“Mommy just left us on the sidewalk and drove away.”

Deena

Heartless mother deserts daughters,leaving the alone on  a Brooklyn sidewalk 

Brooklyn mom Dalisha Adams charged with abandoning daughters on street 

Dalisha  Adams arrested for abandoning her daughters on a Brooklyn sidewalk 

Brooklyn mother Dalisha Adams posted Facebook picture of naked man hours after dumping kids 

OK,  so allow me to introduce you to Domini (5) and Diani (3), cute aren’t they?  These two cuties are sisters and were found wondering a Brooklyn sidewalk alone and carrying disposable diapers on Sunday, January 29th.  The girls were bundled up warmly and wearing UGG boots and showed no outward signs of abuse.  So how did they end up on a Brooklyn sidewalk alone? I’m getting to that right now!

Now, let me introduce you to their mother Dalisha Adams (26).  It appears Dalisha needed a break and decided to drop her daughters off at the paternal grandmother’s apartment to take a few hours for her.  Not a big deal, as mothers and fathers here was can understand the need for a little “me” time now then, except that Dalisha literally dropped her daughters off on the side of the road and took off.  Not only did she drop them off on the side of the road, it was not even in front of the grandmother’s complex, not that that would make it better, but instead the complex next to it.

The sisters were found and police were alerted by an elderly couple who noticed them standing on the sidewalk next to a busy street holding only diapers and looking shaken and confused at about 2:40 pm. When questioned by police the girls gave them their first names and told them their mommy dropped them off.  They couldn’t tell police where they lived accept that they lived in a blue house with flowers outside they also said their mother’s name was Dalisha and she drove white car.

While police searched for Dalisha, going door to door at the apartment complex, scouring nearby surveillance video and getting pictures of the sister out to the media, a picture of, what appears to be, a naked man holding a bottle of pink champagne was posted to Dalisha’s Facebook.  She and her sister have denied she posted that picture, claiming perhaps the girls’ father, whom she has a protective order against for domestic violence, may have done it.

The above mentioned protective order and the family’s history with CPS because of the domestic violence is how the police were able to identify the girls’ mother.  After identifying Dalisha police went to her apartment around 10 pm and used a crowbar to gain entry but she wasn’t there.  She would get word from a co-worker police were looking for her and turned herself in around 11 pm.  Dalisha has been charged with two counts of endangering the welfare of a child.  The sisters are in the custody of the state, temporarily.

A lot of people have a lot to say about Dalisha and the way she treats the girls.  Neighbors are coming forward and saying that she is often heard cursing at the girls telling them to “shut the fuck up.”  One neighbor said she heard her tell the youngest “I’ll punch you in the fucking face.”  Shortly before she dropped the girls off she was heard telling one of the crying children, “Shut the fuck up, I’m going to get you out of here.”  I feel so bad for these little girls, this is awful.  They had to have stood there and wondered why she left and if she was going to come back.  The thought of that is so frightening to me.

The paternal grandmother is trying to get the girls and says though she is angry she does not believe she left the girls alone intentionally.  I am not sure how in the love of gawd she can say that, I mean seriously, she dropped them on the side of the road.  She thinks she meant to drop them in front of her complex, OK so she has never taken her kids to their grandmother’s before and doesn’t know which complex is hers.  I doubt that, and even if she thought she was in front of the right complex, in what universe is it OK to drop off two little girls of any age on the sidewalk and drive off?

Of course Dalisha has her own version of what happened and in her version she dropped the girls off to the grandmother’s apartment and handed them off to grandma.  She admits to not going into the apartment for fear of her ex, but said she did not leave the girls standing on the side of the road.  Well Dalisha…I think the fact that your child (no one else) told the police you dropped them off and drove away kinda calls bull shit on your version of the incident.

Her sister and friends are saying, they don’t believe she dropped the girls on the side of the road and left and describe her as a doting mother.  Well, ladies in the world I live in “doting mothers” don’t tell their 3-year-old child, “I’m going to punch you in the fucking face.”  Just sayin’….

Thanks to all who sent in the tip.

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  • digchild

    What a sorry excuse for a mom Adams is.I suppose she would have either been under the influence of alcohol and/or drugs or was just angry and frustrated when she abandoned her kids.Otherwise,no right-thinking parent would do what she did.

  • thecatsmeow

    Thank god we at the end of the story have two, little non-dead, non-abused little girls but absolutely no thanks for that are due to their female birth organism. I didn’t leave my daughter alone in the YARD let alone by a busy street at that age. I also never threatened to punch her in the face either. But then I’m a doting mother – breastfed, coslept, wore her in a sling, stayed home with her for 2 years, read lots of stories to her. 

  • Pbutensc

    I think what I just can’t understand, been reading BB or Parents behaving bad for 8 yrs.  I was lucky to born to parents who loved me.  So is that it?   You are lucky or your not.  These children need to feel total LOVE.  Pisses me off that these children can’t feel like I have felt my whole life, I was important to my parents.  These children are important too and should feel that kind of love. But instead, they are in pain weither mom/dad dumped them on the streat, hit, veribly/physically abused or even killed them.  What is wrong with people.  Might get bashed for this but I don’t think these parents should ever get second chances.  Parents who kill there children should get the same.

    • Angel

       Bashed? For that comment? All you’ll get from me is agreement. All kids should be loved – and should know that they are…

    • jj

      I agree with you, too; assholes like this shouldn’t get a second chance.  There’s a big difference between making a mistake (as far as parenting goes) and the shit that you see here.  I’m a single mom of three, and I screw up all the time.  The big difference is that my parenting screw ups don’t hurt my children, physically or psychologically and I use them as learning experiences.

      Don’t get me wrong, I’m a kick-ass mom and will curb stomp anyone who says otherwise, but I’m human.

    • Your_Pal_Nancy

      Only an idiot would bash you for that opinion, and we only bash idiots around here.

  • jj

    When I drop off my kids’ friends, I wait to pull off until they are in the house.  Not on the porch, or about to open the door, but until they are in the house and the outer door is shut.  And these are 15-18 year olds. 

    This is just another case of a selfish mom thinking of herself and not her kids.  Thank Jeebus the kids are OK.

  • Pbutensc

    My dad just died last week and I sit here and cry because I know how much he loved me.  Then this story.  It is really affecting me.  How can anyone just leave their children.  This will impact them for ever.  Poor babies.  I wish they could have had my mom and dad.  They are great!

    • Marsha

      I am so sorry for your loss!  We are never ready to say good bye to our parents.

  • RB

    All I can say is WTF and thank the Deity that Someone was looking out for those two angels.  Who the F@@@ leaves their kids, unattended, in the middle of the city.  Deity knows what could have happened…

  • Anne

    The fact that the children apparently aren’t even toilet trained yet at 3 and 5 (and that the mother thinks it’s okay to make them parade around holding their own diapers, which I imagine would be pretty mortifying for kids) is another red flag.

  • Risskia

    I don’t let my son play without supervision in the front yard of our house in a quiet cul de sac neighborhood where I am on waving terms with most of my neighbors and first names with quite a few.  He’s 6.
    To drop children younger than that off in front of an APARTMENT COMPLEX?  With who knows how many people, statically some of whom are molesters, rapists, etc…  That’s just… I think a good response would be to drop her off in a city someowhere in subsaharan Africa where English is not a common language and see how she fares…

  • http://badbreeders.net/ Malevolent April

    Dalisha?  That sounds like a vaginal infection.  And from her lack of maternal instinct, I’d say that it’s accurate. 

    • Deena

      You took the words right out of my mouth!

    • Your_Pal_Nancy

      Hah! “Sorry, ma’am you tested positive for Dalisha”