Lori’s website and began reading the substantial amount of

    what she states is documentation and became curious as to why so much of

    it was edited.  As a sexual abuse survivor, her claims on many, many

    items did not jive with either my experience or my degree in

    psychology/child psychology/forensic psychology.  I was beginning to

    have a feeling that this was a case of SAID, a malicious attack on an

    innocent father, when I came across a link on HER OWN SITE, contained in

    a document, that took me to the actual divorce decree as posted on the

    state of Maine’s page (government). As I read through this court

    document, then all the other reports I could get my hands on, it became

    clear that this is a woman intent on destroying her ex-husband at the

    cost of her own child.

    I began speaking up FOR Mila – and yes, often was placed in the position

    of defending the wrongly accused father AND his attorney.  Immediately,

    I was attacked by Lori and her followers (many of Lori’s close friends

    have been established to use 10 – 15 fake id’s to bolster their claims).

     I was called a child trafficker, implied threats of harm to my family

    were made.  As more and more advocates came on board, and some major

    advocacy sites began supporting us, it only became more vicious. Most

    recently, two of Lori’s followers have researched 2 of our advocates,

    found that they had lost their babies, and used those precious angel

    babies against them – first to manipulate and then damned them to hell.

    Another follower has constantly threatened violence, and just created a

    fake slideshare.com site for the father’s attorney letting people know

    his children’s names and the schools they could be found out.  I

    contacted the police and found that this man has a long history of stalk

     ing, threatening, harassment and violence and was told we need to be

     VERY concerned.  Here is a story, found right here on the web about

     this man:  Please help us stop the exploitation of a wonderful little

     girl here on the web. Several child advocates have come together to

     protect this little girl from the child predators her mother is

     continually leading to her front door step, as well as from the

     irreparable harm this little girl will face when one day she comes on

     line and see what her mom has turned her into.

     http://www.savingmila.com/ for all the court documents, as well as the

     continually contradicting information her mother and her groupies post.

     Most recently our advocates’ families have been threatened, with the

     mother’s full support and two of our advocates had their angel babies

     used against them and then were told they were damned to hell, again

     with this mother’ full support. The threats are very real, directed at

     us by a man with a lengthy criminal record, and

     again applauded by the mother. Who does this to a child, to!

     other p

    eople? My only answer is people that derive joy out of harm. THIS is one

    of her supporters, who threatens child advocates and their children,

    while the mother cheers him on:

    http://articles.mcall.com/2008-02-09/news/3984281_1_court-papers-preliminary-hearing-charges

    Timelines, court documents, and even screenshots of the continual lies

    these people post and threats made can be found on

    http://www.savingmila.com

    Please, can you help rally the readers of your blog to help us get down

    this horrifying web site of the mother’s.  This woman has even gone so far as

    to post pictures of her then three year old child nude, spread eagle,

    with the camera focused on her vagina and anus on the web (which they

    try to deny, but here and there slip up and admit they were there, but

    the people that came to her site were so horrified they demanded they be

    taken down — also found on the savingmila.com site, under Lori on the

    Web, the Truth about Truth: manipulations and machinations.

    The damage this woman is doing to her own child is immeasurable. She is

    presenting her as a sexually groomed little girl, ripe and ready for any

    sexual predator to snatch. Yes, if you go through her site, you will

    find the baby’s home address posted clearly, as well as the name of her

    school.  Furthermore, can you IMAGINE the damage that will be done to

    this little girl if a few years from now she signs on line, types her

    name in a google search box, and finds THIS?

    Our sole goal is the removal of any and all information about Mila from

    the www. Once we have accomplished this goal, our site, our facebook

    site, will be promptly removed, along with anywhere we have posted and

    have carefully kept track of.

    Please, help us, by using your voice, to stop the exploitation of an

    innocent child by her mother (who has been diagnosed with Narcissistic

    Personality Disorder and WE suspect it is really Munchausen).

    We can be located on Facebook under “For the Love of Mila”.

    Dawn

    • Sarahtyrrell82
      • Your_Pal_Nancy

        Just visited and read the whole thing all I can say is WOW. That woman doesn’t deserve to be anywhere near her daughter. What a sick disgusting human! Thank goodness she is safe with her father. I saw her facebook too talking about how Mila is trafficked and beaten. What a crock! If this was true she would be able to prove it instead of having it disproven time and time again!

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      I’ve heard of this before… WTBFH??? I think someone had tried to post something about this on my site a while back, and I removed it and threatened them with banishment (not allowed to post anything like that where there is no conviction, no charges laid, and not even any substantial proof.) I had no idea this had gotten this bad, or that this was still going on.

      My network and FB group are just starting to pick up again, so please feel free to use them to spread the word about this. I know that every little bit helps.

  • Suzee

    Dear Trench, April, Deena, and our readers,

    I made a promise a couple of months back to Dodia about my writing here while pregnant. I promised that if it got too much for me I would take a step back from writing so I wouldn’t get too overwhelmed and overstress myself while in a delicate state.

    Unfortunately, I am writing this to let you all know that I am going to take a sabbatical from doing write ups. I suffer from insomnia that came in my late second trimester of pregnancy. It was easy to deal with, but then every once in a while I would have disturbing dreams. They were dreams of my worst nightmares. I then noticed that when I would have these dreams is after I would write a child’s story and post it here. The research that is put into them, and then the writing of that research would trigger me to dream these awful things. It didn’t matter if the child lived or died. Just thinking about what they had been through would cause enormous reactions from me, make me dream, and lose even more of the very little sleep I’ve been getting for the last few months.

    April, I know I didn’t say anything until now and I hope that doesn’t hurt your feelings. I tried seeing if I just needed to take a short breather and then get back to it without a problem. I didn’t want to stress you out by my continuing to write for a little while being in limbo.

    The stories I had I have passed on to Dodia as she has graciously offered to take them on for me. I really appreciate it. I’ll come back to doing write ups once I’ve delivered and have had the rest I need afterward, but will continue to read and comment with all of you here.

    Sincerely,

    Suzee

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      (((((Suzee))))) Please promise me you’ll take a break from even reading if you keep having the dreams? We’ll miss you, of course, but the important thing is that you and baby are happy, healthy, and well-rested.

      • Suzee

        I will take a break from reading if I need to Dodia, I promise. Right now, reading hasn’t been triggering dreams. If that does start I will take a break form that. :)

    • Your_Pal_Nancy

      Suzee you are the best, I will miss reading your write ups and look forward to your return. I’m excited for you to have your new addition, I hope everything goes super easy for you!

      • Suzee

        Thanks! I will admit, I am going to miss writing, but only because these kids deserve a voice no matter their age or circumstance. We can’t write them all. I do understand that reality, but it doesn’t mean I have to like it.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      You do what you gotta do. If you feel up to it, you know where to find me. If not, I still love ya!!

      • Suzee

        I love you too bunches!

  • Muggle

    http://heraldnet.com/article/20120118/NEWS01/701189931#State-notes-alarming-spike-in-starvation-of-adopted-children
    Apparently there’s a spike in starvation of adopted children in Washington State.  So far the state doesn’t really know what’s behind it, but the Trebilcock and Williams families were mentioned (both having been featured on BB).  Another article that would be of interest. 

  • Marsha

    I am new to the site.  I’ve been reading posts going back some months and I notice that defenders of the person arrested sometimes come on to tell us that the accused is innocent and that the real facts will come out with more investigation or in court.   But I haven’t read a case yet on this site where that has actually happened.  Sometimes the other parent is subsequently arrested but the original person accused is always found guilty.   Have there been any cases covered here where someone else was found to have committed the abuse?

    • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

      One story comes to mind where it turned out the charges were dropped due to lack of evidence but it happens very few and far between. In those instances I usually remove the story but again it’s a rarity.

      —– Original message —–

      • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

        Also, “lack of evidence” doesn’t necessarily mean the person charged was “innocent”. In many cases, it just means they weren’t able to find enough evidence to actually convict the guilty party. But an abused child is an abused child, and they don’t get that way on their own… someone had to do it.

      • Marsha

        Thanks, it seemed like a very unlikely outcome to me.  

  • Risskia

    Shaken baby syndrome?   Seriously.  Ever since I heard this, I’ve tried to apply it to other crimes.  Do we ever say
    “Stabbed with a knife syndrome”?
    How about
    “Shot in the head syndrome”
    “Pushed down teh stairs syndrome”

    Nope… but the two groups of people who are considered a-little-less-than human – womenand children – violence against them is a “syndrome”

    “Battered woman syndrome”  and “shaken baby syndrome”

    This is BS

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      You forgot “fell in the bathtub syndrome”…

      Couldn’t agree more.

    • Marsha

      I understand what you are saying but there’s a very good reason for the seeming ‘medicalization’ of these crimes into ‘syndromes.’   Prior to the push by pediatricians to get the courts to accept the idea that child abuse is a syndrome, ie, something that is characteristically repeated if intervention doesn’t take place, prior acts could not be brought into court and it was extremely difficult to successfully prosecute parents.  If I remember correctly, it was about 1962 when the ‘syndrome’ was first accepted into court.

      If you are accused of bank robbery, then the prosecutor can’t argue that you did it this time because you’ve done it before, they have to have proof for each and every time.   Nowadays forensics have advanced and medical examiners can now say that the parents’ explanation doesn’t fit the injuries, but back in1962, parents being brought into court could claim that the child had ‘fallen downstairs’ or ‘in the tub’ or’ off their bike’ or whatever and juries would find it plausible.   Once prior acts could be brought into evidence though, it was not so easy for parents to explain away why their child had been in the ER for a so called accident on numerous occasions and prosecutors started winning more cases.

      • Risskia

        Marsha, that’s a very interesting take on it.   I’ll have to chew on that awhile.

      • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

        Marsha, thank you for that explanation. It’s just hard to call something inflicted a “syndrome”… to most, a “syndrome” is either something you’re born with (as with “Down’s Syndrome”), or a disease (like Reye’s Syndrome)… more an affliction, not something inflicted. It just seems to me that it would remove focus of the cause of the “syndrome” from the abuser. It seems to me that the judicial system could just as easily rule that past incidences are admissible without labeling the abuse as though it were something that is beyond control.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_CPCG7KHLYAKVGZJ55ZNC4GX2AM Laura

    This will by far be the hardest thingI have ever posted. I dont even know where to begin. I recieved a phone call from my sister (adopted) she was rushing to Salt Lake City her nephew (birth sister’s) was being flight lifed to slc hospital with bleeding on his brain. Of course she calls me and Im so jaded I was waiting for the “I dropped him”, he fell or whatever lame ass fucking excuse they could But I was hoping and hoping and hoping that what was in my head wasnt true. But sadly Angel was removed from life support at 12:25pm yesterday. A short time later they took xrays and found healing broken ribs and bones throughout his body. Ohh but wait… NO ONE knows what happened!! Each adult has a different story, each person a different lie. Now the two little girls are taken away and in care of CPS, we are all heart broken and we have to lay to rest a sweet little 4 month old. I read these stories I think of how can they? THEN I live this story and my rage ensues and I want to literally beat the fuck out of someone. Im disgusted, I have hatred and then my sister is so hurt and sad and I know that she wants this to be untrue but cant seem to bear that it is. No defending coming from any of us, but for once I understand what it’s like to be on this side. Hearing the truth outloud is horrible. Its sad, and embarrasing. I know soon this will highlight on these pages, I myself will help I just had to share with someone who understands how lost my family feels. Our poor Angel is now in heaven because of his scum mother and family

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_CPCG7KHLYAKVGZJ55ZNC4GX2AM Laura

    This will by far be the hardest thingI have ever posted. I dont even know where to begin. I recieved a phone call from my sister (adopted) she was rushing to Salt Lake City her nephew (birth sister’s) was being flight lifed to slc hospital with bleeding on his brain. Of course she calls me and Im so jaded I was waiting for the “I dropped him”, he fell or whatever lame ass fucking excuse they could But I was hoping and hoping and hoping that what was in my head wasnt true. But sadly Angel was removed from life support at 12:25pm yesterday. A short time later they took xrays and found healing broken ribs and bones throughout his body. Ohh but wait… NO ONE knows what happened!! Each adult has a different story, each person a different lie. Now the two little girls are taken away and in care of CPS, we are all heart broken and we have to lay to rest a sweet little 4 month old. I read these stories I think of how can they? THEN I live this story and my rage ensues and I want to literally beat the fuck out of someone. Im disgusted, I have hatred and then my sister is so hurt and sad and I know that she wants this to be untrue but cant seem to bear that it is. No defending coming from any of us, but for once I understand what it’s like to be on this side. Hearing the truth outloud is horrible. Its sad, and embarrasing. I know soon this will highlight on these pages, I myself will help I just had to share with someone who understands how lost my family feels. Our poor Angel is now in heaven because of his scum mother and family

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      (((((Laura))))) So very sorry. :*(

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Hugs, honey. I’m so sorry.

    • Suzee

      You are in my thoughts. I am so sorry you’re having to go through this. ((((((Laura))))))

    • Risskia

      Laura, you will be strong.  I’m sorry your family has ot go through this.

  • Risskia

    Found out Sunday that my ex-husband slapped my son during his visit there.  My 6 year old son.  He had an accident in his pants, and the ratbastard slapped him.  It didn’t leave a bruise, so I can’t stop visitation.  I’m requested a court date for child custody modification. 

    I’m so not ok right now.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Holy fuck. Did you confront him? Never mind. Don’t. Then he’ll just threaten your son next time. Fuck.

      • Risskia

        I sent him two emails with explicit instructions about how to help an older child with accident problems and a phone msg saying that slapping doesn’t help.  And I called my lawyer. And the DSS agent who handled his DSS investigations on other children with his live in woman.. .  Mostly I just want to take my child and hide under a rock to avoid committing a crime.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      Fucking fucker. Kids have accidents all the time. Piece of shit.

  • CynicalMe
    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      April, do you think that Trench would be opposed to anyone writing this one up, so long as the headline reflects the fact that she did the right thing?

      • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

        Not at all.

        —– Original message —–

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          Thanks, Trench.  

          I think that CM should get first dibs… and Suzee should get second if CM doesn’t want to (I think she could use a happy one for a change.)  If neither of them want to write it up, I’d love to do it. 

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            Please do. I think Cyn has her hands full taking care of a baby.

          • CynicalMe

            She obviously loved the baby considering the condition he was in and the emotions she showed.

            I think your voice would be best to highlight this story as an example
            of a young mother putting the needs of her child above her own!

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            I’m on it. :)

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            I love you, Shannon. Really. Lots.

          • CynicalMe

            You know I love you too!!

  • Anonymous

    Hi

    This has been in news in UK for a few days, I did send as tip but not sure if it submitted. Bad Breeding……

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-glasgow-west-16527088 

  • Muggle

    http://www.wvec.com/news/regional/137344628.html
    Not about any Breeder, but might still be of interest to some folks here.  

    And an update on Becca Blackmore, the Currituck Co., NC girl who stabbed her baby:

    http://www.wavy.com/dpp/news/local_news/autopsy-child-stabbed-with-scissors?hpt=ju_bn4 

  • Muggle

    http://www.wvec.com/news/regional/137344628.html
    Not about any Breeder, but might still be of interest to some folks here.  

    And an update on Becca Blackmore, the Currituck Co., NC girl who stabbed her baby:

    http://www.wavy.com/dpp/news/local_news/autopsy-child-stabbed-with-scissors?hpt=ju_bn4 

  • Darleen

    http://news.yahoo.com/texas-mom-sentenced-45-years-killing-son-6-141641421.html

    Not enough time if you ask me, but some justice
    Rip sweet baby boy :(

  • Anonymous

    I am surprise of all this detail information on the internet relating to this homicide that took place in Albuquerque, NM. Do you know if the family of this baby who was killed by this Galindo suspect have had thier funeral services for this baby? What more can you say about the family history with the NM Children, Youth and Family Department (CYFD) and thier involvement? Did they have other children too? Just curious. 

  • Your_Pal_Nancy

    Whoa, for a few minutes the site said “this site has blocked you from posting comments”

    I was all..what the freakin heck?

  • Monique Boulanger

    You know,  the more I read about this shit the more enraged I get for a facebook friend of mine…Never met him IRL but I sincerely feel his pain.

    Derek Hoare.  His daughter Ayn VanDyk has been apprehended by BC’s Ministry of Childrens and Family Services, since June 12th.  Ayn is Autistic.  She wanders.  To keep his kids safe, Derek built a 6′ tall privacy fence.  Ayn managed to climb this fence and wander into a neighbors yard. 
    Derek justly called the police to help find his daughter the moment he found her missing.

    MFCD Came and asked him to sign a voluntary surrender order.

    He refused.
    The next day, they took her from school.  He hasn’t seen her since.  (He has refused visitations because the way her Autism works, she won’t comprehend him leaving and meltdown..giving the MFCD more ammo against Derek, he’s damned if he does damned if he doesn’t in this case)

    Right now she’s drugged to the tits with twice the amount of seroquel meant for her weight, same with Risperidal.  She eloped from foster care not once but TWICE.  Once while naked, during a bath, through a window.  Yup.  Little girl wandering the streets drugged and naked.  MFCD says they are “Investigating”  Ok Ayn wanders ONCE from Derek, and she gets snagged, but TWICE from foster home…yeah..

    Anyway…I see these murdering sacks of shit on here, who the Social Services SHOULD have tagged, but they tag people like Derek instead.  Talk about misuse of resources.  “We’re over worked and underfunded” they say.  How about this assholes? STOP PICKING ON GOOD PARENTS AND GO AFTER THE BAD ONES FOR ONCE.  

    >.<

    Here's the link  http://www.justice4ayn.com/

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      I’ve heard about this case… then there are cases like this: http://badbreeders.net/2011/02/17/17-chances-to-save-13-month-old-alex-fail/
      and Baby P, the beautiful little boy who was so brutally beaten by his “mother”, her boyfriend, and their roommate… these stories make me bawl my eyes out. I pray that your friend’s situation works out for the best for his daughter.

      • Monique Boulanger

        Dodia,  The reason why Social Services fail those who need it, is because they’re harassing people and blowing the budget on families who DON’T. :(  Ayn didn’t need to be apprehended.  There are kids out there who are getting beaten and raped all the time, who NEED to be in protective custody.  Not a little girl who’s well loved by her parents :(

  • Pbutensc

    Here is another story 

    ST. PAUL, Minn. (WCCO) – A 40-year-old St. Paul man is accused of driving his two children around St. Paul while he was intoxicated on Tuesday, according to charges filed Friday in Ramsey County Court.
    Christian Damon Derek Stoner was charged with DWI and refusal to submit to a chemical test in connection with the incident.
    According to a criminal complaint, a 5-year-old boy knocked on the door of a home on the 1900 block of Palace Avenue in St. Paul and told the homeowner that his father, later identified as Stoner, was in a car in the street and refusing to bring him and his sister home. A police officer responded to the scene and found Stoner sitting on the center console of his vehicle. The keys for the vehicle were in the ignition and the ignition was in the accessory position.
    Stoner appeared to be drunk and he wasn’t wearing any shoes. There was also an empty alcohol bottle in the car, the complaint states. He admitted to police that he had been driving the vehicle with his two children inside. The 5-year-old boy told police that Stoner picked him and his sister up at daycare and was driving around, pulling over at random places.
    The boy said he was scared and told his father to bring them home as they were both crying and hungry, according to the complaint.
    The officer helped Stoner out of his car and he nearly fell over onto the road. A preliminary breath test showed Stoner had a blood alcohol level of .289, more than three times the legal limit for driving.

    http://minnesota.cbslocal.com/2012/01/06/charges-father-drove-around-2-kids-while-drunk/

  • Pbutensc

    Where do I leave tips?  I don’t see where I can do it now.  I am so happy!!  I hope she serves out her 35 yr sentence. 

    http://www.kare11.com/news/national/article/954959/18/35-years-for-grandma-who-threw-girl-off-walk
    FAIRFAX, Va. – A Virginia grandmother has been sentenced to 35 years in prison for murdering her 2-year-old granddaughter by tossing her off a sixth-level walkway at a busy shopping mall.
    Fifty-one-year-old Carmela dela Rosa was convicted of killing young Angelyn Ogdoc in November 2010 at Tysons Corner Center. Dela Rosa’s lawyer argued unsuccessfully that her client was legally insane.
    In a videotaped confession, dela Rosa told police she killed Angelyn to get back at her son-in-law for getting her daughter pregnant out of wedlock.
    Dela Rosa apologized at a hearing Friday in Fairfax County court.
    A jury recommended the 35-year sentence. At Friday’s hearing, Judge Bruce White had the option of reducing the sentence but left it, calling her actions “almost beyond comprehension.”
    (Copyright 2012 The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.)

    • Danielle

      in the top header of the site (black long bar) above the Bad Breeders logo is a link for “Tips/Contact”.

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        She got it. I just got two tips from her. Rock on!

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      I’m glad they didn’t let her get away with the insanity defense, and I’m glad the judge didn’t reduce the sentence. I just wish that it was longer. Maybe she’ll kick the bucket before she ever gets to take another free breath again.

    • Bad Kitty

      I remember when that happen. So in the mind of that twisted cunt killing your beautiful granddaughter is so much better then getting pregnant out of wedlock? I’m glad we got that straighten out. May that evil bitch burn in hell forever!

  • Bad Kitty

    I just pray for her son’s sake she finds her way back to be there for him. When I read his impact statement  I just cried he loved his little sister so much. I’m just worried that he will witness his mothers actions and follow her down that lonely road.
    I am not condemning her in anyway I never want to go through what she and her family have had too. I have two young boys and they are my life! If anything happen to them I don’t know what I would do.

  • jj

    I was watching Frontline on PBS the other night, and there was a segment on “opium brides” in Afghanistan.  It was interesting and extremely infuriating.  Father’s trading themselves for their children, mothers handing their daughters over to drug traffickers; I was in fucking tears by the end.  Here’s the link to it, it’s about 30 minutes, but I think this is a problem that needs to be exposed:

    http://video.pbs.org/video/2183202462/

    I don’t agree with the underlying “the government should just let these farmers grow their poppies” message, but the plight of these children need to be heard!

  • Veronica

    my sister in law once said that if a kid gets into a car with a stranger, ‘they’re just stupid’.  after that i decided to delete her off my facebook.  the tori stafford case had just exploded, those douches had just confessed and i couldn’t believe how insensitive she could be.  my mom was raped on the way to the market when she was 8.  it wasn’t because she was stupid but because she was taught to obey adults blindly and to be too nice.  some ppl just don’t understand.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      Oh, Good Lord… I don’t blame you for removing her from your list. I think I’d have done the same thing. It’s every pro-pedophile and RSOL activist’s wet dream to have someone like her buy into that train of thought and go spreading it around… blaming the victim for being victimized, no matter their age. Because, you know, young children have so much common sense.

  • Monique Boulanger

    Did any of you guys hear about the Tori Stafford case?  
    http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/ontario/court-lifts-sweeping-ban-on-victoria-stafford-murder-trial/article1831151/  

    She was my BFF’s niece.  no word of a lie.  This one isn’t about parents though.  Terri Lynn was an aquaintance of Tara..but that’s about it.  

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      Yeah… someone who lives nearby there posted pretty extensive information about the case on my website. Horrible case. :( I hope both the perpetrators fry (or as close to being fried as Canada allows.)

      • Monique Boulanger

        Terri Lynn pleaded guilty and she got life in prison without parole.   Trevor is fighting it tooth and nail.  Even to the point of getting the trial moved to a different city. Umm good luck with finding a city in Canada that has never heard about it.  I think even Inuvik knows about it.  >.<  

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Whoa. What.The.Fuck?

      • Bad Kitty

        I was  searching on the web and the mother of Tori was arrested for drug possession in Sept of 2011. 

        Here’s the link:
        http://www.thespec.com/news/ontario/article/601727–tori-stafford-s-mom-charged-in-drug-bust

        • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

          Sadly, I can see having a fucked up life if my child was murdered. What reason would I have for living? Then again…. I only have one. She had 2. She had another reason to live.

        • Monique Boulanger

          Yeah if my kid was murdered, Kitty, I’d be turning to anything to numb the pain if I could.  She has a son but still…I mean it hit Tara VERY hard when her daughter went missing.  She had an addiction problem before hand with Oxycontin,  she was actually clean for a few years before Tori was murdered.  Now,  she went back into the comfort zone of addiction to cope. :(  I feel bad for her to be honest…

          • Deena

            I feel for her too, the death of a child in such a heinous way is something no parent should ever have to endure. From reading Tori’s story it doesn’t even appear she knew the monsters who killed her, she just had the misfortune of running into to the female monster by chance.

          • Monique Boulanger

            Nope she didn’t know Terri lynn at all.  Terri knew Tara in passing when she showed up asking about a puppy.  that’s it.  

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            That was my first thought, too. Only, for me, I wouldn’t fall into drugs. I’d fall into vigilantism. I’d hunt them down and kill the mutherfuckers, prison or no.

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          Here are the links to the pieces Rev. Willow posted to PACA (and a few others mixed in): http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/forums/?search=Tori+Stafford&page=t&sa=search
          I haven’t checked them, but I’m hoping that any links posted in the posts aren’t broken.

  • Bad Kitty

    I wanted to share another sad story of a life that was taken too soon. I first emailed all the info to the site but in my haste I forgot that this little boy was not murdered by a family member but a babysitter. So April who is a wonderful person told me to put it up on the Open Thread for everyone to read. Thanks April!

    I am going to give you the abridge version and put up the links to the whole story.

    On December 11,2011 David Miller Jr. (2 1/2) and three other children were being babysat by Heather Lynn Hess in Upper Chichester, Pa. She claims while she was in the kitchen cooking  the children got quiet in the living room. When she went to see what was going on she claimed David was on the ground  unconscious with a bottle cap stuck in his throat. Did she call 911 ASAP? No she called her boyfriend first then called 911. When the medics and officers arrived she claimed she was able to get the bottle cap out and had to perform CPR because Davis was still having trouble breathing. He was rushed first to Crozer-Chester Medical Center then taken to Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania where he passed the next day.

     David had many injuries and bruising everywhere on his little body. The way the affidavit was written it states that David had many bruises in various stages of healing. David’s father does say David was in her care but doesn’t say for how long. Hess claims she doesn’t know how the other injuries got there but  was picked up Friday Dec. 31, 2011 and charged with criminal homicide, 1st and 3rd degree murder, aggravated assault, child endangerment and involuntary man slaughter.

    David’s parents were with him when he passed and they donated his organs so other little ones could live.

    The reason why this story affected me a little more was that this took place about a mile from my house. I don’t know either parties involved but that doesn’t mean I can’t feel sad about the whole thing. My heart goes out to every child that is murdered, raped and abused. Just being right down the road made it more real.

    Here is the link to the whole story. There is a picture of little David at the top of the article. http://www.delcotimes.com/articles/…/doc4efe88bfce242899006199.txt

    RIP Little Angel and God Bless.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      ::cry:: That’s just about the age of my youngest. And those eyes. He was absolutely beautiful.

      My son, being such a climber, jumper, and general ruffian (who has even fallen from the top of the bookcase and landed on his head), I can say without a doubt that it takes a lot for a child to suffer the kind of injuries described in this little boy.

      But bruises in varying stages on his back? I’m still trying to figure out how Mom and Dad didn’t see that…

      • Bad Kitty

        That did cross my mind as well. I don’t want to point fingers until all the evidence is in but that leaves a lot of questions.

        He just melted my heart with his eyes and smile. :(

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Thank you for posting this. You rock!

      • Bad Kitty

        Thanks, I just felt his story should be known.

  • Ash

    Dodie- Thanks. My Mom is great… the cold heartedness was in reference to when my aunts bf was dying of Cancer. I didn’t care. Most of the time when I talk to my siblings, I don’t care about the how are yous, what’s new… it’s just going through the motions. I ask because it’s what you do when you call someone. I briefly went to counselling, but it wasn’t a good fit. I didn’t think it affected me THAT much to require it. After everything came to light, I found out my stepbrother had duct taped a girl and raped her, but the girl was refusing to testify… That’s the only reason I went to court over it, but he got a slap on the wrist.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      I hope you don’t take this the wrong way, because I’m not meaning this in a disparaging way at all… have you been tested for autism spectrum/aspberger’s? If I’m not mistaken, what you describe is one of the symptoms of Aspberger’s, and you could have a very mild case. Knowing what’s going on could go a long way to helping you to work through some of the things you’ve been through, because it would effect how you’d work through them.

      And kudos to you for going to court to help your stepbrother’s other victim… I find it disgusting that he got a slap on the wrist for that. He should have gone away for life. :(

      • Ash

        No. When I was younger, I got taken to the local “mental” hospital because a school counsellor thought I’d benefit from tests (lol), but I’m just a regular old crazy, not a crazy-crazy. The person doing the tests thought I was crazy for thinking I was crazy.

        That is an interesting idea though. I’ll try and look into it next time I’m at the Doctor’s office.

  • Kathyrickerbrown

    April I am ao glad it’s you! I Am going to assume your seemingly toned down style was simply a Christmas gift to the disgrunteled curse word police, but your scathing wit will once again be unleashed on the masses!! You write from the heart and I love to read your posts! Thanks to you and all those that keep this site current! I am sure there are hundreds more people lurking out here just like me! Keep up the good work and let the tard bashing resume!!

  • Muggle

    http://abcnews.go.com/US/okla-woman-shoots-kills-intruder911-operators-shoot/story?id=15285605&affil=WVEC#.TwT-79S0wmQ
    And to lighten everyone’s mood, here’s a very good teen mother who shot a guy who broke into her house.  All breeders featured here should take notes. 

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      I posted that one too. Awesome!

  • Muggle

    http://www.wvec.com/my-city/vabeach/Va-Beach-mom-sentenced-136694043.html
    Yeah, wonderful, some dumb bitch gets zero jail time for shooting her own son and killing him.  Don’t you just love Virginia Beach?

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      She even looks like an evil cunt.

  • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April
  • Nonya

    part of the problem in these “domestic” cases is that no one really cares until its too late.  They get lawyers and Gaurdian ad Litems involved. It sound really good, but none of em do their jobs (keep the kids safe) then in hind sight we are always scratching our heads…50/50 is not always the way to go and too often, in an effort to try and keep the peace that is what Judges do, and it send some chidlren to their death.  If courts took more care in deciding what was best and really looked at the goins on in the relationship and the mental health of the parties and made the “professionals” who are to look out for the kids actually do that job, many innocent lives might be saved.   I see it all the time, I work for  domestic law law attorney…

  • Ash

    Hey guys, it’s been awhile since I’ve posted here… Hope everyone is well :)
    I’m actually just writing to get your reactions on something.

    My mom called me the other night and told me some pretty devestating news. It’s recently come to light that my eldest neice (who will be 16 in May), has been “acting out” because she was molested by my father. I haven’t had any contact with him in years, and even when we did talk, it was more a chore for him than anything so I’ve never been close to him. I’ve known since I was younger that he touched my oldest sister (who’s 12 years older than me), and only fairly recently my youngest sister (who’s 4 years younger than me). My sister is getting the police involved, but that’s not why I’m writing.I’m actually writing, because I’m concerned over MY reaction to finding out about what’s happened with my neice.I didn’t have a reaction. What little I did have was “why are you telling me this as I’m leaving for work? This is going to be on my mind the whole night.”There was no trace of the anger you all talk about in this situation. Pitty, and sadness yes at what she’s going through, but no anger. No connection.My mom has pointed out what she calls my “cold heartedness” before, but this is the first time I’ve noticed it for myself. I was molested when I was 10, by my dad’s girlfriend’s son. I used to self harm by cutting, and still somewhat do now by intentionally creating bruises. It’s the feeling of pain that drives it, I used to call it a distraction… but I’m starting to think it might just be the feeling of anything.I’m not looking for sympathy for me. I’m not the victim here… I’m just looking for insight. I’m terrified to talk to my family about it, because I don’t want them to think I don’t care about my neice. I do care. I just don’t feel anything about it.

    • Deb

      Ash- I want to reply to your comment, but not on a public forum. Not that I have anything bad to say- but one thing I will say publicly is that you are showing compassion simply by asking for others opinion (or help). Ask April for my e-mail addy only if you want. And yes, you are a victim too.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      (((((Ash))))) All these things you’re experiencing are classic symptoms of abuse. Please don’t feel like anything you’ve described makes you “abnormal”. It doesn’t. What you went through is hard enough to deal with, without thinking there is something wrong with you. And shame on your mother for that “cold heartedness” remark. As your mother, she should be more empathetic to what you’re going through. Has she, as your mother, tried to help you find the resources you need to deal with what you’re going through?

      I think you’re very brave for finding anyplace to ask about this. If you haven’t sought therapy yet, please talk to your physician as a starting point. Any good physician will have a list of resources for victims/survivors of abuse. I realize you’re not the victim in the instance you first began to describe, but it’s apparent that you do need to work through some things. There isn’t much you can do for your niece at this point but offer emotional support and be there for her, but that will be difficult, at best, if you’re having trouble dealing with what you went through.

      I’m sure I speak for all of us here when I say that we’re here if you need us.

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        I love you. You always say the right thing.

        • CynicalMe

          I love her because she always finds the right way to say it!!

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            There IS that.

  • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

    Sorry.  I love this girl.  I feel for her having to live with the loss of her husband at such and early age, and now dealing with taking a life – but kudos to her for doing what all the horrible mothers featured here FAIL to do. 

    HUgs to Sarah McKinley!!  You go, gun packing princess.  You’re a hero!

  • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April
  • Pcoans

    I am limited in research I can do because I only have internet on my phone. There is a story of murder/suicide outside Dublin Texas this past friday, 12/30/11, a 35 yr old grandpa killed his 15 yr old daughters 3 yr old son. Meaning she was 12 at the time of birth and there is rumor it was also his son…incest! I dont even know where to begin searching for information regarding this story. Apparently he was extremely upset at finding the son at his home w/out the mom (his daughter) and didnt think she was a responsible parent. His name was Juan Torres.

    • Deena

      I’m gonna research him, thanks for the info.

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        I fyou find it, feel free to write it. I did one incest story last night and have another one pending. Don’t know if I can stomach one more.

        • Deena

          You know I will darlin’

  • Kathyrickerbrown

    I am a dedicated reader of this site! It makes me a better mommy to my beautiful 3 1/2 yr old twins. I have no idea how you guys find the time and emotional energy to bring these stories to us, but I am grateful that you do! The grammar police should all go pound sand, they suck!! But truly the reason I have got off my lazy lurking ass and posted to this site is because I am wondering what happened to April? Is malevolent April April? I do not recognize her wit and colorful language, so I am thinking No? At first I wondered if she was just taking a well deserved break, but now I am a bit worried! Can someone set me straight, Thanks.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      No no no!!! I’m April. See my avatar. Same me. I’m still colorful, just a little overwhelmed. What’s missing? Where have I failed you, rockstar mother of twins who does this shit without wine and prozac? You need me to mother fuck a tard until there’s bloodshed? Tell me? I swear I’m here. I swear I still will cut a bitch down with just my words. I swear my tits still look awesome in this top. Ugh!! Tell me what you need? I didn’t realize I was falling off. Am I getting too soft? It’s Deena’s fault!

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      Oh, Malevolent April is still April. ;) My guess was that she changed her name to still invoke that fear into the trolls, to make up for the being overwhelmed by everything, but I liked the name change so I didn’t bother asking.

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        Naw. I changed my email address and decided it was fitting. I am a littl malevolent at times. Lovable at others. Depends on how you rub me.

        DF, have Ilost my spark? Am I failing?

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          I don’t think you’ve lost it… I just think you’re tired and need a rest.

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            You may be right. But you know more than most…. I have a personal life that wears on me at times. Maybe a day off – no phone, no NOTHING…. But I’d miss all you trouble makers too much. So I can’t do it. Nope.

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            So stick to FB only. :) Or just bug us via email.

            But seriously, I think you’re headed for burnout. *HUGS* Some people get crazed, others just seem to have a melancholy upon them… I think a melancholy has come upon you.

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            I don’t think I’m burned out of BB. I think I’m just generally overloaded. With life.

          • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

            If you get burned out I’d have to find myself a new Robin. 

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            I’m not. And you better not. I look better in the cape than most. Plus… I forgot the best part. I bought BATMAN underwear for Kelly as a joke and I put them on to make him giggle. I AM BATMAN!!!! They looked really hot with my little black panties underneath.

          • Ash

            I bought my stepdad a sexy Ms clause teddy for christmas (getting him to wear thongs is a running joke within my family, for gift giving lol), and he wore it… everyone was in tears laughing (or trying to get out the retina scars.

            Deb- a dot warden at live dot ca … (just change the dot to . and at to @) I’m not too afraid of this crowd knowing how to reach me (infact, I secretly hope april will show up at my door one day xD)

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            Editted out the contact info. In case more than THIS crowd decide to contact you.

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            I think he meant like Howard Stern’s Robin. LMAO

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            But… but…… Shit.

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            Hey, I could be wrong, though. For some reason, that was the first Robin that came to mind, even though I don’t watch/listen to Howard Stern. o.0

          • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

            No she’s right. I’m Batman. 

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            DOH!

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            No. I am. I have the undies to prove it.

          • Ash
          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            ROFLMFAO!!

  • Veronica

    heya, do any of you all believe in cps conspiracy theories?  aka, at what point do we stop thinking cps is just incompetent and start to suspect that cps is an adoption racket?  where stealing well adjusted kids is easier than helping kids who actually need it?  just a theory…  after hearing so so so many stories of cps not doing their job when kids needed it and harassing ppl whose kids were not being abused, i’ve started to wonder what the deal is, ya know?

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      I’ve heard about this happening more in the UK. But of all the kids I’ve known, personally, the only ones that CPS got involved in their lives were those that needed it. None of the happy, well-adjusted kids I know have had any run-ins with CPS.

      CPS is full of fuck-ups, for sure. I mean, there’s no denying that. But there are those who really try hard to do their jobs, in spite of the red tape in their way, the “every parent deserves another chance” mentality, etc. I may have (key words being “may have”) heard of one case of children being wrongfully removed from parents and not given back.

    • http://trench.co Trench Reynolds

      I don’t believe in conspiracy theories. Most CPSs aren’t evil, they’re just inept. 

      • Veronica

        Yes, I thought not.  What about something in between those two?  Like, maybe there are incentives, bonuses, to get a certain number of adoptions per worker?  So, this wouldn’t be an on purpose conspiracy on anyone’s part but also not as random as just ineptness…

        I find it alarming that you will not consider ANY conspiracy theories.  To me that implies that the public is always being told 100% of the truth and that just doesn’t seem likely, even if you super-love and trust political leaders.

        • Monique Boulanger

          Actually,  there is incentives to keep children in care longer and adopted out.  That’s why workers target healthy kids, vs ones who are chronically abused.  There is a story about a little autistic girl called Ayn Van Dyk out of Vancouver BC who was apprehended by the Social Services from her single dad. NO ABUSE..at all was seen via the Dr…but they took her because they thought he was “overwhelmed” Yeah..they left his other autistic son in his care..not a problem in the world with that.  She has escaped from foster care not once but twice, one time she was naked after escaping from a bath. Oh yeah they have her on 2x the amount of Seroquel for her weight to keep her sedated…so she was wandering naked and DRUGGED…  

          justiceforayn.com is where you can get the rest of this tragedy.  Social workers aren’t doing their jobs right.  They get paid for the amount of kids in care, not the type of kids in care..but they want them to be adoptable too…so those who are suffering from PTSD aren’t worth their effort I guess.  They’ll let a few die in their parents custody as an excuse to go overboard with those who aren’t doing any harm to their kids whatsoever.  

  • courtney26

    Yes, this place is a venting ground, so thus I was venting! I’m simply appalled at the cesspool refered to as “The Land of Enchantment” (New Mexico). Hell, all that is necessary to keep this blog running till the end of time is a direct news link to Albuquerque. The most bizarre, and hanis acts of abuse on children stem from this city/state. Just in the last 2 weeks the most breath taking ones involved 2 little girls abused and left to starve in a bathtub, a meth addicted mother stabbing her 8yr old son in the neck, a man raping and killing his one month old, a man was arrested for DUI and charged with child abuse for having his 2 children with him, meth lab bust with child abuse charges… the list goes on and  on for this state. Its hard to wrap my mind around. The laws and sentences handed down to these monsters (some of the charges actually get over turned) are ridiculous to say the least! I do believe we need to do our part to fight child abuse, no matter how large or small. The 911 dispatchers who took the call in the case of the 2 little girls who were abused, starved, and found in a bathtub took up a community collection so the little girls would have a good Christmas! They collected so much that they were able to help other abused children throughout the city! That was so awesome :) I truly feel they should be honored in someway. Its people like that that make the world not look and feel so ugly and inspire myself and perhaps a few others to make a difference in their own communities.

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  • LadyMahapma

    courtney26 –
    Just this morning I sent in links to three NM abuse cases, including the two stories you mentioned.  These folks do everything possible to post cases as they can, and I very much appreciate their efforts.  If you want to be helpful, please send the links via their contact page so they can investigate and do a write-up.  If you feel comfortable doing the write-up, please do so and send it in through the same contact page.  I’m sure your assistance will be appreciated, especially as these folks are inundated with information every day.

    I am becoming more and more sickened by the rampant abuse of helpless children.  It seems the cases are becoming more frequent (particularly in NM).  The story of the 1 month old really rocked my world this morning on the way to work.  I cannot get the horrible images out of my mind, and I truly hope that the beast that did that to her will be put in general population “accidentaly” instead of given the death penalty (which is far too humane for him).

    At any rate – THANK YOU to everyone for their contributions to this site and for helping raise awareness to what is really happening.  I for one really appreciate the time and effort you devote to this cause.

    • JustMe

      Ohh wow I just read the articles on the sick F*&k that rape and killed his 1 month old ugh !! This sickens me! 

      Courtney26 – Sadly there is more cases than writers and all of the writers have lives other than this site. They are enjoying raising their children not killing, beating, raping them. So if you are finding better news in betters places BY ALL MEANS go READ THEM!!! Or better WRITE SOMETHING and send it in!

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        Laura, Can you send me some links on this one? I think you have my email address? Or send it to the tips link. I will write and post it this afternoon. I swear it!! Unless you all would rather see another writer post it.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      I got your tip. Thank you! I will be posting it sometime this afternoon or this evening. Also, thank you for the kind words. Sometimes we need more understanding newbies like you. I will not be posting ANYTHING courtney writes since I didn’t like the tone of her comment, but if any of you others think you want to take a whack at it, go for it. If I don’t see anything in my email by the time I get off work, I’ll go ahead and do it. This one needs to be posted.

      Thanks again and Happy New Year to you and your family.

      Oh… and WELOCME!!

  • courtney26

    Wow, with all the constant headlines of horrific child abuse flooding the TV/internet screens on a daily basis, I really would have expected this site to be better updated. A POS in Albuquerque, NM abused and starved her little girls then made them live in a bathtub (no feature here), yet it made “bad breeder” headlines when some dumbass duck taped him 1yr old and put it on FB as a joke. Yeah everyone knew damn well that was poor decision making but that it wasnt meant with the same intention as these dumb ass, gross parents who rape/murder their one month old baby girl (also a headline this week in Albuquerque). Who does your reporting? Need some help?

    • CynicalMe

      I truly hope your attitude in this post is due to the emotions brought up in the cases you’re referring to and not because you are to dense to see that Deena’s post being featured on BlogHer is a very good thing!!

      This site’s main purpose is to raise awareness!  BB being featured on that site will bring new readers that we would not have reached otherwise!  That means more people being made aware of not only the duct taping incident, but the many other horrific cases featured here and elsewhere! 

      If you’ll look at the very top of the page you will see a link that says “Tips/Contact”.  That is where you should have sent the links to your articles…  Hell, you didn’t even link them in your post! 

      It almost looks like you just wanted to piss and moan about something that you think was done jokingly being written up and called what it was…  Abuse!  Abuse doesn’t always look the same but it’s still abuse regardless of the severity of the actions the abuser chooses to take!

      The writers volunteer their time and write between jobs and caring for their own families!  Sadly, some cases don’t get written up for a number of different reasons.  Unfortunately, there are so many different cases daily there is no way they can all be featured here on BB… 

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        Well, plus it’s the holidays and who wants to read / write about such things when we should all be enjoying our own children. Selfish, I know – But I’m kinda selfish in the fact that I kept my child alive so I could enjoy him.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Courtney, I didn’t see any of the tips. Did you send them under another name or email address?

      • courtney26

        Yes, this place is a venting ground, so thus I was venting! I’m simply appalled at the cesspool refered to as “The Land of Enchantment” (New Mexico). Hell, all that is necessary to keep this blog running till the end of time is a direct news link to Albuquerque. The most bizarre, and hanis acts of abuse on children stem from this city/state. Just in the last 2 weeks the most breath taking ones involved 2 little girls abused and left to starve in a bathtub, a meth addicted mother stabbing her 8yr old son in the neck, a man raping and killing his one month old, a man was arrested for DUI and charged with child abuse for having his 2 children with him, meth lab bust with child abuse charges… the list goes on and  on for this state. Its hard to wrap my mind around. The laws and sentences handed down to these monsters (some of the charges actually get over turned) are ridiculous to say the least! 
        I do believe we need to do our part to fight child abuse, no matter how large or small. The 911 dispatchers who took the call in the case of the 2 little girls who were abused, starved, and found in a bathtub took up a community collection so the little girls would have a good Christmas! They collected so much that they were able to help other abused children throughout the city! That was so awesome :) I truly feel they should be honored in someway. Its people like that that make the world not look and feel so ugly and inspire myself and perhaps a few others to make a difference in their own communities.

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          NM may be trying to compete with Flori-DUH!, but this is overkill.

    • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

      If you find a headline that you feel should be featured here, feel free to submit the newslink(s) and quit whining about it like a bitch because there are too many cases of abuse for us to keep up with after regular jobs, cooking, cleaning, feeding our families, etc. etc. etc. ad nauseam. The writers here aren’t paid for this (except with the satisfaction of knowing that they’re doing a little something extra to help spread awareness, and the chance to vent their anger about these cases), and they do it in their spare time. We’re not reporters here, we’re bloggers. Look up the difference.

      You know, one of my New Year’s Resolutions is to try to be nicer to people. Unfortunately for you, I saw this on New Year’s Eve… still 2011… and I’ve been in a pretty foul mood for the last week as it is. That being said, kindly get fucked.

      • Pcoans

        I admire what you do and I want to help. I am pissed at the sick sadistic fuckers that are violating our children! They should all be put on a deserted island w/out provisions and forced to turn cannabalistic on each other, save us taxpayers the money…just sayin

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          :)

          April, you’ve got another volunteer. ;)

          • KathyK

            And another!  I’ll give it a shot if you want me to, but I have no idea how to put pictures on the write-ups.  I also don’t think I’ll be as good as many of you are at choosing original descriptions (insults) and punishments for these monsters.  I am a good speller though.  You have my e-mail right?

    • KathyK

      Unfortunately, there are way too many stories of child abuse for any site to be able to post every one.  I think the writers on this site do a damn good job and they certainly don’t deserve your criticism.  I don’t know them personally but most seem to have families, jobs, and other responsibilities.  They should be commended for volunteering their time and efforts to call attention to child abuse. 

      They would have more time to post stories if they didn’t have to to defend themselves so often to people like you, others that defend the abusers, grammar/spelling Nazis, and even posters that threaten them.  I am glad that they are the kind of people who choose to spend more time with their families around the holidays than reading/writing about horrors that innocent children have had to endure.  I can only imagine what it must be like to have to write these stories day after day.  They must need a break sometimes.  Have you even considered what a heartwrenching experience it must be?

      I think all of the writers on BB deserve compliments and a wonderful new year!

      • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

        Thanks, dear.

    • Your_Pal_Nancy

      “some dumbass duck taped him 1 yr old”

      You certainly fail in the intelligence department! No, a dumbass duct taping a child is not as bad as a pervert raping one. Guess what? The writers aren’t scouring the net for the worst cases of abuse, they report abuse as the tips come to them and sometimes they aren’t quite as heinous. I’m creeped out by how many people have trolled over here to complain about lack of upates

    • Anonymous

      Learn the meaning of the word BLOG.

  • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

    If anyone here lives in IN, and knows anything about how the child welfare check laws work there, could you give me a few pointers on how to get them to make the check and follow-up?  A friend is having problems and is worried about her child.  I wasn’t able to find anything other than a discussion board that says if you call, they have to check.  But they wouldn’t for her.  

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Where is your friend? Why isn’t she with the child?

      • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

        Her daughter is 16, and has chosen to live with her father, even though the mother was granted full custody in the divorce decree. The daughter has become violent with mom in the past (she can’t afford the pretties that daughter wants, and daddy can only afford them because he has driven himself and the mother deeply into debt… the house he’s living in and supposed to be selling to split per divorce decree is going to
        be foreclosed on at some point because he won’t keep it on the market and can’t afford the mortgage.) Another part of the reason she wanted to live with dad is that mom can’t afford an apartment in her school district, and she didn’t want to leave her school and friends. She then informed mom that she was going to be home-schooled because she wanted to. Now the mother hasn’t even heard from the daughter in a month, her cell goes directly to voicemail, and mom check and the phone hasn’t even been used in a month. She’s driven by the house, and there are cars in the drive, but no lights, no signs of movement. She called LE to request a welfare check, but they said all they could do is remove her from the home and place her back in mom’s custody… and if she puts up a fight, she goes to juvie. I’m guessing this response is because, technically, mom has legal custody, but she feels the fact that he was formerly a police officer has something to do with it. But she also feels that he’s moving her daughter out of state without permission… and maybe already has.

        • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

          Then, she needs to insist that they check and if she’s not there, file kidnapping charges.

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            I told her to insist they check. I also told her to go ahead and meet them there and have her daughter placed back into her custody if that’s what it takes. I also suggested she have a friend make the call so that they can’t tell them the same thing and will (hopefully) have to do the check. That whole situation is fucked.

          • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

            She needs to be persistant.

          • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

            I know… That’s what I said.

  • Danica’s Mommy

    I read this story earlier today April.  It’s a very touching story and just proves that just because you are young, doesn’t mean you will be a crappy Mother.  She put her baby’s best interest first from the beginning.  It was just a very powerful story of a Mother’s love. 

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      She put her babies interest ahead of her own health. No abortion. No abuse. Nothing but all the love in her heart and her last breathe of life. Gawd… I wanna cry for her.

  • Anonymous

    That story made me cry, that is love, right there.

  • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April
    • Anonymous

      That is so sad. It sucks that such a selfless mother had to leave the world so soon while all these shitty parents get to stick around to treat their children badly!

      • Suzee

        It is extremely sad. At least it’s obvious her parents raised her well with how selfless she was by the huge sacrifice she made for the well-being of her unborn son. I don’t feel he will be without tons of love and cuddles, but I surely hope that he doesn’t live in his mother’s shadow either.

        • Anonymous

          I agree!

  • Stephen Weiss

    Since I will not be able to make it on tomorrow merry Christmas all.

    • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

      Did you have a nice Christmas, love?

      • Stephen Weiss

        Well I was having a nice holiday:

        http://www.courierpress.com/news/2011/dec/28/evansville-couple-accused-having-children-home-4-m/

        The look on this bitches face is just fucking heartrending.

        • http://pagansagainstchildabuse.spruz.com/ DodiaFae

          You know she’s just upset that she got caught. She obviously didn’t give thought one about what doing that in her children’s home would do to them… or that it could very well kill them.

        • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

          I sent this one to Suzee. I love the meth heads, but she’s on a roll.

          • Suzee

            I’ll take it.