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Good Samaritan:4, Bad Mother:0

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Amber Lee Gandy, 25, of Grand Ronde, Oregon, likes to drink and then go joyriding with her babies in the car. Allegedly. Charges are expected to be filed concerning the accident in which she flipped her SUV upside down in Widow Creek with her children, 2-year old Kylie Gandy, 3-year old Austin Gandy, and six-month old Kameron Gandy in the vehicle.

Luckily, a neighbor happened upon the wreck and was able to extract Kylie and Austin, and the mother. It took a few more minutes before the incubator remembered that she had a third child, who was still in the vehicle, underwater. The hero waded back in to the creek, but by the time he got the baby out, Kameron had no pulse and was not breathing.

Medical personnel managed to revive the infant and he was life-flighted to another hospital in critical condition, and his prognosis has improved since then. No thanks to the idiot who thought that getting her drink on was more important than keeping her kids alive.

Where do these selfish hootchies come from? And why do they have babies that they have no intention of taking proper care of? How hard is it to stay sober, anyway? I do it all the time, so it can’t be that hard. Just say no. Just another public service announcement from your neighborhood crime prevention specialist, Captain Obvious.

I have yet to find an article that gives Amber’s BAC, but the wording in one of the articles makes me wonder if alcohol was the only thing she was under the influence of. According to the second article linked above, “an investigation by the Sheriff’s Office and Oregon State Police revealed that Amber Gandy was under the influence of intoxicants and that alcohol was a contributing factor of the traffic crash.” If alcohol was listed as a ‘factor’, and she was under the influence of ‘intoxicants’ (plural), that leads me to believe that there were other substances that she tested positive for, as well.

Oh, and did I mention that she was driving on a suspended license? Yeah. It has been suspended since 2007. I bet it wasn’t suspended for anything as minor as unpaid traffic tickets, either. Something tells me that this ain’t her first rodeo, if ya know what I mean…..

And just so I don’t get slammed by the ‘double standard’ police….where in the HELL was the father? Surely he knew her license were suspended, and that she had a drinking problem. So why were the kiddies in the car with her? So many questions….anybody have any answers?

I sincerely hope they throw the book at this lush, and keep her away from her kids for a good long time. Like, until they are old enough to drive themselves around.

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  1. Thank God for those Good Samaritans and thier selflessness and quick thinking. Anyone hear of any updates on the kids, any charges for the incubator? The first article also mentions the 6 mo. old’s car seat was in front, right where they tell you not to put it. WTG dumbass egg donor. I wanted to see what this idiot looked like and found this. http://www.myspace.com/kevengandy Oh how wonderful the baby is doing better, and might be extubated soon. Of course no mention from mom or her friends about her putting him there to begin with. 11 – 12 days on a vent is no joke. May her cell walls be covered in pictures of her injured kids.

  2. Thank God for those Good Samaritans and thier selflessness and quick thinking. Anyone hear of any updates on the kids, any charges for the incubator? The first article also mentions the 6 mo. old’s car seat was in front, right where they tell you not to put it. WTG dumbass egg donor. I wanted to see what this idiot looked like and found this. http://www.myspace.com/kevengandy Oh how wonderful the baby is doing better, and might be extubated soon. Of course no mention from mom or her friends about her putting him there to begin with. 11 – 12 days on a vent is no joke. May her cell walls be covered in pictures of her injured kids.

  3. and where was the rest of her family? I wonder what this pickled woman would have done if these people had not shown up to help…probably nada.

  4. and where was the rest of her family? I wonder what this pickled woman would have done if these people had not shown up to help…probably nada.

  5. I know that some people get mad when we make comments about these abusers appearances, but seriously, these two look like they’re inbred cousins.

    1. to stephanie. just because you fuck your dad does not make us all inbred. do me a favor and breed outside the box. CUNT

      1. Well I’m white and my husband’s Chinese – I’m not sure how much farther I could get out of the box, but thanks anyway πŸ™‚

        1. πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

  6. I know that some people get mad when we make comments about these abusers appearances, but seriously, these two look like they’re inbred cousins.

    1. to stephanie. just because you fuck your dad does not make us all inbred. do me a favor and breed outside the box. CUNT

      1. Well I’m white and my husband’s Chinese – I’m not sure how much farther I could get out of the box, but thanks anyway πŸ™‚

        1. πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

  7. You want to drive your drunk self over an embankment and upside down into a creek, go for it. Just remember to hire a responsible babysitter first. The kids don’t deserve the consequences of the parent’s stupidity.

    1. to kathy. yeah bith like i had the shit marked on my calender just ready to happen. your a stupid whore just like most all the other bithches talking shit on this website.

  8. You want to drive your drunk self over an embankment and upside down into a creek, go for it. Just remember to hire a responsible babysitter first. The kids don’t deserve the consequences of the parent’s stupidity.

    1. to kathy. yeah bith like i had the shit marked on my calender just ready to happen. your a stupid whore just like most all the other bithches talking shit on this website.

  9. Look at it from the other angle. How well-adjusted are those kids likely to be. Better off for us that they would have died and then we’d have less alcoholics walking around.

    1. Are you on crack, Kyle? Why would you even suggest such a thing? Just because a parent has a drinking problem, does not necessarily mean that the children will.

      They’d be better off dead? Again, are you stoned or something? 😯

    2. Kyle is just trying to yank some chains and get some nasty banter going. Resist, Angel… resist! lol lol

      1. Yes, ma’am. I don’t know what came over me! I just got done reading last night’s OT, and I couldn’t resist the bait…. πŸ˜†

    3. omg… really??? did you really just say that, kyle??

      1. Unless I’m imagining this conversation, yeah I did.

    4. no kyle we would be better off not having morons like you fucking up our days. do me a favor a log off

  10. Look at it from the other angle. How well-adjusted are those kids likely to be. Better off for us that they would have died and then we’d have less alcoholics walking around.

    1. Are you on crack, Kyle? Why would you even suggest such a thing? Just because a parent has a drinking problem, does not necessarily mean that the children will.

      They’d be better off dead? Again, are you stoned or something? 😯

    2. Kyle is just trying to yank some chains and get some nasty banter going. Resist, Angel… resist! lol lol

      1. Yes, ma’am. I don’t know what came over me! I just got done reading last night’s OT, and I couldn’t resist the bait…. πŸ˜†

    3. omg… really??? did you really just say that, kyle??

      1. Unless I’m imagining this conversation, yeah I did.

    4. no kyle we would be better off not having morons like you fucking up our days. do me a favor a log off

  11. Well you’re sitting there insulting all these people, I thought I’d suggest some alternatives.

    “No thanks to the idiot who thought that getting her drink on was more important than keeping her kids alive. Where do these selfish hootchies come from? And why do they have babies that they have no intention of taking proper care of?”

    As much as its a stereotype, bad parents do usually breed bad kids. You seem to dislike my statements so feel free to use me as an example. I had a bad childhood, I had an alcoholic father. Am I an alcoholic? No. But if those kids grow up to believe their parents actions are right, they will follow in their parents footsteps, whether its considered morally valid by your average citizen or not. It’s the same phenomenon as the abused becoming the abusers.

    1. That’s not a ‘phenomenon’, Kyle…it’s a cop-out. We don’t need alternatives to calling out the offenders on this site. That’s what we do here. Or hadn’t you noticed that? No, I guess not – you are too busy looking for alternatives.

      You may continue to post, but I am done with this line of ‘alternative reasoning’. Have fun with it, though. Knock yourself out buddy – maybe April will come along and play with you, since she was just ITCHING for a fight last night… 😈

      1. A cop out? In some circumstances sure but IT HAPPENS.

      2. Also, I’m calling you out for calling them out because you’re making all these pathetic judgements on people you’ve never met based on a news story. You can’t know the full circumstances, you don’t know the people. You’re casting yourselves into a moral furor over bullshit. So I’m making fun of you =)

  12. Well you’re sitting there insulting all these people, I thought I’d suggest some alternatives.

    “No thanks to the idiot who thought that getting her drink on was more important than keeping her kids alive. Where do these selfish hootchies come from? And why do they have babies that they have no intention of taking proper care of?”

    As much as its a stereotype, bad parents do usually breed bad kids. You seem to dislike my statements so feel free to use me as an example. I had a bad childhood, I had an alcoholic father. Am I an alcoholic? No. But if those kids grow up to believe their parents actions are right, they will follow in their parents footsteps, whether its considered morally valid by your average citizen or not. It’s the same phenomenon as the abused becoming the abusers.

    1. That’s not a ‘phenomenon’, Kyle…it’s a cop-out. We don’t need alternatives to calling out the offenders on this site. That’s what we do here. Or hadn’t you noticed that? No, I guess not – you are too busy looking for alternatives.

      You may continue to post, but I am done with this line of ‘alternative reasoning’. Have fun with it, though. Knock yourself out buddy – maybe April will come along and play with you, since she was just ITCHING for a fight last night… 😈

      1. A cop out? In some circumstances sure but IT HAPPENS.

      2. Also, I’m calling you out for calling them out because you’re making all these pathetic judgements on people you’ve never met based on a news story. You can’t know the full circumstances, you don’t know the people. You’re casting yourselves into a moral furor over bullshit. So I’m making fun of you =)

  13. “Where was the father?”

    Angel, the proper question is probably “Where were the fathers (plural)?” Since all the kids have the same last name as her and none of the articles mention a husband, I’m going to bet that the kids are all from different dads. Skanks who drink and drive with their babies in the car probably also think it’s fine to have three babies with different men in less than 3 years.

    1. this is for ,Ihavekidstoo Says:
      i just want to let you know i have been married to the same man for 8 years and we have 5 children. so for someone who thinks they know everything, it sound to me like you dont know fucking shit you stupid CUNT. do us all a favor and mind your own god damn bussiness and get a fucking life. just because you might have 5 kids from 5 different men does not make us all skanks.

      1. No – You fucking almost taking your kids out because you are a selfish c**t is what makes YOU a skank.

  14. “Where was the father?”

    Angel, the proper question is probably “Where were the fathers (plural)?” Since all the kids have the same last name as her and none of the articles mention a husband, I’m going to bet that the kids are all from different dads. Skanks who drink and drive with their babies in the car probably also think it’s fine to have three babies with different men in less than 3 years.

    1. this is for ,Ihavekidstoo Says:
      i just want to let you know i have been married to the same man for 8 years and we have 5 children. so for someone who thinks they know everything, it sound to me like you dont know fucking shit you stupid CUNT. do us all a favor and mind your own god damn bussiness and get a fucking life. just because you might have 5 kids from 5 different men does not make us all skanks.

      1. No – You fucking almost taking your kids out because you are a selfish c**t is what makes YOU a skank.

  15. Ooops. My mistake, I’ll admit it. Her myspace page says she’s married. So, I’ll go with Angel on this one — Where the hell was the father? You mean to tell me he was unaware his wife was drinking and driving around with his babies? He didn’t know she’s been driving on a suspended license for about two years? They should both have their bare asses spanked in public and lose custody of the kids. None of the articles say if the kids have been taken away or not. Maybe the child protective services need to wait until she’s been formally charged to take the kids?

  16. Ooops. My mistake, I’ll admit it. Her myspace page says she’s married. So, I’ll go with Angel on this one — Where the hell was the father? You mean to tell me he was unaware his wife was drinking and driving around with his babies? He didn’t know she’s been driving on a suspended license for about two years? They should both have their bare asses spanked in public and lose custody of the kids. None of the articles say if the kids have been taken away or not. Maybe the child protective services need to wait until she’s been formally charged to take the kids?

  17. I just read in another article that the 6 month old was in the front seat, nice. To ihavekidstoo, I agree with your statement. 3 kids back to back with HER last name. Doesn’t sound stable.

  18. ihavekidstoo, sorry, I didn’t read your second post. oops.

  19. I just read in another article that the 6 month old was in the front seat, nice. To ihavekidstoo, I agree with your statement. 3 kids back to back with HER last name. Doesn’t sound stable.

  20. ihavekidstoo, sorry, I didn’t read your second post. oops.

  21. Hi everybody, My name is Keven Gandy and i am the father of not just the three children that were in the wreck but also to the other two in school. thats right we have five all together. can’t wait to see some intellegent comments on that. Amber and i have been together for ten years and yes they are all mine. I say this with pride. to all those that may be concerned my youngest Kameron is doing well we should be leaving the hospital within a couple days thank God for that. it has been a hard road but just like his dad hes a fighter. some of you may be wondering where i was at that day. well i was at work and had talked with her on my breaks and was unaware that she had driven somewhere. nowhere in the media will you read that the right front tire of the truck had blown going around a tight left corner that has in the past claimed three other drivers whos tire had not blown. so please feel free to continue with the name calling and childlike behavior. or maybe take a breath of reality and thank God that everyone was saved thanks to the rescuers. they are true heroes. if anyone is interested in cotacting me for anything positive please feel free to e-mail me @

    1. So…you are telling us that she wasn’t drunk? Or that her license wasn’t suspended? Because whether her tire blew or not…..either of those two circumstances SHOULD have kept her off the road that day anyway. She was at fault. She should not have been driving. She almost killed your child. She could have killed all three of them.

      Oh, and I decided to save you from yourself by editing your e-mail out of your last comment. A lot of people would have had a field day with that, I’m sure.

      I’m glad your son is doing well, and that he will be home soon, but I still think your wife needs jail time – and LOTS of it. She is a menace to your children, and everybody else on the road.

  22. Hi everybody, My name is Keven Gandy and i am the father of not just the three children that were in the wreck but also to the other two in school. thats right we have five all together. can’t wait to see some intellegent comments on that. Amber and i have been together for ten years and yes they are all mine. I say this with pride. to all those that may be concerned my youngest Kameron is doing well we should be leaving the hospital within a couple days thank God for that. it has been a hard road but just like his dad hes a fighter. some of you may be wondering where i was at that day. well i was at work and had talked with her on my breaks and was unaware that she had driven somewhere. nowhere in the media will you read that the right front tire of the truck had blown going around a tight left corner that has in the past claimed three other drivers whos tire had not blown. so please feel free to continue with the name calling and childlike behavior. or maybe take a breath of reality and thank God that everyone was saved thanks to the rescuers. they are true heroes. if anyone is interested in cotacting me for anything positive please feel free to e-mail me @

    1. So…you are telling us that she wasn’t drunk? Or that her license wasn’t suspended? Because whether her tire blew or not…..either of those two circumstances SHOULD have kept her off the road that day anyway. She was at fault. She should not have been driving. She almost killed your child. She could have killed all three of them.

      Oh, and I decided to save you from yourself by editing your e-mail out of your last comment. A lot of people would have had a field day with that, I’m sure.

      I’m glad your son is doing well, and that he will be home soon, but I still think your wife needs jail time – and LOTS of it. She is a menace to your children, and everybody else on the road.

  23. yes i am telling you that she was not drunk. suspended yes. she will have her day in court and then the judge will decide. and as far as my e-mail i look forward to all the intelligent e-mails i may recieve but mostly i look for are positive comments about my sons recovery. thanks

    1. So are the police lying then, about her DUI? Or maybe they are trying to set her up? Get real. The authorities said she had been drinking, and the people who saved your children said that she smelled like a brewery……AND she forgot there was a baby in the front seat for long enough that the baby almost died? What are you attributing that to? Alzheimers?

      I’m feel bad for you, I really do…but I feel even worse for your children. Because they have one parent who is so irresponsible that she gets loaded before driving them around, and another who is defending the reprehensible actions of the first. You would likely get more sympathy from those here if you would quit trying to defend your wife, and instead expend that energy trying to get her some help for her drinking problem.

      Again, I am going to delete your e-mail addy, because posting it here is a very foolish thing for you to do. You’re welcome.

      1. well for your information i will be taking her in for a screening in the morning as she had tested positive for thc from days prior. next question would be how much pot do i smoke. i don’t just as i do not drink. you do not know her. drinking prob? nope don’t think so. ever heard what lactated ringers do in the blood stream? do some homework before you wanna be a raging c**t to someone.
        good day

        1. Well, every time I have been given lactated ringers it has been to rehydrate, so i have an idea of what they do. WHere is a portion of the wikipedia article:

          “Lactated Ringer’s solution is often used for fluid resuscitation after a blood loss due to trauma, surgery, or a burn injury. Previously, it was used to induce urine output in patients with renal failure.

          Another common use is the treatment of renal failure in small animals, where the solution is administered subcutaneously instead of through an IV. Administering the fluids in this way allows the solution to be given to the animal quickly and does not require a vein to be located. The fluid is then slowly absorbed from under the skin into the bloodstream of the animal.[citation needed]

          Lactated Ringer’s solution is used because the by-products of lactate metabolism in the liver counteract acidosis, which is a chemical imbalance that occurs with acute fluid loss or renal failure.[4]

          The intravenous dose of lactated Ringer’s solution is usually calculated by estimated fluid loss and presumed fluid deficit. For fluid resuscitation the usual rate of administration is 20 to 30 ml/kg body weight/hour. Lactated Ringer’s solution is not suitable for maintenance therapy because the sodium content (130 mEq/L) is considered too high, particularly for children, whereas the potassium content (4 mEq/L) is too low, in view of electrolyte daily requirement.

          Other commonly used intravenous solutions include normal saline and hespan (used in hypovolemic shock). Lactated Ringer’s is also used as a conduit for the delivery of drugs. Lactated Ringer’s is usually given intravenously, but if a suitable vein is not found, it can be taken orally (although it has an unpleasant taste).”

          Now I don’t know if you’re trying to say it will yield a false high BAL, but I see nothing in that article that would indicate that.

          Regardless of why the license was supended, whether it was justified or not, it is still against the law to drive while your license is suspended. And it doesn’t negate the fact that the baby almost died from an acident that occured while she was driving on a license that was suspended (again whether it was rightfully suspended or not, it was suspended at the time of the accident).

  24. yes i am telling you that she was not drunk. suspended yes. she will have her day in court and then the judge will decide. and as far as my e-mail i look forward to all the intelligent e-mails i may recieve but mostly i look for are positive comments about my sons recovery. thanks

    1. So are the police lying then, about her DUI? Or maybe they are trying to set her up? Get real. The authorities said she had been drinking, and the people who saved your children said that she smelled like a brewery……AND she forgot there was a baby in the front seat for long enough that the baby almost died? What are you attributing that to? Alzheimers?

      I’m feel bad for you, I really do…but I feel even worse for your children. Because they have one parent who is so irresponsible that she gets loaded before driving them around, and another who is defending the reprehensible actions of the first. You would likely get more sympathy from those here if you would quit trying to defend your wife, and instead expend that energy trying to get her some help for her drinking problem.

      Again, I am going to delete your e-mail addy, because posting it here is a very foolish thing for you to do. You’re welcome.

      1. well for your information i will be taking her in for a screening in the morning as she had tested positive for thc from days prior. next question would be how much pot do i smoke. i don’t just as i do not drink. you do not know her. drinking prob? nope don’t think so. ever heard what lactated ringers do in the blood stream? do some homework before you wanna be a raging c**t to someone.
        good day

        1. Well, every time I have been given lactated ringers it has been to rehydrate, so i have an idea of what they do. WHere is a portion of the wikipedia article:

          “Lactated Ringer’s solution is often used for fluid resuscitation after a blood loss due to trauma, surgery, or a burn injury. Previously, it was used to induce urine output in patients with renal failure.

          Another common use is the treatment of renal failure in small animals, where the solution is administered subcutaneously instead of through an IV. Administering the fluids in this way allows the solution to be given to the animal quickly and does not require a vein to be located. The fluid is then slowly absorbed from under the skin into the bloodstream of the animal.[citation needed]

          Lactated Ringer’s solution is used because the by-products of lactate metabolism in the liver counteract acidosis, which is a chemical imbalance that occurs with acute fluid loss or renal failure.[4]

          The intravenous dose of lactated Ringer’s solution is usually calculated by estimated fluid loss and presumed fluid deficit. For fluid resuscitation the usual rate of administration is 20 to 30 ml/kg body weight/hour. Lactated Ringer’s solution is not suitable for maintenance therapy because the sodium content (130 mEq/L) is considered too high, particularly for children, whereas the potassium content (4 mEq/L) is too low, in view of electrolyte daily requirement.

          Other commonly used intravenous solutions include normal saline and hespan (used in hypovolemic shock). Lactated Ringer’s is also used as a conduit for the delivery of drugs. Lactated Ringer’s is usually given intravenously, but if a suitable vein is not found, it can be taken orally (although it has an unpleasant taste).”

          Now I don’t know if you’re trying to say it will yield a false high BAL, but I see nothing in that article that would indicate that.

          Regardless of why the license was supended, whether it was justified or not, it is still against the law to drive while your license is suspended. And it doesn’t negate the fact that the baby almost died from an acident that occured while she was driving on a license that was suspended (again whether it was rightfully suspended or not, it was suspended at the time of the accident).

  25. good research jenn, you are very correct i am in total agreement that she not have been driving while suspended. and also right on the nose about yielding a false pos test. i have looked into a few medical books and have found this information. and i am going to believe doctors and professors over the media. i don’t want to give a bad impression of myself either. i’m hurt by this and very very pissed. but right now i have to weigh whats best for my family. as i have said before she is a truly wonderful mother that loves them very much. and it just pisses me off when people that have never met her or us for that matter judge us. if you guys know so much how about some world peace.

    1. Lactated ringers cannot create a ‘false positive’ BAC. It can only increase the percentage of what is already there. The alcohol has to be in the blood in order for the positive to register at all. That said, and not knowing what she actually registered on the BAC scale, I will use an example to explain the theory of lactated ringers as related to BAC.

      If a person has ingested alcohol, and then had lactated ringers solution introduced into her system, her blood/water ratio will be off. This could cause a person to register higher on the scale than someone who has not had lactated ringers introduced into their system. It will NOT however, cause alcohol to spontaneously appear in the bloodstream. Not happening. She had to have had alcohol in her system prior to the accident for it to have come up positive at all.

      Are you telling us that she had just been released from the hospital, and that she had had lactated ringers administered? If so, then she probably does have a good chance of beating the DUI. The THC is another story. As is the suspended license.

      Name calling is unnecessary. I have tried to be civil to you. The fact is that there was more than one reason your wife should not have been behind the wheel of the car that day. Your child almost died, and the only thing you can think of to do is go online and try to defend the woman who almost killed him. I’m glad that she is a good mother in all other ways, but her irresponsibility and willingness to drive after consuming even ONE drink means that she is at fault. You don’t drink and drive – even if it is only one drink. Because when something like this happens, you will be blamed. It is a fact of life.

      I’m sure your wife is happy to have you standing behind her on this – many husbands would not. You must be an outstanding husband. I’m sure she will need your support even more in the ensuing months, while she is trying to beat these charges, because she will not likely get it from other sources….like blogs dedicated to calling out the parents who endanger and hurt their children.

      1. Once again, Angel my dear, you are way, way, way too nice.

        1. I’ll take that as a compliment, jj. Besides…I have to leave something for you and April to do, I don’t want to be selfish……your comments warm the c*ckles of my cold heart. 😈

          And I’m not nice, either – didn’t you read his other comment? I’m a raging….ummmmm, something that rhymes with punt. LOL

  26. good research jenn, you are very correct i am in total agreement that she not have been driving while suspended. and also right on the nose about yielding a false pos test. i have looked into a few medical books and have found this information. and i am going to believe doctors and professors over the media. i don’t want to give a bad impression of myself either. i’m hurt by this and very very pissed. but right now i have to weigh whats best for my family. as i have said before she is a truly wonderful mother that loves them very much. and it just pisses me off when people that have never met her or us for that matter judge us. if you guys know so much how about some world peace.

    1. Lactated ringers cannot create a ‘false positive’ BAC. It can only increase the percentage of what is already there. The alcohol has to be in the blood in order for the positive to register at all. That said, and not knowing what she actually registered on the BAC scale, I will use an example to explain the theory of lactated ringers as related to BAC.

      If a person has ingested alcohol, and then had lactated ringers solution introduced into her system, her blood/water ratio will be off. This could cause a person to register higher on the scale than someone who has not had lactated ringers introduced into their system. It will NOT however, cause alcohol to spontaneously appear in the bloodstream. Not happening. She had to have had alcohol in her system prior to the accident for it to have come up positive at all.

      Are you telling us that she had just been released from the hospital, and that she had had lactated ringers administered? If so, then she probably does have a good chance of beating the DUI. The THC is another story. As is the suspended license.

      Name calling is unnecessary. I have tried to be civil to you. The fact is that there was more than one reason your wife should not have been behind the wheel of the car that day. Your child almost died, and the only thing you can think of to do is go online and try to defend the woman who almost killed him. I’m glad that she is a good mother in all other ways, but her irresponsibility and willingness to drive after consuming even ONE drink means that she is at fault. You don’t drink and drive – even if it is only one drink. Because when something like this happens, you will be blamed. It is a fact of life.

      I’m sure your wife is happy to have you standing behind her on this – many husbands would not. You must be an outstanding husband. I’m sure she will need your support even more in the ensuing months, while she is trying to beat these charges, because she will not likely get it from other sources….like blogs dedicated to calling out the parents who endanger and hurt their children.

      1. Once again, Angel my dear, you are way, way, way too nice.

        1. I’ll take that as a compliment, jj. Besides…I have to leave something for you and April to do, I don’t want to be selfish……your comments warm the c*ckles of my cold heart. 😈

          And I’m not nice, either – didn’t you read his other comment? I’m a raging….ummmmm, something that rhymes with punt. LOL

  27. first i’m sorry to angel for being an asshole. i have just been under a ton of stress here lately as you can imagine. i know i should be stronger than that but its as if my life that i have worked so hard for has come crumbling down around me. and yes one drink combined with LR’s do produce a higher bac. the media has made it out like she was out partying when this happened. not the case. she was visiting her father and had a beer. leaves to come home and pick our other children up from the bus stop when the tire blows. i wish everyone could see the road the turn everything like i have. there was nothing to be done. no one could have done anything to prevent this from happening. true she should not have been driving while suspended. and the answer to while she was suspended was simple she has never had a license. and was stopped in 2006 and cited for driving without a license. so as far as i’m concerned she does not need this shit. how many accidents have occured where children have died or have been injured? and thats that an ACCIDENT. the real problem here is the fucking media wanting to make a huge story headlines and shit like that. i got one message here for all MEDIA CAN SUCK MY DICK FUCK EM ALL. and there you have it i urge you not to believe everything you read because the media lies or exagerates thanks for letting me vent Keven

    1. Apology accepted. And I will simply say again that I am hoping for the best possible outcome for your children.

  28. first i’m sorry to angel for being an asshole. i have just been under a ton of stress here lately as you can imagine. i know i should be stronger than that but its as if my life that i have worked so hard for has come crumbling down around me. and yes one drink combined with LR’s do produce a higher bac. the media has made it out like she was out partying when this happened. not the case. she was visiting her father and had a beer. leaves to come home and pick our other children up from the bus stop when the tire blows. i wish everyone could see the road the turn everything like i have. there was nothing to be done. no one could have done anything to prevent this from happening. true she should not have been driving while suspended. and the answer to while she was suspended was simple she has never had a license. and was stopped in 2006 and cited for driving without a license. so as far as i’m concerned she does not need this shit. how many accidents have occured where children have died or have been injured? and thats that an ACCIDENT. the real problem here is the fucking media wanting to make a huge story headlines and shit like that. i got one message here for all MEDIA CAN SUCK MY DICK FUCK EM ALL. and there you have it i urge you not to believe everything you read because the media lies or exagerates thanks for letting me vent Keven

    1. Apology accepted. And I will simply say again that I am hoping for the best possible outcome for your children.

  29. I would just like to say, First of all I really hesitated about commenting on this whole subject. But hear it go’s, To Amber, If you really want to paint a better picture of your self, you may want to start by cleaning up your mouth. I am shocked at someone trying to defend them selfs with that kind of attitude. I would be a little concerned with someone in the legal field reading this, before you have your day in
    court.I understand that we all make mistakes, but this was a really bad one. I am not and will nor pass judgment, But i will voice my opinion, This does not mean that i am right or wrong, its just an opinion. I don’t know if you have a drinking problem, or a drug problem, But what ever made you have even one drink with your children with you in a car, was wrong. And remember other people read this, not just people that don’t know you.I hope everything works out for you. And yes thank god everyone is ok. My prayers are with all.

    1. dear shocked if you dont like my FUCKING language log on to a new website

      1. Dear Amber, If you don’t like that we al believe that you are a worthless skank – You log the fuck off. Whore.

        As for JJ’s mother swallowing – you need to follow your own advice. Seriously?? 5 fucking kids at 25, a suspended license, and drunk to boot. You are quite a catch. Keven should hold on to your skanky ass with both hands. I bet boys are lined up trying to get with you. You must have to beat them off with a stick. Stupid c**t.

  30. I would just like to say, First of all I really hesitated about commenting on this whole subject. But hear it go’s, To Amber, If you really want to paint a better picture of your self, you may want to start by cleaning up your mouth. I am shocked at someone trying to defend them selfs with that kind of attitude. I would be a little concerned with someone in the legal field reading this, before you have your day in
    court.I understand that we all make mistakes, but this was a really bad one. I am not and will nor pass judgment, But i will voice my opinion, This does not mean that i am right or wrong, its just an opinion. I don’t know if you have a drinking problem, or a drug problem, But what ever made you have even one drink with your children with you in a car, was wrong. And remember other people read this, not just people that don’t know you.I hope everything works out for you. And yes thank god everyone is ok. My prayers are with all.

    1. dear shocked if you dont like my FUCKING language log on to a new website

      1. Dear Amber, If you don’t like that we al believe that you are a worthless skank – You log the fuck off. Whore.

        As for JJ’s mother swallowing – you need to follow your own advice. Seriously?? 5 fucking kids at 25, a suspended license, and drunk to boot. You are quite a catch. Keven should hold on to your skanky ass with both hands. I bet boys are lined up trying to get with you. You must have to beat them off with a stick. Stupid c**t.

  31. Well, well, well. If it isn’t the cumguzzling whore herself. I hate females like you. Selfish bitches who would rather have a good time than take care of their children. They didn’t ask to be born. You and your loser husband decided to procreate, when in actuality those children would be better off being raised by wolves than pieces of shit like you people. Hopefully you’re swallowing rather than bringing anymore children into the hell you call a family.

    1. to jj. it looks like your mama made a huge mistake by not swallowing and spreading her legs to push out something as disgusting as you. may we pray for her sins

      1. I know that pathetic dig was directed at me, but my mother is one of the best parents ever. She’s never been arrested, raised her five children without ever injuring them due to selfish whoring, never drank, never did drugs, basically, the polar oppisite of you, you hideous, insignificant c*cksucker. Maybe I could ask her to take a little time out of her extremely busy and full life to teach you the basics of parenting, but considering your intellegence level, it’s probably just a waste of time. Why don’t you do the world, and your children, a favor and take the dick out of your mouth and insert a gun, loser.

  32. Well, well, well. If it isn’t the cumguzzling whore herself. I hate females like you. Selfish bitches who would rather have a good time than take care of their children. They didn’t ask to be born. You and your loser husband decided to procreate, when in actuality those children would be better off being raised by wolves than pieces of shit like you people. Hopefully you’re swallowing rather than bringing anymore children into the hell you call a family.

    1. to jj. it looks like your mama made a huge mistake by not swallowing and spreading her legs to push out something as disgusting as you. may we pray for her sins

      1. I know that pathetic dig was directed at me, but my mother is one of the best parents ever. She’s never been arrested, raised her five children without ever injuring them due to selfish whoring, never drank, never did drugs, basically, the polar oppisite of you, you hideous, insignificant c*cksucker. Maybe I could ask her to take a little time out of her extremely busy and full life to teach you the basics of parenting, but considering your intellegence level, it’s probably just a waste of time. Why don’t you do the world, and your children, a favor and take the dick out of your mouth and insert a gun, loser.

  33. JJ – I friggin love you!

    Keven, sorry that you married the first whore that looked your way. You seem seem like you might make some real woman a great husband. As for you and your skank being pissed about us discussing the story on this site – It’s a fucking blog!! That’s what people on blogs do… They discuss. Maybe you should both be more concerned with the fact that the things you are posting here can be read by judges and public defenders. Amber isn’t making herself out to be a saint with the responses that she is posting. While I’m on the subject – Maybe you both should be more concerned with your children than what a few strangers think about you and this situation that AMBER created.

    Hey Keven, I can look out my office window and right this very minute there are a couple of smoking hot chicks headed toward the beach on their bikes. I will gladly run out there in an effort to set you up with a chick that is smoking hot (in lieu of inbred looking), has a smoking hot body (probably from NOT pushing out 5 kids by 25), and my guess is that she will have more class than Amber (not that having more class than Amber will take much).

  34. JJ – I friggin love you!

    Keven, sorry that you married the first whore that looked your way. You seem seem like you might make some real woman a great husband. As for you and your skank being pissed about us discussing the story on this site – It’s a fucking blog!! That’s what people on blogs do… They discuss. Maybe you should both be more concerned with the fact that the things you are posting here can be read by judges and public defenders. Amber isn’t making herself out to be a saint with the responses that she is posting. While I’m on the subject – Maybe you both should be more concerned with your children than what a few strangers think about you and this situation that AMBER created.

    Hey Keven, I can look out my office window and right this very minute there are a couple of smoking hot chicks headed toward the beach on their bikes. I will gladly run out there in an effort to set you up with a chick that is smoking hot (in lieu of inbred looking), has a smoking hot body (probably from NOT pushing out 5 kids by 25), and my guess is that she will have more class than Amber (not that having more class than Amber will take much).

  35. Love you more April.

  36. Love you more April.

  37. who wants a popcicle? raise your hand.

  38. who wants a popcicle? raise your hand.

  39. Me! Me! Me! Make it cherry, it’ll go great with my vodka.

  40. Me! Me! Me! Make it cherry, it’ll go great with my vodka.

  41. mmmmmmmmm…. Vodka……

  42. mmmmmmmmm…. Vodka……

  43. cherry it is…and april? would you like a cherry,too? i know it’s been so long you’ve forgotten what one is…slut puppy.

    1. OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!!!!!! Thanks Karen, vodka on my new laptop, but it was worth it.

      1. Yes – Now you know my secret, jj. I am an evil slut puppy. Karen is in love with me though. That’s why the need to point it out.

  44. cherry it is…and april? would you like a cherry,too? i know it’s been so long you’ve forgotten what one is…slut puppy.

    1. OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!!!!!! Thanks Karen, vodka on my new laptop, but it was worth it.

      1. Yes – Now you know my secret, jj. I am an evil slut puppy. Karen is in love with me though. That’s why the need to point it out.

  45. yes, all in an attempt to keep her to myself.

    1. Now, stop that, KAREN!! You know Angel gets jealous. There is enough of me for all of you. You can take turns. Angel gets me on Mon. and Wed. jj can have me on Fri and Sat. Karen, you can have me on Tue and Sun. I need one day a week for my hubby.

  46. yes, all in an attempt to keep her to myself.

    1. Now, stop that, KAREN!! You know Angel gets jealous. There is enough of me for all of you. You can take turns. Angel gets me on Mon. and Wed. jj can have me on Fri and Sat. Karen, you can have me on Tue and Sun. I need one day a week for my hubby.

  47. Dear Amber,

    Mistakes happen unfourtunatly even to this calliber. However; your poor decision to comment so puiblicly and so carlessly at this point in my opinion is a direct reflection of your actions the day of the accident. I wish your little boy the best of luck my prayers are with him. I hope your other four children are doing well. As for your husband that seems to be playing Cassinova. (Kevin that is for those of you that are just now joining in) He quite apparantly shows serious signs of a manipulative controlive personality. Could it be that he is just relieved that he was not the sole responsible person for this? Could he be trying to manipulate everyone else? That is my assumption and I know that I am nobody to point a finger but I can say that this woman needs some serious help. Hopefully some hard time & rehab can help!

  48. Dear Amber,

    Mistakes happen unfourtunatly even to this calliber. However; your poor decision to comment so puiblicly and so carlessly at this point in my opinion is a direct reflection of your actions the day of the accident. I wish your little boy the best of luck my prayers are with him. I hope your other four children are doing well. As for your husband that seems to be playing Cassinova. (Kevin that is for those of you that are just now joining in) He quite apparantly shows serious signs of a manipulative controlive personality. Could it be that he is just relieved that he was not the sole responsible person for this? Could he be trying to manipulate everyone else? That is my assumption and I know that I am nobody to point a finger but I can say that this woman needs some serious help. Hopefully some hard time & rehab can help!

  49. It sounds like really????? May know this Kevin.
    It also sounds like you nailed it pretty good, I also want to add that I know Amber and Kevin must feel bad, I can’t imagine any parent that would not. But the fact is they both need help, and just getting a hand slapped is not the answer. I hope that they can get through this and that all the children will be well.And to Amber, I hope you realize that you are not only judged by the company you keep, but also the words you speak.

  50. It sounds like really????? May know this Kevin.
    It also sounds like you nailed it pretty good, I also want to add that I know Amber and Kevin must feel bad, I can’t imagine any parent that would not. But the fact is they both need help, and just getting a hand slapped is not the answer. I hope that they can get through this and that all the children will be well.And to Amber, I hope you realize that you are not only judged by the company you keep, but also the words you speak.

  51. nah, i don’t think that’s really the one and only “amber”. i think it’s just a pathetic little troll trying to get a rise out of everyone. probably not really “keven” either. nope, just one and only one troll with multiple personalities….kind of like someone else we all know and love πŸ™„

  52. nah, i don’t think that’s really the one and only “amber”. i think it’s just a pathetic little troll trying to get a rise out of everyone. probably not really “keven” either. nope, just one and only one troll with multiple personalities….kind of like someone else we all know and love πŸ™„

  53. seriously jj…..how long have you and amber been friends? i can just “feel” the love you have for her.

    1. *kisses*

  54. seriously jj…..how long have you and amber been friends? i can just “feel” the love you have for her.

    1. *kisses*

  55. I Just typed in your name to see what else has come up. Are you trying to get yourself in more trouble. What kind of DA would see this and want to see you bring your children up when you talk like this? I mean this is open to everyone!? People are going to have there opinons and pass judgement you can’t stop them it’s just life if thats what they want to do there going to. You should let these people do what they are going to do and clean it up a bit, you will only dig yourself a deeper hole for you and your kids. Let these people do what they are going to we can’t stop them, and work on what you have going on.

  56. I Just typed in your name to see what else has come up. Are you trying to get yourself in more trouble. What kind of DA would see this and want to see you bring your children up when you talk like this? I mean this is open to everyone!? People are going to have there opinons and pass judgement you can’t stop them it’s just life if thats what they want to do there going to. You should let these people do what they are going to do and clean it up a bit, you will only dig yourself a deeper hole for you and your kids. Let these people do what they are going to we can’t stop them, and work on what you have going on.

  57. oh and please don’t respond with anymore of your shit to me because I am not putting you down, I Just want you to worry about what people may think and keep your family together!

  58. oh and please don’t respond with anymore of your shit to me because I am not putting you down, I Just want you to worry about what people may think and keep your family together!

  59. Oh, and after doing a little checking, I would say that if Keven and Amber are both who they say they are, then they must be separated. Because the comments are coming from different locations. LOL. Did Keven take the kids and leave? 😯

  60. Oh, and after doing a little checking, I would say that if Keven and Amber are both who they say they are, then they must be separated. Because the comments are coming from different locations. LOL. Did Keven take the kids and leave? 😯

  61. Amber , Amber, Amber,
    You really should re-read what i wrote the first time. I never put you down, i was mearly trying to give you some words of (WISDOM)And also if you go back and read my blog, you will see where it says, (NOT EVERYONE READING THIS STUFF IS A STRANGER TO YOU)Please think before you respond with such words, and who this may be, or who may be reading this.

  62. Amber , Amber, Amber,
    You really should re-read what i wrote the first time. I never put you down, i was mearly trying to give you some words of (WISDOM)And also if you go back and read my blog, you will see where it says, (NOT EVERYONE READING THIS STUFF IS A STRANGER TO YOU)Please think before you respond with such words, and who this may be, or who may be reading this.

  63. Hello all just an update for all those concerned. Kameron is doing well, doing things a 6mo. old would do. so all my prayers have been answered. and santa granted me my christmas wish i have my little boy for christmas.I am not aware of any comments being made by Amber my wife so whoever it is claiming to be her grow up. and to clear up if i am who i say i am? why would anyone else want to be in my shoes? I love my kids dearly and would never wish any harm for them ever. believe me when i say if there was anything i could have done to avoid this it would have been done… amber is going to treatment for the thc that was in here system. my children need a mother and i will work very hard to see that they have one. it stuns me to see how willing most of you are to want more victims. taking a mother from 5 children isn’t the right thing to do. giving the mother to make a change in her life is the right thing

    1. Keven, you are a far better person than I am. I would have kicked that chick to the curb. The kids need a GOOD mother – not just some chick they call mommy. Amber doesn’t qualify as a good mother under these circumstanced. I believe that you may be a good father to those children… I just hope that’s enough.

      1. it will be enough it has to be

  64. Hello all just an update for all those concerned. Kameron is doing well, doing things a 6mo. old would do. so all my prayers have been answered. and santa granted me my christmas wish i have my little boy for christmas.I am not aware of any comments being made by Amber my wife so whoever it is claiming to be her grow up. and to clear up if i am who i say i am? why would anyone else want to be in my shoes? I love my kids dearly and would never wish any harm for them ever. believe me when i say if there was anything i could have done to avoid this it would have been done… amber is going to treatment for the thc that was in here system. my children need a mother and i will work very hard to see that they have one. it stuns me to see how willing most of you are to want more victims. taking a mother from 5 children isn’t the right thing to do. giving the mother to make a change in her life is the right thing

    1. Keven, you are a far better person than I am. I would have kicked that chick to the curb. The kids need a GOOD mother – not just some chick they call mommy. Amber doesn’t qualify as a good mother under these circumstanced. I believe that you may be a good father to those children… I just hope that’s enough.

      1. it will be enough it has to be

  65. thought i might add I do have the kids.

    1. nobody is buying your “im a good dad act” kevin.

  66. thought i might add I do have the kids.

    1. nobody is buying your “im a good dad act” kevin.

  67. and you wont have your kids for long

  68. and you wont have your kids for long

  69. tell me friend what have i done to have them taken from my home? nothing I have also taken a leave from work so that i can be with them trough al of this. good dad act? do go on please i can’t wait to hear what you might have to say.

    1. through all….even shesh

  70. tell me friend what have i done to have them taken from my home? nothing I have also taken a leave from work so that i can be with them trough al of this. good dad act? do go on please i can’t wait to hear what you might have to say.

    1. through all….even shesh

  71. i’m popping some popcorn…this is getting interesting.

  72. i’m popping some popcorn…this is getting interesting.

  73. I want extra butter on mine.

  74. I want extra butter on mine.

  75. you got it kev…..you can sit next to me….i also have the salt and am best friends with the koolaid man.

    1. HEY KOOLAID!!!!

  76. you got it kev…..you can sit next to me….i also have the salt and am best friends with the koolaid man.

    1. HEY KOOLAID!!!!

  77. as he crashes through the wall….hey, where kevenslying? just when it was getting entertaining. going on the assumption you are who you say, i’m glad your little guy is better.

    1. well thanks he is a miracle all the docs agreed upon that he’s going to go on to do great things i know.

  78. as he crashes through the wall….hey, where kevenslying? just when it was getting entertaining. going on the assumption you are who you say, i’m glad your little guy is better.

    1. well thanks he is a miracle all the docs agreed upon that he’s going to go on to do great things i know.

  79. sorry to keep you waiting kev, its to bad you or anybody cant talk to your baby so he could tell you of his brain activity, or lack of ,or the feeding tube keeping him alive. Your doctors are not that optimistic.

    1. oh you must have missed the memo from the doc. how everytime he heard my voice while he was hooked up to an eeg he was responding. so son you should really keep your mouth shut about things you know nothing about.

      1. oh btw that was two weeks ago and since doing fabulous

  80. sorry to keep you waiting kev, its to bad you or anybody cant talk to your baby so he could tell you of his brain activity, or lack of ,or the feeding tube keeping him alive. Your doctors are not that optimistic.

    1. oh you must have missed the memo from the doc. how everytime he heard my voice while he was hooked up to an eeg he was responding. so son you should really keep your mouth shut about things you know nothing about.

      1. oh btw that was two weeks ago and since doing fabulous

  81. Any idea who your buddy is Keven? Seems like a pessimistic asshole. Is that how you spell that?

  82. Any idea who your buddy is Keven? Seems like a pessimistic asshole. Is that how you spell that?

  83. ahhhhh…there’s our boy/girl. so…kevenslying….you consult with the drs. and visit the baby in the hospital? i assume you must, since you’re so knowledgable on his condition. in order to do that, you must be a very close relative. very close. unless, of course, you’re basing your comments on what’s in the media? do tell…

  84. ahhhhh…there’s our boy/girl. so…kevenslying….you consult with the drs. and visit the baby in the hospital? i assume you must, since you’re so knowledgable on his condition. in order to do that, you must be a very close relative. very close. unless, of course, you’re basing your comments on what’s in the media? do tell…

  85. hey there jj….i thought i told you to keep your cold weather and quit sending it my way….no heavy snowfall yet…just COLD.

    1. close relative,no.do tell… nope. I hope the baby survives and is not permanetly disabled.thats it friends

  86. hey there jj….i thought i told you to keep your cold weather and quit sending it my way….no heavy snowfall yet…just COLD.

    1. close relative,no.do tell… nope. I hope the baby survives and is not permanetly disabled.thats it friends

  87. Hell no. My mommy always taught me to share. It’s supposed to get into the tomorrow. Heat wave!!!

    Keven’s buddy seems like a real tool.

  88. Hell no. My mommy always taught me to share. It’s supposed to get into the tomorrow. Heat wave!!!

    Keven’s buddy seems like a real tool.

  89. i’ll take the heat wave. and yes….kev’s friend doesn’t seem to know sqaut on the subject.

  90. i’ll take the heat wave. and yes….kev’s friend doesn’t seem to know sqaut on the subject.

  91. Close relative, my ass. If you were, you’d be praying and hoping, instead of being the black cloud of doom.

  92. Close relative, my ass. If you were, you’d be praying and hoping, instead of being the black cloud of doom.

  93. sounds like an out of work comedian. hey son go pick a new topic. i live this daily.you are going to tell me what the docs think? wow dude your good. since you know so much. just what are the docs saying? i must not have been listening for the last 23 days. do tell

  94. sounds like an out of work comedian. hey son go pick a new topic. i live this daily.you are going to tell me what the docs think? wow dude your good. since you know so much. just what are the docs saying? i must not have been listening for the last 23 days. do tell

  95. shhhhh jj….lie guy is about to enlighten us.

  96. shhhhh jj….lie guy is about to enlighten us.

  97. hmmm…guess not.

  98. hmmm…guess not.

  99. Alright girls, since we have all made nice with Keven, and he knows and understands that we don’t like his wifey, is now a good time to let him know that I am the queen? Just asking. Where’s the lie detector? I missed that action. Someone who wants to call Keven out but can’t use their real name…. There’s a credible person. I think I’ll be over here on Keven’s side since he isn’t hiding behind a screne name for the soul purpose of talking shit.

    JJ, Karen…. It’s about 50 degrees here right now. A little rainy, but warm(ish). I have thoughts of draggin out my surfbord becuase this sort of weather make for nice swells. But it also stirs muck and trash up in the bay. What a pickle…. Fuck it. A little Christmas shopping and some afternoon surfing should mak April happy. Keven, the offer stands for some hot beach babe ass. I know some good divorce lawyers. Whatever you need, hon. Queen April is here for you. :mrgreen:

  100. Alright girls, since we have all made nice with Keven, and he knows and understands that we don’t like his wifey, is now a good time to let him know that I am the queen? Just asking. Where’s the lie detector? I missed that action. Someone who wants to call Keven out but can’t use their real name…. There’s a credible person. I think I’ll be over here on Keven’s side since he isn’t hiding behind a screne name for the soul purpose of talking shit.

    JJ, Karen…. It’s about 50 degrees here right now. A little rainy, but warm(ish). I have thoughts of draggin out my surfbord becuase this sort of weather make for nice swells. But it also stirs muck and trash up in the bay. What a pickle…. Fuck it. A little Christmas shopping and some afternoon surfing should mak April happy. Keven, the offer stands for some hot beach babe ass. I know some good divorce lawyers. Whatever you need, hon. Queen April is here for you. :mrgreen:

  101. Kevin,

    I am just wondering what took you so long to say that this “AMBER” was not your wife? come on dude, I for one would have made that comment after her first blog, not 90 blogs later. Do you really think that we have STUPID written accross our face? You are a little to late to try and say that this is not your wife, some of us no. so instead of trying to “COVER” why don’t you just make sure that she understands that she was not to smart with her chioce of words.I can only speak for myself, but i really do hope that the baby is well, and that you can all get through this, but cover ups are to late.

    1. well chief it’s like this. i have other things in my life going on such as my family so i’m sorry if i do not open my laptop daily and see the intelligent comments made by all here. so to all do not be alarmed if i do not comment on something for days at a time it could be that i am consumed by…. whats that word? oh yeah Life. I have a list of priorities and sorry folks this blog IS at the bottom of it. i do thank you for your concern for my son. please say a prayer for his full recovery it will be a long road. And i will be by his side holding his hand every step of the way. πŸ˜‰

      1. Keven, ignore the trolls. Even if it is Amber, don’t let it be a reflection of YOU! You just keep commenting…. We all have out opinion of Amber and some worthless troll isn’t going to make it any worse… It can’t get much worse. But I, for one, kinda like you. Hang around for a bit.

  102. Kevin,

    I am just wondering what took you so long to say that this “AMBER” was not your wife? come on dude, I for one would have made that comment after her first blog, not 90 blogs later. Do you really think that we have STUPID written accross our face? You are a little to late to try and say that this is not your wife, some of us no. so instead of trying to “COVER” why don’t you just make sure that she understands that she was not to smart with her chioce of words.I can only speak for myself, but i really do hope that the baby is well, and that you can all get through this, but cover ups are to late.

    1. well chief it’s like this. i have other things in my life going on such as my family so i’m sorry if i do not open my laptop daily and see the intelligent comments made by all here. so to all do not be alarmed if i do not comment on something for days at a time it could be that i am consumed by…. whats that word? oh yeah Life. I have a list of priorities and sorry folks this blog IS at the bottom of it. i do thank you for your concern for my son. please say a prayer for his full recovery it will be a long road. And i will be by his side holding his hand every step of the way. πŸ˜‰

      1. Keven, ignore the trolls. Even if it is Amber, don’t let it be a reflection of YOU! You just keep commenting…. We all have out opinion of Amber and some worthless troll isn’t going to make it any worse… It can’t get much worse. But I, for one, kinda like you. Hang around for a bit.

  103. Troll? Hmmm , I wonder if maybe Amber and April are actually one in the same? by the way they talk, its sounds like it.I think most people on this blog have been to busy coming up with filth, that they forgot that there is a small child that is needing help, and if more people would put that energy into maybe lets say “prayer” for the baby and the parents, then maybe people would not be lashing out in this manner.

    1. thank you for your positive remarks curious there is no such thing as too many prayers. and my family will continue to need them for many months. i have an excellent support system through family and friends. in fact i never knew i had so many friends. it’s remarkable actually. and i thank god for my friends and family daily. trust me when i say we all can learn something from all this. there is so much that we take for granted everyday. I ask everyone out there give a loved one maybe your child an extra sqeeze tonight. they deserve it. let this serve as a reminder that it can all change in the blink of an eye. it did for me. Till next time enjoy your friends and your family live everyday like it could be your last. goodnight

  104. Troll? Hmmm , I wonder if maybe Amber and April are actually one in the same? by the way they talk, its sounds like it.I think most people on this blog have been to busy coming up with filth, that they forgot that there is a small child that is needing help, and if more people would put that energy into maybe lets say “prayer” for the baby and the parents, then maybe people would not be lashing out in this manner.

    1. thank you for your positive remarks curious there is no such thing as too many prayers. and my family will continue to need them for many months. i have an excellent support system through family and friends. in fact i never knew i had so many friends. it’s remarkable actually. and i thank god for my friends and family daily. trust me when i say we all can learn something from all this. there is so much that we take for granted everyday. I ask everyone out there give a loved one maybe your child an extra sqeeze tonight. they deserve it. let this serve as a reminder that it can all change in the blink of an eye. it did for me. Till next time enjoy your friends and your family live everyday like it could be your last. goodnight

  105. Yep, Amber and I are the same person. So insightful. I guess I’ll tuck my tail between my legs and hide now. Pathetic loser. Work on your grammar. My 8 year old can form more correct “written” thoughts. He also knows when to us “no” and “know”, as well as when to use “to” and “too”. You might want to work on that if you want people to take you serious.

  106. Yep, Amber and I are the same person. So insightful. I guess I’ll tuck my tail between my legs and hide now. Pathetic loser. Work on your grammar. My 8 year old can form more correct “written” thoughts. He also knows when to us “no” and “know”, as well as when to use “to” and “too”. You might want to work on that if you want people to take you serious.

  107. You are to, too, two, smart. I failed to realize that you could not make any grammer error’s on this blog. oh gosh this is really something that needs great thought.Please people turn your prayers towards me, pray that i can remember what to, two, too use. LOL

    1. I really don’t care about your grammar. I care that you are a moron. Link my name to my myspace page and you will see that I am NOT Amber. Just because I don’t have a problem with Keven, does not make me that tw*t. I ust think if you want to talk shit to someone, it would make you mor credible (and less chicked shit) to NOT do it behind a screen name. Look – I’m using my REAL NAME. I’ve linked my REAL myspace page. Several members on this site email me or even CAL me!!! I am who I say I am – and yet, I am not afraid to post what’s on my mind – no matter who gets butt hurt over it. So, you want to talk shit to Keven or about him, or be an asshole to me, bring it or shut the fuck up. Your boring me.

      ANGEL!! I need a new plaything. This one is broken!!!

      1. what a catch youd make,perfect grammer,perfect punctuation,and quite the”lady”and ill bet you never got your mouth washed out with soap. shame on your mama.

        1. I’m a fantastic catch, actually. My husband is super hot – can have his choice of womene and He choses me. Perfect in every way. NO one else’s opinions matter. Just hubby’s.

    2. darin: ‘Grammar’ is spelled with an ‘a'(two, actually) not an ‘e’. πŸ˜‰

  108. You are to, too, two, smart. I failed to realize that you could not make any grammer error’s on this blog. oh gosh this is really something that needs great thought.Please people turn your prayers towards me, pray that i can remember what to, two, too use. LOL

    1. I really don’t care about your grammar. I care that you are a moron. Link my name to my myspace page and you will see that I am NOT Amber. Just because I don’t have a problem with Keven, does not make me that tw*t. I ust think if you want to talk shit to someone, it would make you mor credible (and less chicked shit) to NOT do it behind a screen name. Look – I’m using my REAL NAME. I’ve linked my REAL myspace page. Several members on this site email me or even CAL me!!! I am who I say I am – and yet, I am not afraid to post what’s on my mind – no matter who gets butt hurt over it. So, you want to talk shit to Keven or about him, or be an asshole to me, bring it or shut the fuck up. Your boring me.

      ANGEL!! I need a new plaything. This one is broken!!!

      1. what a catch youd make,perfect grammer,perfect punctuation,and quite the”lady”and ill bet you never got your mouth washed out with soap. shame on your mama.

        1. I’m a fantastic catch, actually. My husband is super hot – can have his choice of womene and He choses me. Perfect in every way. NO one else’s opinions matter. Just hubby’s.

    2. darin: ‘Grammar’ is spelled with an ‘a'(two, actually) not an ‘e’. πŸ˜‰

  109. Concerned Family Member

    No I did not use my real name simply because I am a concerned family member and starting a family feud is not something that I am interested in, especially not with these circumstances. You can all think what you want, you will anyway.

    There are several of you who have seemed to take Keven under your wing….It’s amazing how someone can make themselves out to be something they are not….don’t you think?

    I’m absolutely nauseated at the person he has portrayed himself as. You all think that Amber is this horrible person and rather I agree or not is besides the point…

    Maybe Keven should man up and explain to everyone how he has beat his wife, the gun incident, the making his two year old daughter piss in a cup so he could pass a UA…… Hmmm…stand up guy. Oh wait, lets not forget about the drinking and drug abuse….oh wait he said he doesn’t do drugs or drink. Keven don’t forget that it isn’t only strangers that read or comment on these blogs.

    Maybe rather than trying to make yourself look good to everyone else, you should strictly focus on Kameron and nothing else. That little boy will need a lot of love and care. Hopefully he can get that from the parents he has.

    1. We haven’t taken Keven under our wing. We just tend to lean toward the family member (or defender) that doesn’t come on her posting rmbling non-sense and makeing themselves look like an ass. See – you are almost there. once you start defending Amber, I will lose resect for you. As for the allegations against Keven, can you link the booking info or another source as to his illegal activity? It adds to your credebility.

  110. No I did not use my real name simply because I am a concerned family member and starting a family feud is not something that I am interested in, especially not with these circumstances. You can all think what you want, you will anyway.

    There are several of you who have seemed to take Keven under your wing….It’s amazing how someone can make themselves out to be something they are not….don’t you think?

    I’m absolutely nauseated at the person he has portrayed himself as. You all think that Amber is this horrible person and rather I agree or not is besides the point…

    Maybe Keven should man up and explain to everyone how he has beat his wife, the gun incident, the making his two year old daughter piss in a cup so he could pass a UA…… Hmmm…stand up guy. Oh wait, lets not forget about the drinking and drug abuse….oh wait he said he doesn’t do drugs or drink. Keven don’t forget that it isn’t only strangers that read or comment on these blogs.

    Maybe rather than trying to make yourself look good to everyone else, you should strictly focus on Kameron and nothing else. That little boy will need a lot of love and care. Hopefully he can get that from the parents he has.

    1. We haven’t taken Keven under our wing. We just tend to lean toward the family member (or defender) that doesn’t come on her posting rmbling non-sense and makeing themselves look like an ass. See – you are almost there. once you start defending Amber, I will lose resect for you. As for the allegations against Keven, can you link the booking info or another source as to his illegal activity? It adds to your credebility.

  111. Concerned family member:
    My hats off to you. You were willing to speak your mind, and yet still keep it clean.”as it should be” I really wish that if people are going to feed into this blog, that they also could keep it focused on the situation at hand, “THE BABY”

  112. Concerned family member:
    My hats off to you. You were willing to speak your mind, and yet still keep it clean.”as it should be” I really wish that if people are going to feed into this blog, that they also could keep it focused on the situation at hand, “THE BABY”

  113. concerned family member: i’m a little confused…is the baby still in the hospital or has he been released? if he’s been released,soes his father have him at home? what is his condition at this point and do they think he’ll make a full recovery or was the accident (being submerged for too long)going to leave him with permanent disabilities? my prayers are with him and his siblings also….they’re all so young and the baby will need so much care…it’ll be alot to handle.

  114. concerned family member: i’m a little confused…is the baby still in the hospital or has he been released? if he’s been released,soes his father have him at home? what is his condition at this point and do they think he’ll make a full recovery or was the accident (being submerged for too long)going to leave him with permanent disabilities? my prayers are with him and his siblings also….they’re all so young and the baby will need so much care…it’ll be alot to handle.

  115. Let me get this straight, maybe somebody on here can clarify this for me. So someone here believes that April is actually Amber in some form of a clever disguise???? Well April claims to have an “8yr. old that can provide better written thoughts” Does Amber have an 8 year old? I am no investigator in fact I often feel that I don’t pay enough attention to detail, but I do suppose that I could be on to something. That would make sense to me actually, my reason being that this would make Keven and April/ the alleged Amber the two most frequent people blogging on this site. HMMMMM just something to ponder.

    1. Oooo, April. You’re cheating with Keven? I’m telling.

    2. Wow – That is awesome. Head on over to the Randy Piercy thread. I was accused of being Dan Boswell on that one. Oh, and Rhanda Sue someone or other that Nancy hated. Who can I be tomorrw??? Angel, a hand here!! What are some of the names on the Deomontrell thread??? QUIICK!!!!

      For the record – I have one child (not 5) and 8 year old boy who will be 9 in January. My husband’s name starts with a K (but is not Keven) and we have been married for 12 years. I live in California (not Oregon). I have NEVER been to jail (more that I can say for Amber). The last car i wrecked was a Mustang (not an SUV) when I was 20. I’m in my 30’s, not 20’s. I’m 5’5, 130 pounds, blonde hair, blue eyes, my shoe size is 8 1/2, I like surfing and long walks on the beach, I hate baby rapers and child abusers. I think that pretty much covers it. Do you stil think I’m the demolition derby tw*t, Amber?

      Oh, an I don’t like pb&j….. Not really. I am more of an almond butter kinda girl. πŸ˜†

      1. See, Angel – no f-word!! I CAN do it!

        1. Somebody, give that girl a cookie! :mrgreen:

  116. Let me get this straight, maybe somebody on here can clarify this for me. So someone here believes that April is actually Amber in some form of a clever disguise???? Well April claims to have an “8yr. old that can provide better written thoughts” Does Amber have an 8 year old? I am no investigator in fact I often feel that I don’t pay enough attention to detail, but I do suppose that I could be on to something. That would make sense to me actually, my reason being that this would make Keven and April/ the alleged Amber the two most frequent people blogging on this site. HMMMMM just something to ponder.

    1. Oooo, April. You’re cheating with Keven? I’m telling.

    2. Wow – That is awesome. Head on over to the Randy Piercy thread. I was accused of being Dan Boswell on that one. Oh, and Rhanda Sue someone or other that Nancy hated. Who can I be tomorrw??? Angel, a hand here!! What are some of the names on the Deomontrell thread??? QUIICK!!!!

      For the record – I have one child (not 5) and 8 year old boy who will be 9 in January. My husband’s name starts with a K (but is not Keven) and we have been married for 12 years. I live in California (not Oregon). I have NEVER been to jail (more that I can say for Amber). The last car i wrecked was a Mustang (not an SUV) when I was 20. I’m in my 30’s, not 20’s. I’m 5’5, 130 pounds, blonde hair, blue eyes, my shoe size is 8 1/2, I like surfing and long walks on the beach, I hate baby rapers and child abusers. I think that pretty much covers it. Do you stil think I’m the demolition derby tw*t, Amber?

      Oh, an I don’t like pb&j….. Not really. I am more of an almond butter kinda girl. πŸ˜†

      1. See, Angel – no f-word!! I CAN do it!

        1. Somebody, give that girl a cookie! :mrgreen:

  117. amber like pbj, april doesn’t.

    1. Ummmmmmm…..WHAT!?!? I think you got that backwards, hon. πŸ˜•

  118. amber like pbj, april doesn’t.

    1. Ummmmmmm…..WHAT!?!? I think you got that backwards, hon. πŸ˜•

  119. whew see what happens when i don’t log in for a day? well lets start from the top shall we. i used to do my share of drinking and pot smoking. there is a key word in there used to and i alone without the help of any child would be more than happyto give a UA or perhaps a blood sample would be a bit more effective. never once have i had my daughter kylie pee in a cup. ummm…. gun charge… Guilty. it would seem 3 years ago before i quit drinking like a fish i had a few too many and got into a fight with the wifey and told her i was going to shoot myself. i then grabbed a 30-30 winchester and proceeded to the back yard. where i shot into a large tree. amber paniced and called 911 thinking i had shot myself. (stupid). can i say it again STUPID. i have never tried to make myself out perfect because i am a far cry from that.the night was a blur. that is what opened my eyes to who i become when i drank. 3 years and court ordered treatment does a wonder for some ohawe shucks you forgot to mention that i actually enrolled in college to become a drug and alcohol counselor must have slipped your mind. also i need to be more focused on Kameron? you just tell me how. you think because i get online and blog i am not…fuck you. i bet you would really shit if you knew i got on ebay and craigslist too huh. i am totally focused on him if i wasn’t i’d probably be at a titty bar having a stiff drink picking a fight with some dude. don’t know where you have been for the past 3 years…. oh wait yeah i do. but i have grown and learned from the mistakes i have made. still sleeping with men down the street?…oops cats out of the bag. but you know honestly i am having a hard time focusing on all my kids. we are 66 miles away from each other. but hey guess what i’m doing in the morning. going home sending them to school picking up milk and diapers doing the best i can under these circumstances. then what after that you may ask? i’m coming back to the hospital to learn how to do physical therapy at home. SO YOU SAY TO FOCUS ON KAMERON AND NOTHING ELSE? i understand the severity of the situation with him more than anyone but at the same time i’m not going cast aside my other children they need me now more than ever as well. so if your so fucking knowledgable and focused and concerned where the fuck are you? oh oh oh i know. enough of that shit i’m done with you. Karen you actually seem more concerned than this so called family member. so here is the scoop he is here at the hospital until the end of the coming week we were supossed to be going home friday of last week but they changed some of his meds and wanted to monitor him for a bit… as far as a full recovery…hard to say that is what i’m aiming for with all the PT OT and ST and any other therapy we can be involved in. docs can’t say anything other than it’s a miracle he is here today. and only time will tell. i hate that. i can tell you that from my point of view he is doing amazing. he is still in a neck brace from some torn ligaments (spellcheck) in his neck pretty minor when you see the damage the truck had. but the big thing is the brain. all of his eeg’s looked good mri looked good so did the first ct scan. one week later it showed the brain slightly shrank. so there is going to be some cell lose. the brain docs i’ve spoke with say there is no large areas of the brain damaged. that it is most likely overall cell lose. and also the brain is good about compensating these kinds of things. so overall nobody knows but Kameron when he gets there. and despite what the concerned so called family member is concerned i will be by his side every baby step of the way and thats a promise………………oh REALLY we don’t have an 8 yo we do have a 7 a 5 a 3 a 2 and a 7 mo. old and i am who i am if i wasn’t why would i say i am…

  120. whew see what happens when i don’t log in for a day? well lets start from the top shall we. i used to do my share of drinking and pot smoking. there is a key word in there used to and i alone without the help of any child would be more than happyto give a UA or perhaps a blood sample would be a bit more effective. never once have i had my daughter kylie pee in a cup. ummm…. gun charge… Guilty. it would seem 3 years ago before i quit drinking like a fish i had a few too many and got into a fight with the wifey and told her i was going to shoot myself. i then grabbed a 30-30 winchester and proceeded to the back yard. where i shot into a large tree. amber paniced and called 911 thinking i had shot myself. (stupid). can i say it again STUPID. i have never tried to make myself out perfect because i am a far cry from that.the night was a blur. that is what opened my eyes to who i become when i drank. 3 years and court ordered treatment does a wonder for some ohawe shucks you forgot to mention that i actually enrolled in college to become a drug and alcohol counselor must have slipped your mind. also i need to be more focused on Kameron? you just tell me how. you think because i get online and blog i am not…fuck you. i bet you would really shit if you knew i got on ebay and craigslist too huh. i am totally focused on him if i wasn’t i’d probably be at a titty bar having a stiff drink picking a fight with some dude. don’t know where you have been for the past 3 years…. oh wait yeah i do. but i have grown and learned from the mistakes i have made. still sleeping with men down the street?…oops cats out of the bag. but you know honestly i am having a hard time focusing on all my kids. we are 66 miles away from each other. but hey guess what i’m doing in the morning. going home sending them to school picking up milk and diapers doing the best i can under these circumstances. then what after that you may ask? i’m coming back to the hospital to learn how to do physical therapy at home. SO YOU SAY TO FOCUS ON KAMERON AND NOTHING ELSE? i understand the severity of the situation with him more than anyone but at the same time i’m not going cast aside my other children they need me now more than ever as well. so if your so fucking knowledgable and focused and concerned where the fuck are you? oh oh oh i know. enough of that shit i’m done with you. Karen you actually seem more concerned than this so called family member. so here is the scoop he is here at the hospital until the end of the coming week we were supossed to be going home friday of last week but they changed some of his meds and wanted to monitor him for a bit… as far as a full recovery…hard to say that is what i’m aiming for with all the PT OT and ST and any other therapy we can be involved in. docs can’t say anything other than it’s a miracle he is here today. and only time will tell. i hate that. i can tell you that from my point of view he is doing amazing. he is still in a neck brace from some torn ligaments (spellcheck) in his neck pretty minor when you see the damage the truck had. but the big thing is the brain. all of his eeg’s looked good mri looked good so did the first ct scan. one week later it showed the brain slightly shrank. so there is going to be some cell lose. the brain docs i’ve spoke with say there is no large areas of the brain damaged. that it is most likely overall cell lose. and also the brain is good about compensating these kinds of things. so overall nobody knows but Kameron when he gets there. and despite what the concerned so called family member is concerned i will be by his side every baby step of the way and thats a promise………………oh REALLY we don’t have an 8 yo we do have a 7 a 5 a 3 a 2 and a 7 mo. old and i am who i am if i wasn’t why would i say i am…

  121. Punctuation? Koolaid? Popcorn? Come on people, I thought this was about a child. I keep telling myself that i will not get caught up in this, but certain people make it so easy.
    Oh gosh is everything spelled properly? LOL

    Last i heard the baby is doing better. for those that were wondering.

  122. Punctuation? Koolaid? Popcorn? Come on people, I thought this was about a child. I keep telling myself that i will not get caught up in this, but certain people make it so easy.
    Oh gosh is everything spelled properly? LOL

    Last i heard the baby is doing better. for those that were wondering.

  123. Kevin, I bet you could sell ice cream to an Eskimo.

  124. Kevin, I bet you could sell ice cream to an Eskimo.

  125. Keven, please keep us posted on the kids. I hope they can move past this quickly. Make sure to spoil them for Christmas. They deserve it. πŸ˜›

    1. you got it. πŸ˜‰ gonna have to take an hour or to too two and shoot down to toys r us. get some final goodies for them. and trust me they are very spoiled no thanks to my mom. everytime she takes them somewhere she has to get them something… wait thats just like my grandma and me. thank God for family traditions.

  126. Keven, please keep us posted on the kids. I hope they can move past this quickly. Make sure to spoil them for Christmas. They deserve it. πŸ˜›

    1. you got it. πŸ˜‰ gonna have to take an hour or to too two and shoot down to toys r us. get some final goodies for them. and trust me they are very spoiled no thanks to my mom. everytime she takes them somewhere she has to get them something… wait thats just like my grandma and me. thank God for family traditions.

  127. hey keven….thanks for the detailed update. i’m sure you must feel overwhelmed between staying with the baby and still trying to care for the other little ones. once you get home with the baby things will be a tad easier…still hectic and overwhelming at times, but at least you’ll all be in one place at the same time.
    i wish you and your family the best of luck and pray for a positive outcome. at this point, i would normally tell you to sit down and take a load off…and offer you some popcorn and koolaid….but….well, you seem like an intelligent guy….i don’t need to feed into the comments any more πŸ˜‰

    1. Um… Where is my koolaid and popcorn?

      1. It’s not lunch time yet, April. It’s not even break time for you yet. Go back to your cubicle, and get to work! *cracks whip*

        And be sure to read the two new articles I posted today. :mrgreen:

  128. hey keven….thanks for the detailed update. i’m sure you must feel overwhelmed between staying with the baby and still trying to care for the other little ones. once you get home with the baby things will be a tad easier…still hectic and overwhelming at times, but at least you’ll all be in one place at the same time.
    i wish you and your family the best of luck and pray for a positive outcome. at this point, i would normally tell you to sit down and take a load off…and offer you some popcorn and koolaid….but….well, you seem like an intelligent guy….i don’t need to feed into the comments any more πŸ˜‰

    1. Um… Where is my koolaid and popcorn?

      1. It’s not lunch time yet, April. It’s not even break time for you yet. Go back to your cubicle, and get to work! *cracks whip*

        And be sure to read the two new articles I posted today. :mrgreen:

  129. Concerned Family Member

    To Keven: I never said it was Kylie. The gun incident, you pulled the gun on your wife. I know…minor details. You can say that you have changed and that you are a rehabilitated man (used loosely) but only those that don’t know you may believe that.

    To Karen: Yes Kameron is still in the hospital. He does have brain damage. There are issues with his kidneys and his intestines. He also is having surgery this week to have a feeding tube put in. As far as I know the kids are still at home with their grandparents because no charges have been filed as of yet.

    To April: I’m not worried about my credibility. If you would like to look up charges that have been filed against Keven or jail time that he has served, feel free. The sad thing is that you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with. I’m saddened at the information I know and don’t want to think about the stuff that I probably haven’t heard about.

    As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer.

    1. Concerned – Let’s face it, you and I are on the same team. I am here because I care about kids. Not just the Gandy’s kids – ALL KIDS!!! I couldn’t give two shits about Amber. I don’t know what Keven is guilty of… I just know he wasn’t driving the car. This story is about Amber, not Keven. So why is he on trial here??

    2. oops i missed this one completely. concerned says. As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer… luckily they survived? Keven guilty as Amber? MY CHILDREN SUFFER?… thats it you fucking tw*t there are not enough four leter words to describe the passionate hate i have for you. fuck you all to hell running sideways with a pineapple in your ass sideways. your gonna tell me… your gonna accuse me? unfortunately i wasn’t caught? fuck you. that really pisses me off. I offer myself to the jury. May a hang a slow death if the accusations you speak are true. you are full of more shit than all tillamook county. i am now officially done responding to anything you might say you sawed off c**t… sorry to all that have to read that (however i do like the part about the pineapple) this ho is way off base and to accuse me of shit like that is uncalled for. i have f-ed up in my life and am not perfect. but in no way did i or would i endanger my children… wow blogs are great for stress aren’t they. i feel great now. i bet none of you full timers take prozac. lol

      1. Actually, most of us do….or some other form of happy pill. LOL. This is a great stress reliever, though, isn’t it? Check out the other couple of posts I have done on this thread in the last half hour or so. I have called out several of our more illustrious trolls. Still LMAO at gwenidiot trying to make others think I was mistaken about her aliases. I have the key to the secret room, folks. I know EVERYTHING! πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

        1. Oh yeah, when you have the key to the secret room, tracking something as basic as ip addresses is child’s play. (I am going to school for Information Systems Security, should finish a little after my birthday in September this year). People don’t seem to realize, that unless they are using a different computer in a different location for each alias, they will be found out (and it has to be a different location because when you use a router, the ip addresses each computer is given is very similar except for the last digit or two). I know I am giving away a trade secret, but the ones that think they are smarter than us all won’t believe, and it might make some others think twice before doing it, since they will be found out.

  130. To Keven: I never said it was Kylie. The gun incident, you pulled the gun on your wife. I know…minor details. You can say that you have changed and that you are a rehabilitated man (used loosely) but only those that don’t know you may believe that.

    To Karen: Yes Kameron is still in the hospital. He does have brain damage. There are issues with his kidneys and his intestines. He also is having surgery this week to have a feeding tube put in. As far as I know the kids are still at home with their grandparents because no charges have been filed as of yet.

    To April: I’m not worried about my credibility. If you would like to look up charges that have been filed against Keven or jail time that he has served, feel free. The sad thing is that you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with. I’m saddened at the information I know and don’t want to think about the stuff that I probably haven’t heard about.

    As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer.

    1. Concerned – Let’s face it, you and I are on the same team. I am here because I care about kids. Not just the Gandy’s kids – ALL KIDS!!! I couldn’t give two shits about Amber. I don’t know what Keven is guilty of… I just know he wasn’t driving the car. This story is about Amber, not Keven. So why is he on trial here??

    2. oops i missed this one completely. concerned says. As far as defending Amber…I don’t think so. I feel that Keven is just as guilty as Amber. He has done just as horrible of things if not worse. Luckily the kids have survived and unfortunately he wasn’t caught. They chose the lifestyle they live and for that there children suffer… luckily they survived? Keven guilty as Amber? MY CHILDREN SUFFER?… thats it you fucking tw*t there are not enough four leter words to describe the passionate hate i have for you. fuck you all to hell running sideways with a pineapple in your ass sideways. your gonna tell me… your gonna accuse me? unfortunately i wasn’t caught? fuck you. that really pisses me off. I offer myself to the jury. May a hang a slow death if the accusations you speak are true. you are full of more shit than all tillamook county. i am now officially done responding to anything you might say you sawed off c**t… sorry to all that have to read that (however i do like the part about the pineapple) this ho is way off base and to accuse me of shit like that is uncalled for. i have f-ed up in my life and am not perfect. but in no way did i or would i endanger my children… wow blogs are great for stress aren’t they. i feel great now. i bet none of you full timers take prozac. lol

      1. Actually, most of us do….or some other form of happy pill. LOL. This is a great stress reliever, though, isn’t it? Check out the other couple of posts I have done on this thread in the last half hour or so. I have called out several of our more illustrious trolls. Still LMAO at gwenidiot trying to make others think I was mistaken about her aliases. I have the key to the secret room, folks. I know EVERYTHING! πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

        1. Oh yeah, when you have the key to the secret room, tracking something as basic as ip addresses is child’s play. (I am going to school for Information Systems Security, should finish a little after my birthday in September this year). People don’t seem to realize, that unless they are using a different computer in a different location for each alias, they will be found out (and it has to be a different location because when you use a router, the ip addresses each computer is given is very similar except for the last digit or two). I know I am giving away a trade secret, but the ones that think they are smarter than us all won’t believe, and it might make some others think twice before doing it, since they will be found out.

  131. Concerned Family Member: OK, but where is the proof of anything? Is there a shred of proof that he did anything to his children? Or to his wife? We’re just supposed to believe that everything you say is true? I’m not speaking for the other poster’s, but I believe most (not all) of what Keven has said. While you have made some sense, you just don’t come off as believable. Anytime you were asked for proof, you just said, “you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with”. So it’s a game of who’s more credible, and in my opinion, it’s him.

    I do, however, enjoy being proved wrong (since it happens so rarely πŸ˜‰ ), so bring it on.

  132. Concerned Family Member: OK, but where is the proof of anything? Is there a shred of proof that he did anything to his children? Or to his wife? We’re just supposed to believe that everything you say is true? I’m not speaking for the other poster’s, but I believe most (not all) of what Keven has said. While you have made some sense, you just don’t come off as believable. Anytime you were asked for proof, you just said, “you won’t find all the crap he has done and gotten away with”. So it’s a game of who’s more credible, and in my opinion, it’s him.

    I do, however, enjoy being proved wrong (since it happens so rarely πŸ˜‰ ), so bring it on.

  133. Wow, I had frozen pipes, a sister who is…well just is let’s say, IS, and I miss all of the fun with Amber and Keven? Gosh, Keven and Amber sound like two fun-loving, good-time, alcohol swilling, potheads! Keven, your are right, you are such great parents! I think you and Amber’s photos are in Dictionary next to the word “Parents”! Golly, who wouldn’t want to make you two “Parents of the Year!” ???
    A mother who can’t keep herself out of the pickle jar, and a husband who defends her driving under the influence of more than one substancewith 3 of your children in it?
    are you planning on having a few more? what a couple of swell folks!
    You both sound about as educated as Kevin Conger of the “Evan Coen” story……
    Oh, you may want to get one of those Dictionaries, they have even more words than 4 letter ones, and they even have puncuation marks, and all sorts of things to help you
    present yourself a tad-bit more than the second-grade-drunk stoners you are.
    God help your children.
    You see, there is a reason you were on this site, it’s called Parents Behaving Badly, and qualified yourselves!
    I guess if we don’t hear from you, we can assume you are quietly in the Nathan’s Pickle jar…getting good and pickled, popping out a few times for a few hits off of the bong….

  134. Wow, I had frozen pipes, a sister who is…well just is let’s say, IS, and I miss all of the fun with Amber and Keven? Gosh, Keven and Amber sound like two fun-loving, good-time, alcohol swilling, potheads! Keven, your are right, you are such great parents! I think you and Amber’s photos are in Dictionary next to the word “Parents”! Golly, who wouldn’t want to make you two “Parents of the Year!” ???
    A mother who can’t keep herself out of the pickle jar, and a husband who defends her driving under the influence of more than one substancewith 3 of your children in it?
    are you planning on having a few more? what a couple of swell folks!
    You both sound about as educated as Kevin Conger of the “Evan Coen” story……
    Oh, you may want to get one of those Dictionaries, they have even more words than 4 letter ones, and they even have puncuation marks, and all sorts of things to help you
    present yourself a tad-bit more than the second-grade-drunk stoners you are.
    God help your children.
    You see, there is a reason you were on this site, it’s called Parents Behaving Badly, and qualified yourselves!
    I guess if we don’t hear from you, we can assume you are quietly in the Nathan’s Pickle jar…getting good and pickled, popping out a few times for a few hits off of the bong….

  135. And Luke 17:2.

  136. Oops, did it again, the above is on the wrong thread….

  137. Oops, did it again, the above is on the wrong thread….

  138. Concerned Family Member

    April you are correct. I do believe we are on the same page. You are also correct in saying keven wasn’t driving that day. Keven isn’t on trial but he isn’t as he makes himself out to be either. That was what I was trying to get across. And I did rather others feel it is credible or not.

    JJ I was asked once to provide proof. Again, in case you need help with the big words…… I don’t need to. Sound them out big boy you’ll do just fine.

    1. CFM: re: big boy – jj’s a female. :mrgreen:

    2. I was trying to be nice, you c**ty little bitch, but fuck you. When you come to a site like this spouting the bullshit that you are, NOBODY is going to believe what you say, just because you say so. No, you don’t NEED to provide proof, but if you want a bunch of strangers to believe one word of what you’re saying, you sure as shit better back it up. It’s not that you won’t, it’s that you can’t.

    3. See, Concerned – You post a comment like that and I am COMPELLED to respond like this. These are the types of comments that I refuse to argue with. You post a respectful comment to me and I will give the same respect in return. I don’t know of Keven’s past. I can only hope that he has changed (for the sake of the children). Substance abuse and domestic violence are horrible, horrible things. No child should EVER have to be subjected to either.

      Now my reason for not jumping Keven’s ass is because he hasn’t disrespected me. I will continue to treat him with respect as long as he returns the favor. There is obviously some sort of family feud going on between the two of you and I want no part of it.

      BTW – We welcome updates on all of the cases features here. If either of you will keep us posted, it would be much appreciated. πŸ˜‰

  139. April you are correct. I do believe we are on the same page. You are also correct in saying keven wasn’t driving that day. Keven isn’t on trial but he isn’t as he makes himself out to be either. That was what I was trying to get across. And I did rather others feel it is credible or not.

    JJ I was asked once to provide proof. Again, in case you need help with the big words…… I don’t need to. Sound them out big boy you’ll do just fine.

    1. CFM: re: big boy – jj’s a female. :mrgreen:

    2. I was trying to be nice, you c**ty little bitch, but fuck you. When you come to a site like this spouting the bullshit that you are, NOBODY is going to believe what you say, just because you say so. No, you don’t NEED to provide proof, but if you want a bunch of strangers to believe one word of what you’re saying, you sure as shit better back it up. It’s not that you won’t, it’s that you can’t.

    3. See, Concerned – You post a comment like that and I am COMPELLED to respond like this. These are the types of comments that I refuse to argue with. You post a respectful comment to me and I will give the same respect in return. I don’t know of Keven’s past. I can only hope that he has changed (for the sake of the children). Substance abuse and domestic violence are horrible, horrible things. No child should EVER have to be subjected to either.

      Now my reason for not jumping Keven’s ass is because he hasn’t disrespected me. I will continue to treat him with respect as long as he returns the favor. There is obviously some sort of family feud going on between the two of you and I want no part of it.

      BTW – We welcome updates on all of the cases features here. If either of you will keep us posted, it would be much appreciated. πŸ˜‰

  140. kids are so beautiful I wouldn’t know what to do without them.

    1. How flattering that someone has cloned me.

  141. kids are so beautiful I wouldn’t know what to do without them.

    1. How flattering that someone has cloned me.

  142. Concerned Family Member

    Thanks April and I completely understand.

    JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.

    1. Much appreciated. Thank you.
      More people should see how posting comments and respecting other people on this site will get you a LONG way. Even if you have different opinions. It really is simple. You respect me and I’ll respect you. Take care, and please take the time to update us when you can. πŸ˜€

  143. Thanks April and I completely understand.

    JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.

    1. Much appreciated. Thank you.
      More people should see how posting comments and respecting other people on this site will get you a LONG way. Even if you have different opinions. It really is simple. You respect me and I’ll respect you. Take care, and please take the time to update us when you can. πŸ˜€

  144. I have to wonder JJ, why is it so easy believing Keven, But yet hard believing someone whom claims that they are a family member? Are they both not strangers ? I really doubt that this person would claim that they are related in anyway if not true.Not something most would want to brag about.just something to think about, no dis-respect intended.

    1. Shocked, I can see where JJ is coming from. She is reserving her judgement for Keven upon proof that he is a negligent parent. There are people who post here that WILL go looking for that proof… JJ’s not one of them. I suppose that if someone is going to throw out accusations, it would be kind to post the link to back up the allegations. Kind of like Angel and Trench post links to back up their stories. I know that some states post arrest history as public information (but not all). If that is the case where Keven is domiciled, please link the arrest info and you will see how fast opinions of him change.

      Tata….

      *April blinks back over to the OT for drinks and pigs in a blanket*

  145. I have to wonder JJ, why is it so easy believing Keven, But yet hard believing someone whom claims that they are a family member? Are they both not strangers ? I really doubt that this person would claim that they are related in anyway if not true.Not something most would want to brag about.just something to think about, no dis-respect intended.

    1. Shocked, I can see where JJ is coming from. She is reserving her judgement for Keven upon proof that he is a negligent parent. There are people who post here that WILL go looking for that proof… JJ’s not one of them. I suppose that if someone is going to throw out accusations, it would be kind to post the link to back up the allegations. Kind of like Angel and Trench post links to back up their stories. I know that some states post arrest history as public information (but not all). If that is the case where Keven is domiciled, please link the arrest info and you will see how fast opinions of him change.

      Tata….

      *April blinks back over to the OT for drinks and pigs in a blanket*

  146. contrary to a negative opinion on here, i didn’t find that keven defended amber in anyway.he, in fact stated, that his children loved her and she them and that he was taking her in for an evaluation….a step on the right path toward “getting it together”. i also believe he commented that IN THE PAST he smoked and drank but has since given it up. i find him to come across as quite intelligent and compassionite. his spelling is on track and he knows more than four letter words. kind of feel like however many children he has is up to him….you know?
    concerned: there does seem to be some family rift going on and it’s totally understandable that you feel the way you do….we do appreciate any updates you can provide.
    as before, prayers are sent to all who know and love this baby.

  147. contrary to a negative opinion on here, i didn’t find that keven defended amber in anyway.he, in fact stated, that his children loved her and she them and that he was taking her in for an evaluation….a step on the right path toward “getting it together”. i also believe he commented that IN THE PAST he smoked and drank but has since given it up. i find him to come across as quite intelligent and compassionite. his spelling is on track and he knows more than four letter words. kind of feel like however many children he has is up to him….you know?
    concerned: there does seem to be some family rift going on and it’s totally understandable that you feel the way you do….we do appreciate any updates you can provide.
    as before, prayers are sent to all who know and love this baby.

  148. Karen is the bomb! A good egg you are lady!

  149. Karen is the bomb! A good egg you are lady!

  150. If you do not think that concerned family member is correct then why would keven respond with explanations? I thought this blog was about bad parenting? Instead were just putting each other down? It seems to me anyone wanting to comment about the parents at hand here are the ones being bashed on? Maybe this blog needs to come to a end.
    OH yeah maybe Kevin can explain the ATM he stole? I am sure if you guys want Proof you could google that one!

    1. OK – I give…. I googled Keven Gandy and came up empty handed. give me a hand on this one.

      BTW – The chances of this blog coming to an end are slim to none.

  151. If you do not think that concerned family member is correct then why would keven respond with explanations? I thought this blog was about bad parenting? Instead were just putting each other down? It seems to me anyone wanting to comment about the parents at hand here are the ones being bashed on? Maybe this blog needs to come to a end.
    OH yeah maybe Kevin can explain the ATM he stole? I am sure if you guys want Proof you could google that one!

    1. OK – I give…. I googled Keven Gandy and came up empty handed. give me a hand on this one.

      BTW – The chances of this blog coming to an end are slim to none.

  152. oops cat out of the bag

  153. oops cat out of the bag

  154. For anyone who is interested….Wow and Come on?! are the same person….

    1. Heeee-heeeeee. Angel, this is why I lvoe you!

      1. FYI – lvoe is like love… Only better. πŸ˜†

  155. For anyone who is interested….Wow and Come on?! are the same person….

    1. Heeee-heeeeee. Angel, this is why I lvoe you!

      1. FYI – lvoe is like love… Only better. πŸ˜†

  156. your right I tried to google it to too two maybe I am shocked now? I also came up empty, but polk county should have records or I am sure you can pay online I do not need proof since I know, but if you want it that would be the way to go! I love how you all stick up for him! Enjoy the rest of your blog!

    1. Did I stick up for him? Did you read anything I posted? Wow…. Now you lost me. I will ju st ass you to the growing list of tards that have graced the pages of this site in the past few days.

  157. your right I tried to google it to too two maybe I am shocked now? I also came up empty, but polk county should have records or I am sure you can pay online I do not need proof since I know, but if you want it that would be the way to go! I love how you all stick up for him! Enjoy the rest of your blog!

    1. Did I stick up for him? Did you read anything I posted? Wow…. Now you lost me. I will ju st ass you to the growing list of tards that have graced the pages of this site in the past few days.

  158. Do you feel better now? I am just so so hurt. This is my last post as I have a life and better things to do. Thanks for the blog good luck to all!
    ~ Tard~

    1. I fell better that you are leaving. No more wading through the mindless babble you are posting. Now we can get back to real comments.

      😈

  159. Do you feel better now? I am just so so hurt. This is my last post as I have a life and better things to do. Thanks for the blog good luck to all!
    ~ Tard~

    1. I fell better that you are leaving. No more wading through the mindless babble you are posting. Now we can get back to real comments.

      😈

  160. 😈 😯 πŸ’‘

  161. 😈 😯 πŸ’‘

  162. it’s interesting that there is a growing list of tards, I agree April. I find it even more interesting that the number of non-tards isn’t growing. πŸ™
    why could that be?

    1. Probably because at least five of the ‘tards’ are YOU, you moron! At last count, I have discovered that you are ‘karenisthebomb’, the clone of me on the OT, and both of the April clones on that thread, ‘gwenishavingahardtime’, ‘ohwell!’, and ‘babiesarefun’.

      This tells me a lot about you actually. It tells me that besides being a pathetic loser, you are also a liar. You don’t like foul language or name calling? So……what?…..your Angelclone and Aprilclone comments were made by one of your many split personalities? You are an idiot, girl. If you are even a girl. You might just as well be an androgynous specimen of a humanoid like creature.

      It tells me also that you are a troll (as if we hadn’t figured that one out already, now we just have proof), and that you are an attention-seeking nitwit. It also tells me that you have the IQ of a rock, and that probably the only reason you post under so many names on here is because that’s the only time you can ever get anyone to listen to you, much less agree with your idiotic rantings.

      Have a nice night. πŸ™„

      1. Aww, lighten up Angel! I thought you ladies liked to have a little sparring action on there anyway. Besides, you need someone to fight with and it seemed you didn’t have enough people challenging you. It keeps the blog exciting to have debate! muhahhahahahaha!
        P.S. one of them you listed I am not, but that’s for you to figure out. πŸ˜›

        1. All of them I listed are you, Sweetheart. Stop lying. If they are not all you, then you should probably keep your children away from your computer while you are cooking dinner – because it must have been one of them. You see…..they all came from the same IP address. Like I said…IDIOT! πŸ™„

          1. That Angel is whip-smart I tell ya! Yer lucky to have her here. lighten up…aren’t we here to have fun? Every personality was made up, actually. I don’t have any kids at all. I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said. I’m actually just doing an acting experiment and this just seemed to be a good place to get response from people. And I was right! Thanks! You’ve all been great!

          2. No, actually, we’re not here to have fun – that’s only on the OT. Every other thread is dedicated to the memory of a dead child, or to the rehabilitation of a child who has been abused. This site is about the children – and exposing the animals who abuse them – not your idiotic acting assignment. You are even more pathetic than I originally thought.

            And what’s with the “I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said.” comment? Are you saying that you don’t even KNOW what you believe? I think you are a freak. Be a good little moron, and go to bed now. And stay there until you grow a brain.

          3. Wow, how did someone managed to piss off the angelic being of this site..its beyond me, but sure you are a fighting Angel dear lol.. I’ll make a mental note not to ever bother you.. just in case :mrgreen:

          4. You are in no danger from me, Monique. You’re not a selfish idiot. I’ve always been partial to the archangel Michael, though. :mrgreen:

      2. You have to admit the whole gwenishavingahardtime character was played very well. I mean, I’m pretty sure some of you actually believed me…and I sure did get quite a “tard” reaction out of the key players on the site. I feel like I know you all so well now. I feel so warm & fuzzy! πŸ˜›

        1. All you did was get Morrigan out of lurkitude. Otherwise you just gave us someone else to bash. Pretty lame.

  163. it’s interesting that there is a growing list of tards, I agree April. I find it even more interesting that the number of non-tards isn’t growing. πŸ™
    why could that be?

    1. Probably because at least five of the ‘tards’ are YOU, you moron! At last count, I have discovered that you are ‘karenisthebomb’, the clone of me on the OT, and both of the April clones on that thread, ‘gwenishavingahardtime’, ‘ohwell!’, and ‘babiesarefun’.

      This tells me a lot about you actually. It tells me that besides being a pathetic loser, you are also a liar. You don’t like foul language or name calling? So……what?…..your Angelclone and Aprilclone comments were made by one of your many split personalities? You are an idiot, girl. If you are even a girl. You might just as well be an androgynous specimen of a humanoid like creature.

      It tells me also that you are a troll (as if we hadn’t figured that one out already, now we just have proof), and that you are an attention-seeking nitwit. It also tells me that you have the IQ of a rock, and that probably the only reason you post under so many names on here is because that’s the only time you can ever get anyone to listen to you, much less agree with your idiotic rantings.

      Have a nice night. πŸ™„

      1. Aww, lighten up Angel! I thought you ladies liked to have a little sparring action on there anyway. Besides, you need someone to fight with and it seemed you didn’t have enough people challenging you. It keeps the blog exciting to have debate! muhahhahahahaha!
        P.S. one of them you listed I am not, but that’s for you to figure out. πŸ˜›

        1. All of them I listed are you, Sweetheart. Stop lying. If they are not all you, then you should probably keep your children away from your computer while you are cooking dinner – because it must have been one of them. You see…..they all came from the same IP address. Like I said…IDIOT! πŸ™„

          1. That Angel is whip-smart I tell ya! Yer lucky to have her here. lighten up…aren’t we here to have fun? Every personality was made up, actually. I don’t have any kids at all. I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said. I’m actually just doing an acting experiment and this just seemed to be a good place to get response from people. And I was right! Thanks! You’ve all been great!

          2. No, actually, we’re not here to have fun – that’s only on the OT. Every other thread is dedicated to the memory of a dead child, or to the rehabilitation of a child who has been abused. This site is about the children – and exposing the animals who abuse them – not your idiotic acting assignment. You are even more pathetic than I originally thought.

            And what’s with the “I probably don’t even believe any of the things I said.” comment? Are you saying that you don’t even KNOW what you believe? I think you are a freak. Be a good little moron, and go to bed now. And stay there until you grow a brain.

          3. Wow, how did someone managed to piss off the angelic being of this site..its beyond me, but sure you are a fighting Angel dear lol.. I’ll make a mental note not to ever bother you.. just in case :mrgreen:

          4. You are in no danger from me, Monique. You’re not a selfish idiot. I’ve always been partial to the archangel Michael, though. :mrgreen:

      2. You have to admit the whole gwenishavingahardtime character was played very well. I mean, I’m pretty sure some of you actually believed me…and I sure did get quite a “tard” reaction out of the key players on the site. I feel like I know you all so well now. I feel so warm & fuzzy! πŸ˜›

        1. All you did was get Morrigan out of lurkitude. Otherwise you just gave us someone else to bash. Pretty lame.

  164. holy crow! does anyone besides me think that concerned and come on are the same person? anyhow concerned seems to be misinformed. kidney damage intestinal damage? holy shit i want you for my new pediatrician. you are pretty bright. and if you would read my earlier post as far as ct scans it explains in detail the facts know so far. damage to internal organs is not so. the g-tube wow you are right on that one. he is not protecting his airway well and is aspirating some of the formula into his lungs. so the g-tube will keep him going until he is able to protect his airway 3 weeks till the next swallow study. we will know more then. hey i bet if you google skank concerned will pop up…lol. very cute. like i have said i am done with you. it’s best to keep your mouth shut when you have no idea what you are talking about….and now…Concerned Family Member Says:
    December 14th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
    Thanks April and I completely understand.

    JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.
    please feel free to give CORRECT INFO. please. i am getting tired of correcting you. google atm theft and pay for info to polk county? save your money when i was 18 before kids i might add. i hung with a guy (smoked pot with) who stole an atm machine from seaway market in grand ronde i drove him to see his dad in tacoma wa. he stayed when i came home i was met with polk county sheriffs. and i was found guilty. 10 years ago come on i did 50 days in jail 180 hrs community service and paid a shit load of money… i did my time done!… oh heres one you don’t know when i was 16 i cut some cookies in willamina middle school in my truck 8500.00 worth oh damage paid. also when i was 13 my dad found a dirty mag under my bed. i sure miss that playboy. I sure wish i was perfect like you. Goodnight, Keven

    1. Keven…as far as I can tell, ConcernedFM and ‘comeon’ are not the same person. Concerned is posting from several different IP addresses though, so it may take a while to track down his aliases, if he has any. As I said earlier, though, ‘comeon’ and ‘Wow’ ARE the same person. He may be using other screen names as well, but tracking them down will take time. The e-mail address listed for concerned is probably a fake though, since it is simply smith@yahoo.com. How original…right? I bet his first name is probably John, too….. πŸ™„

      1. wow what an original email.

  165. holy crow! does anyone besides me think that concerned and come on are the same person? anyhow concerned seems to be misinformed. kidney damage intestinal damage? holy shit i want you for my new pediatrician. you are pretty bright. and if you would read my earlier post as far as ct scans it explains in detail the facts know so far. damage to internal organs is not so. the g-tube wow you are right on that one. he is not protecting his airway well and is aspirating some of the formula into his lungs. so the g-tube will keep him going until he is able to protect his airway 3 weeks till the next swallow study. we will know more then. hey i bet if you google skank concerned will pop up…lol. very cute. like i have said i am done with you. it’s best to keep your mouth shut when you have no idea what you are talking about….and now…Concerned Family Member Says:
    December 14th, 2009 at 5:27 pm
    Thanks April and I completely understand.

    JJ I don’t have to prove or backup anything. If these strangers choose to believe me then great if they choose not to then they have been fooled. I guess as long as keven knows that he hasn’t fooled everyone then I’m happy. Take care all. When I have updates I will share them.
    please feel free to give CORRECT INFO. please. i am getting tired of correcting you. google atm theft and pay for info to polk county? save your money when i was 18 before kids i might add. i hung with a guy (smoked pot with) who stole an atm machine from seaway market in grand ronde i drove him to see his dad in tacoma wa. he stayed when i came home i was met with polk county sheriffs. and i was found guilty. 10 years ago come on i did 50 days in jail 180 hrs community service and paid a shit load of money… i did my time done!… oh heres one you don’t know when i was 16 i cut some cookies in willamina middle school in my truck 8500.00 worth oh damage paid. also when i was 13 my dad found a dirty mag under my bed. i sure miss that playboy. I sure wish i was perfect like you. Goodnight, Keven

    1. Keven…as far as I can tell, ConcernedFM and ‘comeon’ are not the same person. Concerned is posting from several different IP addresses though, so it may take a while to track down his aliases, if he has any. As I said earlier, though, ‘comeon’ and ‘Wow’ ARE the same person. He may be using other screen names as well, but tracking them down will take time. The e-mail address listed for concerned is probably a fake though, since it is simply smith@yahoo.com. How original…right? I bet his first name is probably John, too….. πŸ™„

      1. wow what an original email.

  166. See, that’s why I’m reserving judgement on Keven.

    Angel, no words, my dear. No words.

  167. See, that’s why I’m reserving judgement on Keven.

    Angel, no words, my dear. No words.

  168. Bwahahahaaaaa….

    Keven, did I hear that you also picked up a tranvestite hooker and she kicked your ass for some blow and a $20 bill?? Oh, wait….. There I go spreading rumors again. Sorry.

    1. i did’t know that she umm he umm she was a tranny damn it! and it was 50 and heroin. get it right. SHESH 😈

  169. Bwahahahaaaaa….

    Keven, did I hear that you also picked up a tranvestite hooker and she kicked your ass for some blow and a $20 bill?? Oh, wait….. There I go spreading rumors again. Sorry.

    1. i did’t know that she umm he umm she was a tranny damn it! and it was 50 and heroin. get it right. SHESH 😈

  170. Concerned Family Member

    Hello again from me and the pineapple that is sideways in my ass. That was a good one. πŸ™‚

    Angel you are correct, I have only used one screen name and my blogs are coming from only two locations.

    Obviously I didn’t put much thought into the address I gave, I would hope that If I had put much thought into it I would have come up with something better than smith. Like Johsnon…lol.

    I have already stated the reasons for not giving my name. There are other family members involved that would be horribly hurt by all of the comments made on this blog, not just mine. And as much as I despise the piece of shit who claims to be a good dad, I love my family.

    Keven I’m so proud of you for fessing up…oh wait…it was only half assed. I am so impressed by your terms of endearment for me…ditto darling. Keep blowing smoke, I never realized how good you were at it. I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later.

    Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date.

    Angel I’m intrigued that you can find out which names are coming from the same pc’s. Computer technology is not a strong point. How do you do it?

    1. Pineapple sideways??? Ouch. Remind me not to ask you for a pina colada. Ewwwwww. πŸ˜†

    2. Ancient Chinese secret…..and don’t squeeze the Charmin. :mrgreen:

  171. Hello again from me and the pineapple that is sideways in my ass. That was a good one. πŸ™‚

    Angel you are correct, I have only used one screen name and my blogs are coming from only two locations.

    Obviously I didn’t put much thought into the address I gave, I would hope that If I had put much thought into it I would have come up with something better than smith. Like Johsnon…lol.

    I have already stated the reasons for not giving my name. There are other family members involved that would be horribly hurt by all of the comments made on this blog, not just mine. And as much as I despise the piece of shit who claims to be a good dad, I love my family.

    Keven I’m so proud of you for fessing up…oh wait…it was only half assed. I am so impressed by your terms of endearment for me…ditto darling. Keep blowing smoke, I never realized how good you were at it. I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later.

    Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date.

    Angel I’m intrigued that you can find out which names are coming from the same pc’s. Computer technology is not a strong point. How do you do it?

    1. Pineapple sideways??? Ouch. Remind me not to ask you for a pina colada. Ewwwwww. πŸ˜†

    2. Ancient Chinese secret…..and don’t squeeze the Charmin. :mrgreen:

  172. Concerned Family Member

    I understand; I wouldn’t want you to give away all of your secrets

    1. Actually, I had to call the psychic hotline to get all of my info. Try it sometime. πŸ˜†

  173. I understand; I wouldn’t want you to give away all of your secrets

    1. Actually, I had to call the psychic hotline to get all of my info. Try it sometime. πŸ˜†

  174. Concerned Family Member

    and April…it does give a whole new meaning to “how would you like it”? Doesn’t it??? lol.

    1. The visual is more than I can take. Pineapple. Owwwwwwwwwchhhhhhh. They are sort of…. Pointy.

  175. and April…it does give a whole new meaning to “how would you like it”? Doesn’t it??? lol.

    1. The visual is more than I can take. Pineapple. Owwwwwwwwwchhhhhhh. They are sort of…. Pointy.

  176. oh it’s you again hows the pineapple? you said…Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date. you were not supposed to smoke that pineapple, please inform me of the date and reasoning behind meeting the da. I myself am unaware of any such date…next you said… I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later… fuck yeah it was. DO I NEED TO RESPECT YOU? no you come on here and attack me with lies. i will give you credit for some good dirt on me however it would seem that quite some time has gone by since then and perhaps i have satisfied the courts and most importantly i have grown from these times in my life. i have paid my debt to society. but back to my explosion when someone attacks someone and they fight back thats typically defending their self. you say some bullshit that i have harmed my children and not been caught. i say fuck you and your pineapple. you lie. you also say you hate me but love your family? well where the fuck are you? oh thats right you are focusing on the problem at hand. sure you can say i’m an asshole damn straight some skank comes around talking shit about my family you get the asshole Keven… you and your pineapple have sweet dreams K

  177. oh it’s you again hows the pineapple? you said…Is now a bad time to ask how the meeting with the DA went or has it not happened yet?? Dang I couldn’t remember the date. you were not supposed to smoke that pineapple, please inform me of the date and reasoning behind meeting the da. I myself am unaware of any such date…next you said… I do have to say that explosion towards me was the real Keven. I knew he would come out to play sooner or later… fuck yeah it was. DO I NEED TO RESPECT YOU? no you come on here and attack me with lies. i will give you credit for some good dirt on me however it would seem that quite some time has gone by since then and perhaps i have satisfied the courts and most importantly i have grown from these times in my life. i have paid my debt to society. but back to my explosion when someone attacks someone and they fight back thats typically defending their self. you say some bullshit that i have harmed my children and not been caught. i say fuck you and your pineapple. you lie. you also say you hate me but love your family? well where the fuck are you? oh thats right you are focusing on the problem at hand. sure you can say i’m an asshole damn straight some skank comes around talking shit about my family you get the asshole Keven… you and your pineapple have sweet dreams K

  178. Well concerned family member has nailed it if you ask me! So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it. Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances) but I suppose if we can make something positive from this other than making people aware of the dangers of drinking and driving why not. In my opinion the positve here is we get to call keven out on the terrible things he has done! I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it, I think that these children deserve positive role models! Keven you have made mistakes in the past I don’t believe your “I am a changed man” ACT! Enrolling in school does not make you intelligent or give you a free pass to be a controlling lying manipulative jerk. You are 100% a true class act! I would like to add that you asked for this keven you posted numerous blogs portraying yourself as the “good guy” come on you know the truth too and karma is a ????

    1. then don’t believe. that is your opinion and your right and to me it does not matter. not to worry it’s not just you i’ve got a whole list of people who’s opinion i can do without. do you care to hear my opinion of you? didn’t think so

    2. I have some issues that i need to have resolved…My questions will be in caps (sorry)

      re: REALLY???
      So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it.

      WHY NOT? IF YOU “KNEW” THINGS WERE HAPPENING WHY DIDNT YOU DO ANYTHING??

      Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances)

      ONLY AFTER A CHILD IS INJURED…IF YOU HAD SAID SOMETHING PRIOR TO THIS INCEDENT YOU COULD HAVE PREVENTED IT…CORRECT??

      I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it

      ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE? FROM YOUR EARLIER STATEMENT IM LED TO BELIEVE THAT. AGAIN, IF YOU KNEW SOMETHING WAS GOING ON, WHY DID YOU NOT COME FORWARD.

      If these questions have already been addressed, I apologize. There is just something “off” about these statements and I would like them clarified.

  179. Well concerned family member has nailed it if you ask me! So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it. Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances) but I suppose if we can make something positive from this other than making people aware of the dangers of drinking and driving why not. In my opinion the positve here is we get to call keven out on the terrible things he has done! I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it, I think that these children deserve positive role models! Keven you have made mistakes in the past I don’t believe your “I am a changed man” ACT! Enrolling in school does not make you intelligent or give you a free pass to be a controlling lying manipulative jerk. You are 100% a true class act! I would like to add that you asked for this keven you posted numerous blogs portraying yourself as the “good guy” come on you know the truth too and karma is a ????

    1. then don’t believe. that is your opinion and your right and to me it does not matter. not to worry it’s not just you i’ve got a whole list of people who’s opinion i can do without. do you care to hear my opinion of you? didn’t think so

    2. I have some issues that i need to have resolved…My questions will be in caps (sorry)

      re: REALLY???
      So many of us knew about these horrible things that had been taking place in the past but couldn’t do anything about it.

      WHY NOT? IF YOU “KNEW” THINGS WERE HAPPENING WHY DIDNT YOU DO ANYTHING??

      Now is our chance to finally speak (under horrible circumstances)

      ONLY AFTER A CHILD IS INJURED…IF YOU HAD SAID SOMETHING PRIOR TO THIS INCEDENT YOU COULD HAVE PREVENTED IT…CORRECT??

      I think that its a shame that the people that have witnessed it 1st hand and could have stepped in have turned their heads & accepted it

      ARE YOU ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE? FROM YOUR EARLIER STATEMENT IM LED TO BELIEVE THAT. AGAIN, IF YOU KNEW SOMETHING WAS GOING ON, WHY DID YOU NOT COME FORWARD.

      If these questions have already been addressed, I apologize. There is just something “off” about these statements and I would like them clarified.

  180. Ok yall gotta get some sleep we have a big day tomarrow. Kameron is resting well right now so i think i should do the same. I will post revelant news tomarrow. i’m done babbling at concerned…and the pineapple..lol

  181. Ok yall gotta get some sleep we have a big day tomarrow. Kameron is resting well right now so i think i should do the same. I will post revelant news tomarrow. i’m done babbling at concerned…and the pineapple..lol

  182. OK, I really think that this has gotten way out of hand, so far off the situation, and in my opinion i think that certain people should just let it go. In the end the truth, rather it be that kevin is putting up a front, or he is a changed man,it will come out.I think that picking out punctuation errors and rather someone is using there real name, is just nit picking. This blog i thought was about Kameron? this is my last blog.

  183. OK, I really think that this has gotten way out of hand, so far off the situation, and in my opinion i think that certain people should just let it go. In the end the truth, rather it be that kevin is putting up a front, or he is a changed man,it will come out.I think that picking out punctuation errors and rather someone is using there real name, is just nit picking. This blog i thought was about Kameron? this is my last blog.

  184. surgery today at 2:30 he had a really good nights sleep. say a prayer for my little men please. thanks

    1. Of course. He seems to be a fighter. THat’s a good thing!! πŸ˜€

  185. surgery today at 2:30 he had a really good nights sleep. say a prayer for my little men please. thanks

    1. Of course. He seems to be a fighter. THat’s a good thing!! πŸ˜€

  186. Praying for your entire family, even Amber.

    1. I know i’ll probably catch hell over saying this but she needs prayers to and thanks JJ. We are getting her into treatment I do plan to work with her as well as you may know support is a big factor in ones recovery. and I will be by her side despite what ever shit I may get along the way. She is my family and i fight for my family. I am just now learning how many appointments there are going to be. all i can say is it’s gonna be tough but it will be done. so perhaps to the few that seem to only want to bash me about mistakes in the past and then lie on top of that. i think things are going to be tough enough without your comments. so i will no longer be responding to the bs and no more pineapple cracks. I am very thankful for my own support system Family, Friends and Coworkers. They help me go on. and to all of you i thank you for your continued support and i love you guys. a few friends have wondered if Amber and I will stay together. My answer is yes when we got married it was through sickness and in health till death do us part. she has stuck with me through tough times and i plan to support her and help her through her own troubles. We all make mistakes some are just bigger than others. And i can’t think oh anything else that would make someone want to change than what we have and are going through. I love my family and i’m not going to run out on anybody. Treatment works people i’ve been there I know. but it only works if you want it to and you have support from family and friends. so with that being said i’ll let you all know how the surgery went this afternoon.

      1. good for you keven. good thoughts and prayers for you and the baby

  187. Praying for your entire family, even Amber.

    1. I know i’ll probably catch hell over saying this but she needs prayers to and thanks JJ. We are getting her into treatment I do plan to work with her as well as you may know support is a big factor in ones recovery. and I will be by her side despite what ever shit I may get along the way. She is my family and i fight for my family. I am just now learning how many appointments there are going to be. all i can say is it’s gonna be tough but it will be done. so perhaps to the few that seem to only want to bash me about mistakes in the past and then lie on top of that. i think things are going to be tough enough without your comments. so i will no longer be responding to the bs and no more pineapple cracks. I am very thankful for my own support system Family, Friends and Coworkers. They help me go on. and to all of you i thank you for your continued support and i love you guys. a few friends have wondered if Amber and I will stay together. My answer is yes when we got married it was through sickness and in health till death do us part. she has stuck with me through tough times and i plan to support her and help her through her own troubles. We all make mistakes some are just bigger than others. And i can’t think oh anything else that would make someone want to change than what we have and are going through. I love my family and i’m not going to run out on anybody. Treatment works people i’ve been there I know. but it only works if you want it to and you have support from family and friends. so with that being said i’ll let you all know how the surgery went this afternoon.

      1. good for you keven. good thoughts and prayers for you and the baby

  188. Keven, how did the surgery go????

    1. it’s only 1:23 here now he has got another hour before they come get him so i’ll let yall know

  189. Keven, how did the surgery go????

    1. it’s only 1:23 here now he has got another hour before they come get him so i’ll let yall know

  190. So everybody, just for the sake of clarification and minds that inquire, Keven Gandy is who he says he is. Changes have not been filed against Amber Lee yet, however she was 3 X the legal limit and as we already know, another illegal substance was in her blood test as well.
    Charges are still expected to be filed.
    Keven and Amber are still married, they, as Keven admitted, had their problems, she put out a restraining order on him in 2004, but who here hasn’t had “those moments”?
    Keven, let me please express my sorrow about what has happened as well as alot of hasty judgement. I do think someone who was interfering with communication posting as April, and others didn’t help, but hurt.
    But in anycase, Keven is the “real deal” and I think we all owe him an apology, if we look back at the original comments, most were very harsh and judgemental. Keven, may God Bless what you have and turn what was meant for evil into good.
    God will honor you since you have honored those little ones. Your wife needs help, I hope she finds it.
    This info was per Steve Card at the Newport News who wrote the article back on Nov. 20th. (in Article 1)
    Keven, keep us posted!!! πŸ™‚

  191. So everybody, just for the sake of clarification and minds that inquire, Keven Gandy is who he says he is. Changes have not been filed against Amber Lee yet, however she was 3 X the legal limit and as we already know, another illegal substance was in her blood test as well.
    Charges are still expected to be filed.
    Keven and Amber are still married, they, as Keven admitted, had their problems, she put out a restraining order on him in 2004, but who here hasn’t had “those moments”?
    Keven, let me please express my sorrow about what has happened as well as alot of hasty judgement. I do think someone who was interfering with communication posting as April, and others didn’t help, but hurt.
    But in anycase, Keven is the “real deal” and I think we all owe him an apology, if we look back at the original comments, most were very harsh and judgemental. Keven, may God Bless what you have and turn what was meant for evil into good.
    God will honor you since you have honored those little ones. Your wife needs help, I hope she finds it.
    This info was per Steve Card at the Newport News who wrote the article back on Nov. 20th. (in Article 1)
    Keven, keep us posted!!! πŸ™‚

  192. Wow, Keven. I have a whole new respect for you and wish you all the best. I really am sorry that you are going through this nightmare. I hope that Amber appreciates you and is truly sorry for what she is putting you and your family through.

  193. Wow, Keven. I have a whole new respect for you and wish you all the best. I really am sorry that you are going through this nightmare. I hope that Amber appreciates you and is truly sorry for what she is putting you and your family through.

  194. By the way, Keven and all and to Concerned family member, we have April to thank and ONLY April for this turnaround and allowing Keven the opportunity to tell his side. April, you are the best, and Keven, if you can even begin to forgive us, I will have an additional new level of respect for YOU! So sorry this happened,
    hey folks, no joke here, could we set up a fund? just a little from each of us could mean alot for this family, especially since it’s Christmas, not a pity fund Keven, a we-care-and-we-need-to-show-it-fund.
    Anyone in?

    1. I can’t be the best…. There are too many better than me. Take Karen and Kathy who take in so many children that need love, Angel who does a great job writing these stories, You – keeping a positive outlook in spite of health worries and snow, Trench for creating this fantastic site for us all to be voices for so many chldren, Morrigan for just being Morrigan, JJ because she just friggin’ rocks…. I could go on and on. :mrgreen:

  195. By the way, Keven and all and to Concerned family member, we have April to thank and ONLY April for this turnaround and allowing Keven the opportunity to tell his side. April, you are the best, and Keven, if you can even begin to forgive us, I will have an additional new level of respect for YOU! So sorry this happened,
    hey folks, no joke here, could we set up a fund? just a little from each of us could mean alot for this family, especially since it’s Christmas, not a pity fund Keven, a we-care-and-we-need-to-show-it-fund.
    Anyone in?

    1. I can’t be the best…. There are too many better than me. Take Karen and Kathy who take in so many children that need love, Angel who does a great job writing these stories, You – keeping a positive outlook in spite of health worries and snow, Trench for creating this fantastic site for us all to be voices for so many chldren, Morrigan for just being Morrigan, JJ because she just friggin’ rocks…. I could go on and on. :mrgreen:

  196. we are minutes away from surgery i’m very nervous he’s sleeping comfortably. i’m snagging his meds the next time i see the nurse… just joking. FORGIVEN

    1. My prayers are with you…..and try to ignore the doomsayers on this thread who seem to be hell-bent on derailing your efforts to preserve your family. I sincerely hope that Amber realizes what a wonderful husband she has. Many husbands would have already left. Bless you, and bless your family.

  197. we are minutes away from surgery i’m very nervous he’s sleeping comfortably. i’m snagging his meds the next time i see the nurse… just joking. FORGIVEN

    1. My prayers are with you…..and try to ignore the doomsayers on this thread who seem to be hell-bent on derailing your efforts to preserve your family. I sincerely hope that Amber realizes what a wonderful husband she has. Many husbands would have already left. Bless you, and bless your family.

  198. Keven, my husband and I wish you and Kameron (that’s spelled right, I hope) the best of luck. I’m so sorry this happened.

  199. Keven, my husband and I wish you and Kameron (that’s spelled right, I hope) the best of luck. I’m so sorry this happened.

  200. Keven, Our God is good and our circumstances are so small compared to God’s circumstances. He loves the little children most of all, He Will make a way for Kameron. I have a personal story that a nephew of mine went thru with more threat to his health than Kameron’s, guess what? He’s being his usual little bugger self now! only 3 months later!!! Believe!

  201. Keven, Our God is good and our circumstances are so small compared to God’s circumstances. He loves the little children most of all, He Will make a way for Kameron. I have a personal story that a nephew of mine went thru with more threat to his health than Kameron’s, guess what? He’s being his usual little bugger self now! only 3 months later!!! Believe!

  202. i think it was ANGEL that did the investigative work.

  203. i think it was ANGEL that did the investigative work.

  204. Yes, Angel did the investigative work, April did he peace-making work. Thanks for the partially correct comment.

    1. I didn’t need to do any peace-making work, because (according to jj, anyway) I’m always too nice anyway. I don’t think I was ever even rude…just a little sarcastic (and what’s a little sarcasm among friends, right?)

      Thanks, y’all. I’m really blessed to have such good friends.

      Just call me Dick Tracy….ummmmm, Sherlock Holmes…….ummmmmm, Agatha Christie. Nah, just keep calling me Angel – I don’t need any extra personalities.

      Kev – how’s little Kameron doing? Is he out of surgery, yet?

  205. Yes, Angel did the investigative work, April did he peace-making work. Thanks for the partially correct comment.

    1. I didn’t need to do any peace-making work, because (according to jj, anyway) I’m always too nice anyway. I don’t think I was ever even rude…just a little sarcastic (and what’s a little sarcasm among friends, right?)

      Thanks, y’all. I’m really blessed to have such good friends.

      Just call me Dick Tracy….ummmmm, Sherlock Holmes…….ummmmmm, Agatha Christie. Nah, just keep calling me Angel – I don’t need any extra personalities.

      Kev – how’s little Kameron doing? Is he out of surgery, yet?

  206. as i was saying keven, angel is quite the little investigator and i believe other than a select one or two, we never doubted you to sstart with (other than your secret friends with many names). prayers are with you.

  207. as i was saying keven, angel is quite the little investigator and i believe other than a select one or two, we never doubted you to sstart with (other than your secret friends with many names). prayers are with you.

  208. HEY!! Angel and I both fucking rock. Let’s face it.

    Where is CFM?? We haven’t heard from him / her for a while. Keven…. Anyone there?? How is little K??

  209. HEY!! Angel and I both fucking rock. Let’s face it.

    Where is CFM?? We haven’t heard from him / her for a while. Keven…. Anyone there?? How is little K??

  210. Angel, I’ll try again, my post above said that “yes Angel did the investigative work, and April did the peacemaking

  211. Angel, I’ll try again, my post above said that “yes Angel did the investigative work, and April did the peacemaking

  212. oops!!! I did not say that Angel did the peacemaking, I know Angel, I often get yours and April’s name mixed up, but not this time.
    And Karen, you are forgetting all of your posts about Keven from the 11th to the 12th.
    Are taking April up on her offer to spank me with that Olive Branch? In a roundabout way?

  213. oops!!! I did not say that Angel did the peacemaking, I know Angel, I often get yours and April’s name mixed up, but not this time.
    And Karen, you are forgetting all of your posts about Keven from the 11th to the 12th.
    Are taking April up on her offer to spank me with that Olive Branch? In a roundabout way?

  214. Back to topic, Keven you must be so impressed with all of us, sorry for the interruptions, How is Kameron? I feel strongly he will be better by tonite, and even better tomorrow and in the days to come!

  215. Back to topic, Keven you must be so impressed with all of us, sorry for the interruptions, How is Kameron? I feel strongly he will be better by tonite, and even better tomorrow and in the days to come!

  216. ok heres the scoop he didn’t get into surgery when he was supposed to but was in and out in 40 minutes. WOW. surgeons said piece of cake he is a bit grumpy but resting now so thats outstanding. we are looking at going home within the next 2 days depending upon him tolerating his feedings thanks to all for your prayers and concern. will keep you posted

  217. ok heres the scoop he didn’t get into surgery when he was supposed to but was in and out in 40 minutes. WOW. surgeons said piece of cake he is a bit grumpy but resting now so thats outstanding. we are looking at going home within the next 2 days depending upon him tolerating his feedings thanks to all for your prayers and concern. will keep you posted

  218. Keven, See? Between today’s technology and God’s guiding hands, Kameron will be back to normal in no time!!! Thanks for the update. Any turns, let us know. πŸ˜†

  219. Keven, See? Between today’s technology and God’s guiding hands, Kameron will be back to normal in no time!!! Thanks for the update. Any turns, let us know. πŸ˜†

  220. hi keven. glad to hear things went well today. i hope he adjusts well to the feeding and tube and you’re able to go home soon. get some rest and keep the updates coming. how are your other children doing?

    1. kids are doing very well thank you. they had a christmas play at school today and had a very good time. it sucks i was unable to attend it. however grandma and mom were able. so i guess i’ll have to wait till next time. these kidos are going to have an amazing christmas thats all i have to say. (spoiled rotten) they sooooo deserve it they are amazing little critters. and best of all i get what i want for x-mas my little man home and safe. πŸ˜‰

  221. hi keven. glad to hear things went well today. i hope he adjusts well to the feeding and tube and you’re able to go home soon. get some rest and keep the updates coming. how are your other children doing?

    1. kids are doing very well thank you. they had a christmas play at school today and had a very good time. it sucks i was unable to attend it. however grandma and mom were able. so i guess i’ll have to wait till next time. these kidos are going to have an amazing christmas thats all i have to say. (spoiled rotten) they sooooo deserve it they are amazing little critters. and best of all i get what i want for x-mas my little man home and safe. πŸ˜‰

  222. Concerned Family Member

    I don’t even know where to begin….I’m not a bad person and I wish that I wouldn’t have got wrapped up in the back and forth crap. I told myself I wouldn’t….wish I would have listened.

    All of the information I stated was true to my knowledge. I had no reason to doubt my family when they told this information to me. Keven has taken every one of my punches better than most would especially under these circumstances.

    I do care about Kameron as well as his sisters and his brother. I think about them every day, several times a day and wish them only the best.

    I agree that Amber needs help and I pray that she gets it and embraces it for her sake and her family’s.

    Keven I pray that you have changed as you have stated. Please know that the information I received came from someone very close to you and Amber and it makes me sick to think that things were lied about especially concerning Kameron’s condition.

    1. well i said i was done responding to comments from CFM but there was a slightly different tone here. never once did i ever state that i was not without fault. i am as far from perfect as they come. but what i can promise you is this is not the same guy i was 10 years 5 years 3 years even 30 days ago. and that I will do whatever it takes to keep my family together to keep my children safe and to help them grow spiritually. Amber will be getting help we are well in the works of that I am prepared to help her with anything that may come up she has got a long road ahead of her and she needs me. you also state that i have taken you punches well under these circumstances. perhaps you don’t know me very well after all. when it comes to my family i am a rock. I was put here to care for them I will protect them and comfort them as needed. I will say there was a time that i was shakey to say the least but since have grown in more ways than one. Here is another well known FACT there are certain family members which don’t care for me. another FACT is i don’t give two shakes about them either. such is life and it is good. as strange as it may sound. everything is as it should be. there is a reason for everything God has reasons it may just take some time to figure them out. I do not hold any grudges with anyone on this blog for the simple fact i’ve made bigger mistakes than being misinformed.

  223. I don’t even know where to begin….I’m not a bad person and I wish that I wouldn’t have got wrapped up in the back and forth crap. I told myself I wouldn’t….wish I would have listened.

    All of the information I stated was true to my knowledge. I had no reason to doubt my family when they told this information to me. Keven has taken every one of my punches better than most would especially under these circumstances.

    I do care about Kameron as well as his sisters and his brother. I think about them every day, several times a day and wish them only the best.

    I agree that Amber needs help and I pray that she gets it and embraces it for her sake and her family’s.

    Keven I pray that you have changed as you have stated. Please know that the information I received came from someone very close to you and Amber and it makes me sick to think that things were lied about especially concerning Kameron’s condition.

    1. well i said i was done responding to comments from CFM but there was a slightly different tone here. never once did i ever state that i was not without fault. i am as far from perfect as they come. but what i can promise you is this is not the same guy i was 10 years 5 years 3 years even 30 days ago. and that I will do whatever it takes to keep my family together to keep my children safe and to help them grow spiritually. Amber will be getting help we are well in the works of that I am prepared to help her with anything that may come up she has got a long road ahead of her and she needs me. you also state that i have taken you punches well under these circumstances. perhaps you don’t know me very well after all. when it comes to my family i am a rock. I was put here to care for them I will protect them and comfort them as needed. I will say there was a time that i was shakey to say the least but since have grown in more ways than one. Here is another well known FACT there are certain family members which don’t care for me. another FACT is i don’t give two shakes about them either. such is life and it is good. as strange as it may sound. everything is as it should be. there is a reason for everything God has reasons it may just take some time to figure them out. I do not hold any grudges with anyone on this blog for the simple fact i’ve made bigger mistakes than being misinformed.

  224. I can certainly speak for myself, and if I were you, I’d feel at the least, more indignation that you display. I am sure neither you, nor Keven nor any of us are perfect. We are all flawed. He that can (honestly) cast the first stone hasn’t really been honest, till now. I know I cannot cast that first stone. I was wrong to doubt the concerns you, Keven and any other family member who is being truthful. I would not be as gracious as you at this point.
    I just know that I have determined via some facts, that Keven is who he says he is, and that his story is what it is, flawed, just like the rest of us. But Keven is trying to hold the pieces of this fragmented story together, the best he can. You know, being reserved, and waiting for some geniune actions is perfectly understandable. You have been throught the mill, outside and inside of this thread. Together, every person who posted on this blog owns a piece of the pie, and if anyone thinks otherwise, then, real character wouldn’t have a chance. I say to you, before my God, (drama there, yes) but that I do mean every word I have said from this morning on and as I said earlier today to Keven, to even consider forgiveness of us would elevate him to a level of esteem I myself do not have.

  225. I can certainly speak for myself, and if I were you, I’d feel at the least, more indignation that you display. I am sure neither you, nor Keven nor any of us are perfect. We are all flawed. He that can (honestly) cast the first stone hasn’t really been honest, till now. I know I cannot cast that first stone. I was wrong to doubt the concerns you, Keven and any other family member who is being truthful. I would not be as gracious as you at this point.
    I just know that I have determined via some facts, that Keven is who he says he is, and that his story is what it is, flawed, just like the rest of us. But Keven is trying to hold the pieces of this fragmented story together, the best he can. You know, being reserved, and waiting for some geniune actions is perfectly understandable. You have been throught the mill, outside and inside of this thread. Together, every person who posted on this blog owns a piece of the pie, and if anyone thinks otherwise, then, real character wouldn’t have a chance. I say to you, before my God, (drama there, yes) but that I do mean every word I have said from this morning on and as I said earlier today to Keven, to even consider forgiveness of us would elevate him to a level of esteem I myself do not have.

  226. Keven – Thank God little K is doing well. I hope and pray that he continues to improve.

    Concerned – I am in awe of your last post. Wow… just…. Wow. What a big person you are to admit to your part in the negative posts here and to offer such kind words to Keven. We should all learn from you. What a class act. My hat’s off to you.

    This is one of my favorite threads. Here I was expecting all sort of ass-hattery and there are some pretty awesome people posting here. Much love to all of you. πŸ˜€

  227. Keven – Thank God little K is doing well. I hope and pray that he continues to improve.

    Concerned – I am in awe of your last post. Wow… just…. Wow. What a big person you are to admit to your part in the negative posts here and to offer such kind words to Keven. We should all learn from you. What a class act. My hat’s off to you.

    This is one of my favorite threads. Here I was expecting all sort of ass-hattery and there are some pretty awesome people posting here. Much love to all of you. πŸ˜€

  228. And then Keven comes back with another awesome comment. That is awesome that the two of you have some to this place. What an improvement from a few days ago. Kudos. I believe that this is best for little Kameron. The last thing he needs is a family that does nothing but fight. πŸ™

  229. And then Keven comes back with another awesome comment. That is awesome that the two of you have some to this place. What an improvement from a few days ago. Kudos. I believe that this is best for little Kameron. The last thing he needs is a family that does nothing but fight. πŸ™

  230. Keven and Concerned, You can only go UP from here, right? Am I correct in seeing that this problem is between the two of you? Everyone has their degree of problems, yet I remember once, after I’d really done some wrong stuf, my Dad said to me “well, the thing is, is that you saw what didn’t work, you evaluated it, and then you took the necessary steps to correct it.” What wise words. Can you each embrace at least that much? Too much to live for, not enough to stop living for.
    Much of my love and prayers for reconciliations, they will take time, but all things that have value take time.

  231. Keven and Concerned, You can only go UP from here, right? Am I correct in seeing that this problem is between the two of you? Everyone has their degree of problems, yet I remember once, after I’d really done some wrong stuf, my Dad said to me “well, the thing is, is that you saw what didn’t work, you evaluated it, and then you took the necessary steps to correct it.” What wise words. Can you each embrace at least that much? Too much to live for, not enough to stop living for.
    Much of my love and prayers for reconciliations, they will take time, but all things that have value take time.

  232. ok….that’s it….i’m busting out the popcorn and koolaid….

  233. ok….that’s it….i’m busting out the popcorn and koolaid….

  234. Yes, Keven, you would not be the person you are today except for your past mistakes, in which you have been extremely honest. Each experience in life is a stepping stone to the better experience. Keep going.

  235. Yes, Keven, you would not be the person you are today except for your past mistakes, in which you have been extremely honest. Each experience in life is a stepping stone to the better experience. Keep going.

  236. Karen, Enjoy!!! πŸ™‚

  237. Karen, Enjoy!!! πŸ™‚

  238. “special” koolaid??? πŸ˜‰

  239. “special” koolaid??? πŸ˜‰

  240. very special….it’s green and turns your tongue green….goodnight all!!!

  241. very special….it’s green and turns your tongue green….goodnight all!!!

  242. Hey, Special Koolaid? I didn’t know about that… I have heard of “Special Brownies”, but not “Special Koolaid”…sounds interesting! πŸ˜‰

  243. Hey, Special Koolaid? I didn’t know about that… I have heard of “Special Brownies”, but not “Special Koolaid”…sounds interesting! πŸ˜‰

  244. Keven, I did not forget you or Kameron. What’s the status? How’s he feeling? How are YOU?
    hang in there, Kathy πŸ˜€

  245. Keven, I did not forget you or Kameron. What’s the status? How’s he feeling? How are YOU?
    hang in there, Kathy πŸ˜€

  246. Kameron is doing much better today. me too πŸ˜€ we should be going home on friday. they are just trying to get all the follow ups scheduled. so thats all we are waiting on. oh and you bet i asked if we had to be here for that. and they said we don’t but we do got to love it. bad news if you take it that was is the neck brace has to stay on for another week and a half before they will take new films damn neuro surgeons anyway just who do they think they are rocket scientist’s. oh well better safe than sorry we’ve come to far to take any chances. i’m just happy to see him playing with things and eating his hands again lol. thank God for miracles. just waiting for all the docs to finish up their work and we are gone. yeehaa.

  247. Kameron is doing much better today. me too πŸ˜€ we should be going home on friday. they are just trying to get all the follow ups scheduled. so thats all we are waiting on. oh and you bet i asked if we had to be here for that. and they said we don’t but we do got to love it. bad news if you take it that was is the neck brace has to stay on for another week and a half before they will take new films damn neuro surgeons anyway just who do they think they are rocket scientist’s. oh well better safe than sorry we’ve come to far to take any chances. i’m just happy to see him playing with things and eating his hands again lol. thank God for miracles. just waiting for all the docs to finish up their work and we are gone. yeehaa.

  248. Keven, Thanks for the update, they do like to chew, slobber on their hands don’t they? Thanks for the update, sounds alot better, I’d predicted this earlier in a post if you remember, not because I know anything at all about medicine, I just experienced my nephew in a coma for over a week and half, was supposed to be blind, brain damaged, and that was about 3 months ago, now he is perfectly normal. Amazing how they bounce back! Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, eh? God is Blessing you, take care of you and yours, Kathy πŸ˜›

  249. Keven, Thanks for the update, they do like to chew, slobber on their hands don’t they? Thanks for the update, sounds alot better, I’d predicted this earlier in a post if you remember, not because I know anything at all about medicine, I just experienced my nephew in a coma for over a week and half, was supposed to be blind, brain damaged, and that was about 3 months ago, now he is perfectly normal. Amazing how they bounce back! Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you stronger, eh? God is Blessing you, take care of you and yours, Kathy πŸ˜›

  250. Keven / CFM – any word on K??? will he be going home tomorrow? Amber??? What’s up with her? Is she still in jail. Is she home? Keep us posted!

    *hugs to all* πŸ™‚

    1. Amber has yet to be charged with anything. has not been to jail. anyhow Kameron will be going home tomarrow finally a whole month here he has quite a road ahead of him but i know we will get through it. i got the new carseat, new tires, oil, lots of new toys, planner to keep track of doctor appointments, did i say lots of new toys? he gets some early πŸ˜‰ . but we are going home home home. i’m very excited aboout getting into his own environment with his screaming, running and yelling brothers and sisters. i can feel the hairs on my head turning gray just thinking about it. lol. Good stuff. πŸ˜€

  251. Keven / CFM – any word on K??? will he be going home tomorrow? Amber??? What’s up with her? Is she still in jail. Is she home? Keep us posted!

    *hugs to all* πŸ™‚

    1. Amber has yet to be charged with anything. has not been to jail. anyhow Kameron will be going home tomarrow finally a whole month here he has quite a road ahead of him but i know we will get through it. i got the new carseat, new tires, oil, lots of new toys, planner to keep track of doctor appointments, did i say lots of new toys? he gets some early πŸ˜‰ . but we are going home home home. i’m very excited aboout getting into his own environment with his screaming, running and yelling brothers and sisters. i can feel the hairs on my head turning gray just thinking about it. lol. Good stuff. πŸ˜€

  252. All Good Stuff!!!! thanks, saw you on the open thread….nice to see you there!

  253. All Good Stuff!!!! thanks, saw you on the open thread….nice to see you there!